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    Default Re: To dancers: Do u give a better lap dance....

    Quote Originally Posted by Biggieman View Post
    Personally, I just don't get how you guys can perform for some of these much older or nastier guys without even thinking twice. It's downright heroic, dammit. I've never understood how you do it, that's why I was interested in seeing previous threads about that, but I'll be damned if I can find one. I understand now that SOMEHOW y'allz can look past that, but I think other people (myself included before I knew better) just assume you'd prefer to dance for guys you find attractive, or at least guys who were reasonably in shape, etc.
    There is some truth to this. I don't care what a person looks like but I do care about age. I dont like dancing for older men. Late 30's is my limit to what I feel comfortable with. Any older and I start to get creeped out. I am weery of older men coz it's they that I have had bad experiences with in that they have tried to touch me or been really sleasy. I also have trouble making the dance really hot coz I dont relate to them and I feel awkward.

    But if they are under the age of 40 I dont have a preference in what my customers look like coz I'm not looking to date them.

    Have I found customers attractive before? Yes but it's been their personality and the way they acted that made me think of them as attractive. If a guy who I physically found extremely attractive acted cheap (as in griped or bargained over the cost of the dance), tried to touch and acted like a douche in general then he would receive a crappy air dance without much enthusiasm from me. I have to have boundaries at work and I have to feel safe and comfortable when dancing for someone or I can't do it properly.
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    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
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    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Default Re: To dancers: Do u give a better lap dance....

    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    i would totally do conan o'brien
    ...only after I finished with him! Pretty much the only celebrities on my "I'd hit that" list are Conan, and Alton Brown. Maybe I'm strange.

    erm, ok, what was the topic again? do I give better dances to guys I think are hot? Sure! I admit it. I don't give lousy dances to anyone (unless they're being uber-perverted and trying to lick and finger me). And I don't give extras to guys just b/c I think they're hot. But yeah, I do have more fun dancing for guys that I find attractive, so maybe that makes the difference between a hot dance and an uber-hot dance. I give the most sensual dances to guys that are overweight, just b/c I have a little fetish for that sort of thing. Whenever a girl at work is bitching that she had to dance for a fat guy, I'm like "send him over here dammit! I'll gladly wear him out for you."

    The best, most sensual/erotic dances I've ever given were to a sexy juggler from Sweden, who had long blond hair and gorgeous blue eyes, and was wearing a fedora and trench coat. That was the only time I've ever gotten really turned on during a dance. I'm not sure how much of that was him being hot and how much was due to me rolling my ass off on E at the time...but yeah. I've never actually been turned on by a customer besides that one time. He definitely got my very best uber-hot dances.

    But I still give great dances to everyone regardless of what they look like...as long as they're being respectful, I'll make sure they have a good time.

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