So... yesterday, I'm at work. I see this cute guy sitting at a table. He's sitting alone, and nodding off to sleep. It surprised the shit out of me to see a guy falling asleep in a go-go club full of scantily-clad women, so I stood above him for about 15 seconds. His guy friend approached me and I asked him, "Is he really sleeping?" The guy said "Yes, he is. Why don't you wake him up?" I walk back over to the sleeping guy, and I tap him on the shoulder.
He wakes up, and I laugh and ask him why in the world is he sleeping in a place like this. Mildly embarassed, he denies being asleep. I asked what brought him to the club, and he said that he was just here to have a couple drinks and that he was here to see a friend of his who was waitressing. I politely asked if they were an item, and he said that he liked her a lot, but he wasn't sure where they stood because she was always all over other guys. We make a little more small talk, about 3 minutes worth, when a waitress walks past me and says to me "Umm.... seriously. You need to get up."
She was offended that I was sitting with the guy. She caught me off guard, but when I finally realized why she was being so snotty, I looked at the guy and said "You said you were unsure about how she felt about you..... well, there's your answer. I'll go have a talk with her so you won't get in trouble later. Enjoy the rest of your evening." I approached the girl and told her that I meant no disrespect by sitting with him, and she told me there's no harm done.
But the more I thought about it during the rest of my shift, the madder I got. There's a fuckin reason that you're not supposed to bring your man into the club you work in. I'm actually gonna confront the girl when I go back to work tomorrow, and I want everyone to hear me when I do. I'm new there, with no prior experience dancing whatsoever. I'm having a hard enough time just learning how to sell dances and gain regulars and be enticing enough to get the men to tip me on stage (not to mention doing it all in sky-high dancer heels). I don't think it's fair to me or any of the other girls to make it so that we have to sort through which guys are there to have a good time and which ones are there to see their girlfriends/wives so we don't disrespect or upset anyone. It pissed me off because having your man in the club while you're on duty is against the rules, and for good reason. It spawns drama.
I don't like when girls let their boyfriend/husband/guy they like a lot come in the club. Unless you make it known that he's your man, no one's gonna know, and women are gonna approach him. These girls are trying to get every dollar they can, and guess what? While you're somewhere on the other side of the club doing your job, somebody's sitting next to your man, trying to do their job as well. All I'm saying is PLEASE tell your man not to come in there while you're at work. It's not necessary. You guys can talk as much as you want whenever you get off. If he needs a drink, he can go to some other bar, it's not necessary that he come to the particular bar you work in just because you're there.
Sorry for the long rant. I just take it personal when someone upsets the natural order of things in my life. It's hard enough to do my job, and I don't appreciate it when someone is making my job harder for me, and letting your man come into the club without warning everyone with so much as a "Hey, this is my boyfriend", it pisses me off when I get caught up in that. I don't ever intentionally hurt or disrespect anyone. Don't do it to me. And don't make stupid ass decisions like letting your man come into a gentleman's club and then get mad when one of the girls shoves her tits into his face. No one knew that he was off limits. After all, you didn't say anything. Next time, carry visitor badges in your purse so whenever he decides to pop in, you can slap one on him that reads "Hi! My name is [Jo Ann's Boyfriend]. A little gesture like that goes a long way, are we agreed?
Any of you ever had this problem or maybe have seen it happen?



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