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    Hi Everyone!

    I just started dancing a few weeks ago in Pittsburgh and I need some advice on making money and some other things.

    When I'm on stage and there is only one guy sitting there, how do i keep going back without looking like i'm taking all of his money?

    When people look at you weird, do you keep dancing or not dance for them?

    If I decide I don't want to dance for someone is that okay?

    Lap dances:
    I am not good at getting guys to go upstairs! this one guy on Saturday asked me to go upstairs and I said sure and he walked away from me!

    I had my period last week, so I didn't make as much money, because I was so self concious, is that normal?

    I need advice, so any tips on top of what I asked is apreciated!

    much love
    "fatE wilL ultimatEly leaD yoU tO yoUr desTinY!"

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    I figure if the guy wants to stay at my stage, he's gonna have to pay. If he's sitting there and is the only one, I'll go over do little dance, take money. Go to pole, swing around. Crawl sexy towards man again. do little dance, shake ass, take money. Rinse and repeat
    I keep dancing for weirdos. I try not to look at them. If I'm in a good mood I'll do the "tisk tisk" thing with my fingers and tell them their naughty. If I'm in a bad mood a look away and pretend it's not happening.
    It is your choice to dance for someone or not. If they ask for a dance and there's some narsty vibe pass it up. Just do so politely (unless they're being an asshole).
    Very normal for girls to loose money while on their period. At least for a beginner. I don't try nearly as hard while I'm on my period...I'm too pissed at the world...and I'm nervous there may be leakage.
    My best advice is to make eye contact with your customers. They in turn believe they're something special. Contact while on the stage, contact while talking, contact while dancing. Smile too But honestly...my biggest compliments are from guys who super appreciate the eye contact. This sometimes gets you "into trouble" with super creepy guys though. They think you're really into them, and their girlfriend now. I usually just laugh at them in a playful tone. You'll get the hang of things, your "creep filter" will come with age and time.

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    I only go back to a guy once a song if he's at the stage. Also you don't have to stare at him the whole time just because he's sitting there. After you dance in front of him you can hold out the side of your g string for him to give you a tip and then move on to dance wherever you want on the stage. Does that make sense?

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    Default Re: Dancing all Night Long

    thanx aj! It makes me feel better to know that i'm not the only one who lost money while on my period haha! and yeah i keep going back to the guy, i just wanted to make sure it was okay! and omg have i run into some creeps! saturday some guy asked me if i wanted to see pix of his dick and said no, but you can tip me haha!

    to lucky one- yes that makes sense
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    Quote Originally Posted by **kImBerLee** View Post
    saturday some guy asked me if i wanted to see pix of his dick and said no, but you can tip me haha!
    What a douche. Good response!

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    Quote Originally Posted by **kImBerLee** View Post
    If I decide I don't want to dance for someone is that okay?
    short answer here. YES.
    don't hate the player hate the game......

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    thank you guys for all of your advice! i really apreciate it!
    "fatE wilL ultimatEly leaD yoU tO yoUr desTinY!"

    "originaL tilL i DiE"

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    If theres only one guy at your stage..yeah keep going back! Dont stay right there,because then other guys might not come up to tip you. But hustle him while you are onstage..tell him you'll be down in a minute adn he should keep you naked and take you in the back, blah blah.

    And you dont EVER have to dance for ANYONE you dont want to. The joy of being an "independent contractor"!

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