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    Hi!my name is Amber i work in a club in the center of the city it gets busy with ppl on vacation and gamblers alot that come from out of town. But the usual crowd that hangs out are ghetto ppl with no money if u kno what i mean!!i keep to my self and do my thing i sumtimes come off stuck up but im really not i just like to keep the non money making customers away and it works well!!i still do ok!! do u think if im nicer to everyone all toghter it will help me make more money and the employees wont talk bad about me to the good customers??or do u think it doesnt even matter will a wealthy middle ages man listen to young drug dealers n hois have to say about me or make there own choice?? i try to keep it casual i just hold myself hugher than most these ppl!! xxo

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    Be yourself and don't worry about what people say or think. People will think all kinds of crap, you can't change it so just be yourself.

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    Can you give an example of how you feel that you act conceited?
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    I hate to use the term, but for lack of a better word...I think you need to learn how to be "business professional" meaning...yes, keep to yoruself, but be polite as well. You never know when you need your co workers to have your back. You don't have to make friends, but be friendly, to everyone. Be the girls that everyone thinks is just so friendly and polite and nice. The girl that people go out of their way to help and be friendly to in return. A simple hello to everyone with a smile, the go on your way and continue your business.

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    As far as customers go.. if you make money off a certain type of customer then it makes sense that you try to hustle them first and concentrate on them. If you don't feel comfortable with a certain type of customer then it's your decision and your money to completely avoid them. I'm curious what you do when your not busy.. do you try to talk to everyone or do you wait? Maybe try expanding a little. You never know about someone. "Don't judge a book by it's cover" Who cares what the security staff thinks about you. Fuck them if they think you are conceited. Just take care of them and tip them for hooking you up if and when they ever do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by amber123 View Post
    ... do u think if im nicer to everyone all toghter it will help me make more money and the employees wont talk bad about me to the good customers??or do u think it doesnt even matter will a wealthy middle ages man listen to young drug dealers n hois have to say about me or make there own choice??! xxo
    I would say that if any "rudeness" or the like is getting in the way of you making more $$ or having higher clientele like you, than maybe you should just "sweetly" ignore the riff-raff so that there is no possibility of your earnings being at stake.

    There are politics in SC like any other job.

    You certainly don't want to be hated - but don't put up with any idiot's shit that you don't have to.
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    just so u know...no dont worry about what anyone says

    but a word of advice...if the drug dealers r spending money u should deal w them...y???

    because 9 times out of 10 they make more then any business man does that comes toy your spot

    there r drug dealers that make 100000 a week and or more and they understand the hustle so if they purely sell drugs they spend money u might want to not be stand offish they can give u enough for u to take off for 2 months in 1 night...remember that

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    It sounds dumb but smiling a lot and making a lot of eye contact helps a lot. You don't have to be be everybody's buddy but be friendly, even if you're pretty sure they're ghettofabulous cheapasses. I used to get this a lot but I was just shy with customers and not interested in being buddies with dancers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sexyjasmine View Post
    just so u know...no dont worry about what anyone says

    but a word of advice...if the drug dealers r spending money u should deal w them...y???

    because 9 times out of 10 they make more then any business man does that comes toy your spot

    there r drug dealers that make 100000 a week and or more and they understand the hustle so if they purely sell drugs they spend money u might want to not be stand offish they can give u enough for u to take off for 2 months in 1 night...remember that
    where are you getting this info from? as far as i know the only drug dealers making that much a week are the high high ups that control the trade and manage the transporting of the drugs, not the local pot or coke dealer.

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    Drug dealers tend to be more likely to spend cash though. You know how easy it is to spend cash on hand.

    Never judge a book by its cover. I used to make oodles of money from the least assuming people.

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    not only the high high ups sweetheart im not saying some corner dealer im saying the dealers that have workers working for them on the corner...and you know what...even the corner dealers because they r the types that like to show off so they spend money that they don't really have to spend just to try to show off

    and thats a fact sweetheart

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    It's always good to be friendly to people around you, it gives off positive vibes and increase your sell in the long run, plus it makes it a better working environment. This doesn't mean that you have to hang out with people who are not spending money on you, just smile say hi and ask for business. If they say no, you move on, that way you're not conceited, it's just them not wanting to spend money on you. You are at work to make money and not seeking for their approval by lounging around them for free...

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexyjasmine View Post
    not only the high high ups sweetheart im not saying some corner dealer im saying the dealers that have workers working for them on the corner...and you know what...even the corner dealers because they r the types that like to show off so they spend money that they don't really have to spend just to try to show off

    and thats a fact sweetheart
    I still think that estimate is rather high, but I agree that drug dealers are more willing to spend cash. However, a lot of them try to pay in drugs or ask you to go OTC, so sometimes it's not worth it.

    To the OP: you should always ask people for dances. If you don't think someone has too much potential, just ask "do you want a dance?" That way you spend minimum time with a potential of a quick $20.

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    Eh...I've been accused of being "stuck up" in the club and I come from the corporate world. I know "business professional". I'm friendly to everyone. I think there just ain't pleasin' some ho's. The fact that I kept my head down, was never wasted, made hella cash, and didn't get involved in drama made me suspect. If I'd acted all trashy like them I wouldn't have been considered a threat.

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    drug dealersand also pimps are annoying 2

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    Quote Originally Posted by ahmeerah View Post
    Never judge a book by its cover. I used to make oodles of money from the least assuming people.
    GOOD CALL! shoot, I do really well w/ the young kids that people assume have no $$.

    You just need to evaluate how you spend your time... If you have downtime in between 'wealthy middle-aged guys' (I assume most are white, too, at least in this case) then try to get some dances from guys you wouldn't normally talk to... not only might you be surprised, but it'll quell whatever 'reputation' you think you're getting (eh, stripclubs are a very strange space between equal-opportunity and elitism anyway) and you might get some unexpected regs. However, if you're spending most of your time with the former group and it's PAYING well, then I don't see why you should change it up just for the sake of diversity. Dance for who's paying, basically... but try not to assume who will and will not pay.

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    ColetteCalahan has the right idea. If you KNOW someone has money, by all means talk to them. But if you're not busy, talk to people you normally wouldn't consider. They can surprise you, and that way you're not wasting your time sitting around waiting for the people you think will spend.

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