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    I work at a club where we get alot of couples (husbands & wives mostly), and for the most part, they're all extremely nice and very laid back. Some of the dancers aren't into the "couples" dances (i.e. one lap dance while the other watches, then later the other gets a dance...you know). I make good money just off of them as they stay longer, and if one likes you, the other will "treat" their partner. I seem to be alone in this, and funny thing is, management seems to frown on this as well..

    Any thoughts??

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    Default Re: Couples Dances..Encouraged or discouraged?

    I think couples can be fun. Generally though I feel really intimated when women come into the SC. We are so much more critical in my opinion than men. So when the female is really into me then I approach them to talk and ask for a dance. I have always worked at clubs that encourage couples coming in. Money wise though I think I have a better chance of making more money with one horny guy because with the couple sometimes the woman is controlling his pocket.

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    Default Re: Couples Dances..Encouraged or discouraged?

    I also think couples can be fun, although I have trouble approaching them for dances. Sometimes the female half will react badly out of jealousy they may not have realized they would feel when agreeing to go to the club. That's why girls won't approach couples as often in my club.

    As for management, I don't know exactly why they frown on it. I mean, it's twice as much money coming in the door. But I can say that sometimes women (dancers have done this too) feel like they can get away with more because they're getting a dance from a female. Grabbing, licking, kissing, touching boobs, etc.

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    I won't dance for couples or lesbians, even if they request me . I did in th past but it always resulted in the women trying to grope me or getting jealous. They never spend alot and always want to take you home. It's just not worth my time And I hate now that it seems like it's a trend for women to come into strip clubs. Personally it's a man's haven and they should stay home or go to their own strip club

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    Default Re: Couples Dances..Encouraged or discouraged?

    ^^^
    It's so peculiar to me that so many dancers here post that female custys are extra grabby! I could never imagine feeling the way you do, Holly.

    Maybe it's just a location thing in my case, but EVERY sc I've either gone to or worked at around here, it was the dancers who were the ones who were pushing the physical limits with the women.
    I see it in the club I work at all the time: the dancers are ALL OVER the women and hardly touch the men. Also, when I go as a customer to sc's around here, I practically feel like I'm being raped in comparison to what they're giving my male companion!
    Strange, strange, strange...

    But I agree, couples are fun, but hard to approach - you are being DOUBLY judged on your physical appearance.
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    Most of the time if I grind or give a little "extra" on the female, it gets the guy going & I tend to make more $$$. Yes you are being judged by 2 people, but a good dance to one generally excites the other...at least that's my experiences.
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    I'm an odd bird. I don't dance for couples or women. Its just uncomfortable for me for too many reasons to list.

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    I will dance for couples they can be great company. They usually aren't good for 2-3 dances but hey that's better than nothing. Usually if they wanna do a split (dance for guy then lady) I always ask to dance for woman first..why you ask..because the guy will get so turned on that I'm dancing for the girl, that he'll skip his "turn" and have you dance for the girl...

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    Make the wife feel very special, find that connection with her. Tell her how beatiful she is (many women customers are quite attractive, they try hard to show to their husbands that they are as beautiful as dancers), not just her body but her face too, tell the husband how lucky he is by having such a pretty wife. Make it ALL about her, not about the man.

    Don't get the woman jealous. Tell them you can only imagine what a steamy night they'll have at home afterwards and you want to hear all about it next time you see them. If you manage to get them excited without getting the wife jealous and without draining their wallet (be humble, ask if they'd like another dance only if it seems like they'll buy another one. Many times I don't ask for a second dance, and the wife looks relieved, but later on they call me back), they'll be hooked. Many couples can be quite loyal customers.

    Of course, if the lady is too handsy, this approach may not work.

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    Default Re: Couples Dances..Encouraged or discouraged?

    Quote Originally Posted by Candice View Post
    I'm an odd bird. I don't dance for couples or women. Its just uncomfortable for me for too many reasons to list.
    Amen to that........I have learned that a female custy may arrive at a sc with a great attitude, but get a little booze in her and her true feelings about the ordeal will come out.......one way or the other......

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    Default Re: Couples Dances..Encouraged or discouraged?

    I occasionally do them but I tend to get super grabby women....that's the only thing about them that piss me off. Otherwise, a dance is a dance.

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