Results 1 to 6 of 6

Thread: Introductions

  1. #1
    God/dess jaizaine's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2006
    Location
    melbourne australia
    Posts
    10,144
    Thanks
    328
    Thanked 219 Times in 133 Posts

    Default Introductions

    What should I say when I approach you?

    My friends often walk up and say "what brings you here tonight?" but I thought that could be the customer equivalent of "why do u work here?". Is it a bad thing to say?

    I need help coz I only work busy nights and I rely on customers coming up to me and asking for dances. But it's coming into winter and it's been slower and I essentially have no hustle and I find it difficult to speak to customers - or people in general not just customers.

    I wish I could just stand there and look good but alas I will need to speak so please give me some suggestions.............
    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

  2. #2
    Member
    Joined
    Jun 2008
    Posts
    24
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Introductions

    Simple:

    Just be yourself!! I want to feel safe and comfortable with a dancer, and if she is being fake, i dont feel comfortable at all!....Just be yourself, i know it sounds easy, but this is coming from a "regular" at a club....I love girls that are themselves , and not try and be someone they are not.

    If the customer feels comfortable with you, he will get a dance, if he doesnt, forget about it.

    I get dances from girls i feel comfortable and such.

    Hope i helped. Msg me if you have any other Q's.

  3. #3
    Senior Member Biggieman's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2008
    Location
    Far from home
    Posts
    111
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Lightbulb Re: Introductions

    First things first, it's June and winter is approaching? I didn't realize Australia was that far away. Crikey, mate.

    For whatever reason, I like when a dancer just asks for my name, instead of "Wanna dance?" or "Do you mind if I sit with you?" Follow that up with a simple "How are you?" I like a little small talk before you dive in with the dance requests. I'm sure it's been mentioned as a hustling tip, but if you build a rapport with somebody, they will be more inclined to do a dance with you. I know that's how it is with me. If you show interest in me, whether it's bullshit or not, I appreciate it. It shows you're making an effort. If you ask questions and appear to actually be listening to my responses, it's almost a guarantee that I'll give you a go-around for at least one dance. If I've seen you on stage and tipped you, then it's a 100% certainty I'll give you a dance after we've subsequently talked for a bit. It's as easy as that, lovely.


  4. #4
    Member
    Joined
    Jul 2005
    Posts
    56
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: Introductions

    Quote Originally Posted by Biggieman View Post
    First things first, it's June and winter is approaching? I didn't realize Australia was that far away. Crikey, mate.
    You do realize that Australia is in the Southern Hemishere ? Distance has nothing to do with it.

    For Jaizaine, just introduce yourself. Follow it up with a comment about the weather or how dead the club is tonight or something about the latest cricket match. What you say isn't so important, the important thing is to smile and make eye contact. Offer your hand if allowed and you're comfortable doing it. No dead fish handshakes though. If he has any interest things will develop naturally from there.

  5. #5
    Member Kindred27's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2008
    Location
    Michigan
    Posts
    17
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Introductions

    This is what I usually tell my newer lady's if they are nervious about approching customers.

    1) Walk up introduce yourself (Hi my name is _____, Mind if I sit down) if they say yes then sit and have a small conversation.

    2) Don't ever bring up the dance right away a good way to bring it up is if you have been sitting there for 2 songs that should be enough time to get to know them and for you to get them into the "Dance Mood"

    3) If the customers don't seem interested you will know

    4) always ask the waitress what customer is paying for cash or credit, this is a good clue (if they brought out change to pay for there drink pass them by)

    I pretty much let my girls do there own thing when it comes to approching customers the rare times I have to help them out I usually escort them to a customer and introduce myself and then the lady. I have gotten some really good responce from that. (Having the manager come up an show interest in a customer is good repore)

    I hope this help you in brining in the cash.

  6. #6
    God/dess UtahMike's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2007
    Location
    Utah
    Posts
    2,998
    Thanks
    2
    Thanked 64 Times in 43 Posts
    My Mood
    Amused

    Default Re: Introductions

    "Hi, may I join you?" works pretty well for me.

    I suggest you wait until a guy has been able to order a drink before you approach him. I personally hate it to have a hot dancer approach me when I am trying to get the waitress' attention. I want to order a drink first, and then I want to drink it. THEN I want a hot dancer to come by.

    But if I have had my drink, I would like you to sit down with me, cuddle a little, talk a little, then ask if I want a dance. You're welcome to join me before that if you are willing to wait for the cocktail waitress, but most dancers don't want to do that.

Similar Threads

  1. Introductions
    By Limabean327 in forum Coming Out
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 06-15-2007, 07:45 PM
  2. College Introductions
    By AvaAdore in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 20
    Last Post: 04-23-2007, 10:00 PM
  3. Introductions are in order, I believe...
    By bridgetrx in forum Coming Out
    Replies: 3
    Last Post: 11-02-2005, 05:07 AM
  4. Introductions
    By DJ Capricious in forum Coming Out
    Replies: 7
    Last Post: 06-07-2005, 12:55 AM
  5. Introductions
    By PrincessPatti618 in forum Coming Out
    Replies: 12
    Last Post: 03-24-2005, 12:39 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •