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    I've been in the biz for a few years now and seem to attract a certain type of customer. Nerdy/techie guys, older educated types, Asians are the ones I always make a beeline for. Mexicans, Blacks and meaty (as in big) midwestern guys usually find me a bit too foreign (especially with my British accent).

    Needless to say, I've had a few exceptions though my intuition is nearly always right. I do hustle other guys when I've exhausted the other options.

    In my opinion, knowing your market is a great hustling technique and will limit the number of rejections and time wasters.

    Do you practice this technique too?

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    Absolutely. I know my type. They typically aren't "macho" guys who are big, drinking tons of beer, ect. They are usually sipping a diet coke or something and lonely.

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    Yeah, I just started 3 weeks ago, but i know my type. unfortunately, its old guys, but fortunately, they are usualy the ones with all the money!!
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    yeah i attract the poor ones. haha. and by that i mean the late 20s-early30s type that will come in with friends once or twice a year and buy a few tabledances or few VIPS. not usually bigspenders, but usually polite guys. in my town it seems most oldguys (aka wallet) like the bigboobs (usually the obviously fake ones) and blonde hair. of which i am not. and lately it seems most guys (young and old) are coming into the club to get off.... not to spend time with lovely women. BUT if you find the ones that just want company and affection then i believe it doesnt matter if you are their type or not. your personality and sharp hustle should convince them to spend.

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    I attract 18-30 year olds mostly. I also seem to attract nicer looking guys hehe.
    Olded guys dont seem to like me but im not sure if its them or me coz i dont pay attention to them and i never approach them.

    I also attract Australian, Greek, Italian, Lebanese and Turkish men. I am particularly attracted to Lebanese and Turkish men so it may be a case of me showing interest in them also.

    Asians don't generally find me appealing.
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    I attract middle age men. I usually avoid the young guys unless they come up to me. The real old guys who can only afford one dance and try to make it as grabby as possible really really like me. Even if I try to ignore them and go for someone else, they follow me around.

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    i think it varies based on clubs. like, i used to think asian men could NOT say no to me. now, theyre really hit or miss for me.

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    i attract anyone i want to, becuase i change my personality based on what the guy seems to want.

    the only ones i avoid are the hip hop loving thug guys. we just never mesh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by i.breathe.in View Post
    i attract anyone i want to, becuase i change my personality based on what the guy seems to want.

    the only ones i avoid are the hip hop loving thug guys. we just never mesh.
    I second the hip hop guys too. We don't mix.

    About the personality change. I do that as well. If they are fast-talking New Yorkers, mirroring their speech (without making it too obvious) and attitude helps. The same with languid Southerners.

    I have a stock "Californian" accent for those who might find my real accent too strange.

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    the types that are attracted to me are similiar to luvbuniz and in addition they are usually --white, educated, middle age males in general. <<I approach these types of customers first.

    I'm not too crazy about asian customers though.. I can deal with the thug types and young guys because i adapt pretty well and only if they are spending money on me, but they are usually the last group that i will approach.

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    I seem to attract middle aged professional type guys and I think a lot of it has to do with the type of music I dance to (classic/hard/southern rock) and I look a little different but still approachable(so they say). Also younger professional black guys from up north seem to like me too. And I love to find me any Irish,Scottish or Aussie guy. I'm pretty sure I give them my best dances!!

    Oh,and I try to avoid frat boys at all costs!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by **kImBerLee** View Post
    Yeah, I just started 3 weeks ago, but i know my type. unfortunately, its old guys, but fortunately, they are usualy the ones with all the money!!
    nothing unfortunate about that!

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    Quote Originally Posted by luvbuniz View Post
    I've been in the biz for a few years now and seem to attract a certain type of customer. Nerdy/techie guys, older educated types, Asians are the ones I always make a beeline for. Mexicans, Blacks and meaty (as in big) midwestern guys usually find me a bit too foreign (especially with my British accent).

    Needless to say, I've had a few exceptions though my intuition is nearly always right. I do hustle other guys when I've exhausted the other options.

    In my opinion, knowing your market is a great hustling technique and will limit the number of rejections and time wasters.

    Do you practice this technique too?
    i tend to attract the techie guys too, especially guys in the film business since i went to film school and it gives us something in common. i tend to go after guys with black rimmed glasses first. im not atheletic at all and i hate sports but i also seem to attract the athletic super buff type too lol i dont know why, and they seem so intimidating at first but then i start talking to them and they are so nice lol, its weird.

    unfortunately i tend to do better with the younger guys (under age 50) which sucks because its the old guys who have all the money! I think i look too young for the old guys to feel comfortable getting dances from me :-(

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    I'm more a black guy kinda girl (they love my "thickness" LOL) and I love dancing to hip hop and rap so it works out well. And I feel most comfortable around that type of guy, even though its not usually a VIP or big spender crowd, mostly just raining on stage.

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    I used to avoid younger frat guys like the plague until one day something clicked into place and they almost invariably became great sources of money. Probably because I gradually felt more and more comfortable with that kind of guy and less like the kind of person they would have made fun of in high school the longer I danced.

    This stuff all came and went in phases for me.
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    I attract all kinds of guys, but the ones who like me the best are usually young ones under 30, usually somehwat goodlooking actually. Them and Indian men. I hate dancing for Indian men because without exception, I've found that they're disrespectful and terribly grope-y. I have nothing against Indian people in any other context -- love the food, love the art, love my best friend who is Indian too.

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    I always attract older white guys trying to live out their black girl fantasy, or middle-age black guys who just want to try to get me to go home with them.

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    I tend to attract older guys..usually East Coasters who are used to the domineering smartass Jersey girl type. Young guys dont know what to do with me because I dont fall for any of their lines(and usually dont bother pretending to,since they've always been a waste of my time).

    I'm a talker and have always put my psych degree to work in the club,so my biggest spending custies are always the ones who(consciously or subconsciously) want therapy! Naked therapy...seems to work wonders!

    Asian guys have always seemed to gravitate towards me too...I guess its the all american blonde hair blue eyes thing. Because it seems even more so sine I've had my boobs, and the attraction goes down whenever I've dyed my hair dark.

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    I'm Irish and scottish, so I don't look like ANY of the other girls at my club,( majority latina or Blonde/boobed) and that works for me. But I do tend to attract:


    a: The 50's plus white collar business owner ( but not bankers for some reason... not blonde, tan or have big boobs I guess...lol. )

    b: Foreign men. Particularly Indian, Italian and Greek.

    c: Black men. Being glow in the dark has it's benefits. lol.

    D: NERDS! and I love them. We spend hours quoting family guy and star wars and it either ends up with them giving me lots of money or them trying to get me to date them. Which is kinda sad cause sometimes I actually want to.

    I almost never get guys my own age... probably cause I'm not the normal looking stripper, and cause my return customers are all cause of the conversation, not the dancing.

    That said: If you got the money, I'll be whatever you want me to be.

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    college kids LOVE me...for some reason they think they've seen me hanging out on campus? it doesn't even matter what college campus it is, they think they've seen me hanging out there, lol. bachelor parties like taking me hostage, couples are an easy $20, and i get a lot of harmless, lonely, single guys looking for a date hahaha.

    i definitely don't mix with the thugs, the disrespectful middle easterns, and the business guys from out of town who are looking for extras. they just don't work for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    i think it varies based on clubs. like, i used to think asian men could NOT say no to me. now, theyre really hit or miss for me.
    Ditto. At my old club I could always expect hispanic to want a dance but at this new one they don't like me so much, probably because a couple other girls can speak spanish.

    For me the first guy I go to is usually the lone 40-50 year old. I do awful with young guys, especially in groups.
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    I get attention from white collar guys who are typically loners. A lot of my 'regular' clientele is guys who focused so much on their careers that they missed out on having a wife/family. (I think my intelligence and articulate speech get to these guys).I get a lot of divorcees, too. I don't like talking to the younger crowd until it's really late and their really drunk, because they rarely spend lots of money on me. And men of color, Mexicans, Black guys, Middle Eastern alllll like me, but more to hit on me than spend lots of money. And girls always like me. I get asked if I'm a lesbian a lot, so maybe I'm putting out some gay vibe?

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    D: NERDS! and I love them. We spend hours quoting family guy and star wars and it either ends up with them giving me lots of money or them trying to get me to date them. Which is kinda sad cause sometimes I actually want to.
    Hands down the hottest type of guy!

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    I don't do so well with old guys.. I do best with 20-35 year old guys. I do really well with groups, guys who are drugged up, asians, highly educated people.. and then oddly I do really well with tradesmen.

    I actually try and avoid approaching guys on their own.. I feel better in a groupo dynamic.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ellebelle View Post
    I actually try and avoid approaching guys on their own.. I feel better in a groupo dynamic.
    Me too and I think we are loosing out on money coz these guys are supposedly easy targets.
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