The world's most uncoordinated stripper
The customers I do best with (I escort, but we work off tips, so we have to hustle as well) are the older (40s-50s) guys, typically blue collar types, who don't feel super entitled and are grateful that you're there to spend time with them. I've never had a bad experience with a guy like that, they're usually the most reasonable and think I'm just the sweetest little thing.
The older professional guys usually want the thin blonde girls, or so I've found.
Younger, frat type guys usually either love me for my boobs and that I'm young, or think I'm too chubby...it's kinda hit and miss. It works in my favour, though, 'cause usually the pickier a guy is the less he tips, at least in my experience haha.
Asian guys almost always dislike me, whereas most other ethnic guys like me 'cause they like the thicker look.
I always think I'm sorta lucky, 'cause the guys that like me are usually nicer and less of a hassle than the ones who don't.



if a guy likes you he is going to be nice to you no matter what, for the most part. its not that blue collar guys are nicer people (in fact ive found them to be ruder and expect more in the strip club because they feel like 40 bucks is ooo sooo much money, probably way different when their money is actually getting them laid though) its that they are the nicest to you because you are their type. if you were an asian guy or a rich guys type he would be nice to you too. and a picky guy will tip well if he finds a girl that fits his super high standards




I attract older white guys, or younger Indian guys. Without fail, I can always get a lapdance from an Indian guy. One of them actually told me that it was b/c in India, all of them dream of coming to America and getting a blonde, white, young g/f.
I just meant that in general, they were less trouble than some of the other "types" of customers, not just to me but to all the girls. Of course there's always exceptions, but for the most part, the professional-types we see expect a very high level of service at a low price (not sure why) and the drunk frat guys want to do all sorts of nasty things...then get really mad when you won't do them!
I definitely think it is different in a strip club, though, because the expectations are so different. (For the record though, I hustle for tips too, so the initial fee they pay isn't getting them laid. I just find that at least where I work, the blue collar type of guys are more willing to tip than a lot of the others. Obivously, not always, but most of the time.)
Dominant types ( a serious source of grief)
"Sweet" young guys
self-employed men
white collar professionals (not often but they do drop quite a bit on me when they look my way)
For me it seems to be the slightly nerdy, young to middle aged me - older guys don't often go for me, but that's all good.




i've been thinking about this more lately...my brown hair has become more blonde looking, to the degree that custies call it blonde, and since then, the seeming slam dunks have been difficult, and i'm pretty sure i've lost chances on guys who i'd've never bothered with before (and making some on the rare moment i take my chance) because i'd never have thought myself good enough for them before.
i don't know. it's confusing. i'm thinking of coloring my hair back, but i think i'd be better off trying to figure out the new type, cos they seem to be bigger spenders anyways. but, at the same time, they don't seem to come in as much anymore.
I do well with guys who come in alone, honestly. Maybe it's just my preference but I feel like they have more money to spend in general and are more serious about hanging out with dancers than just chillin with thier buddies.
I just told my boyfriend this morning it felt like I only attract the broke ass men that only come in with 1$ plus door fee! Ha... I'm ashamed to say they turn into regulars (I spent way to much time talking w/o gettin tipped, and now it shows)!!
I do well with guys in their early 30s up through older baby boomers. I do well with all racial demographics of men (I'm very petite with an "exotic look"). I do well with both blue-collar and white-collar guys. If a guy is foreign (and it almost doesn't matter what country) I almost always do well with them. I don't do very well though with guys under 30 and college age boys. I think it's because I have a low bullshit thereshold and younger guys seem to be the most full of it.


I agree, I have found that Indian men are very handsey! I attract the middle age man white male, usually easily persuaded into multiple dances :-)




This varies.... I've had custies that I thought for sure wouldn't be "my type" or vice versa spend money on me. However I would have to say, very educated middle aged white men, and also young black guys.I think I can count on one hand the times I've gotten a dance from an asian guy, and younger white dudes are typically not going to spend that much on me.



To be honest sometimes I am amazed at the variety of guys I appeal to..but I think I am a pretty personable person and try to find common ground with everybody.
I'd say the best is definatly guys in their fifties. Usually the most lucrative is the fifty year old guy by himself. Usually they are actually the most fun to make money off of too.
I don't really do well with the country club crowd..it's hard to explain but the extremley wealthy usually don't go for me. Although I have had many upper income customers even CEOs interested in me, but for the most part the yuppish, snobby types don't like me. Oh well, I hate snobs anyway I'd much rather deal with a middle aged, middle class, down to earth guy any day of the week.
I really try to talk to everyone though..I just try to listen to my gut and let that steer me in the money making direction.![]()
Ok, so after reading this I noticed myself paying more attention to who I was making $ off of... Obviously the young professionals/old guys/ etc. that almost eveyone gets a bunch of. But, never realized that asian guys have a thing for me! Interesting...





^^I started paying more attention as well. Short guys, veeeery tall guys, really badly dressed white collar guys-nerdly or otherwise. Generally white guys, but older Middle eastern or black guys as well.





I quoted all three of you because I think you all could use to step back and look at who you WANT to be your target market (aka who you want to sell dances to) and who you dont. Clearly, sitting for free, Skye, not a helpful thing, and it will not only piss off other dancers but make custies think you're not worth spending money on. You want to make yourself a commodity, something that's rare, so that they want you.
This goes to basic economics: supply and demand. If you are always around and not doing dances, your supply a lot and therefore you're not in demand. If you make yourself scarce and appear busy, you don't have much in supply and therefore the demand is at a higher level.
Cassandra: if you want to change that, you can. Same with you BohemianSiren. It's all about YOUR confidence around the customer. If you think the thought, "this guy probably won't get a dance from me," 9 times out of 10, yeah, he won't. You're projecting, and making yourself less confident and coming across as weaker to the customer.
You both have 100% control over who you are appealing to.
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I tend to attract guys with piercings and tattoos, as I have both and I love metal music, although they don't play metal or rock at my club.
I also attract guys who have an ass fetish. I have an okole which earned me the nickname "snow bunny" at my last club and I get comments on it all the time.
I've noticed that the metal guys tend to spend more than the ass guys. So I try to market myself towards that demographic a bit more. It was easier at my last club, bu this new one isn't as easy, since Hawaii doesn't have a huge metal market. I'm trying to find a good niche for myself.
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THANK YOU! I was actually waiting for this thread to get a response like this...
this highlights that there is still a difference between knowing who is "typically" attracted to you but realizing that YOU control who you attract. Dancers are actresses, shapeshifters and adaptive manifestations of our true selves... WE decide what aspects of our real personality we would like to incorporate into our Stripper Self in all aspects of the job and talking to every potential customer. The girls with the most diverse customer bases are #1.) the best hustlers and #2.) the most malleable strippers.
also- be careful of trying to pinpoint a demographic- it can perpetuate a defeatist attitude when dealing with others outside of your "target audience" and you'll be assuming a "no" before you even ask for a dance.





You are very intuitive CC; I love the way you worded this. Have you considered marketing as a career? You have the salesman/marketer's attitude and brain (like me lol). If you were here, I'd so hire you!
1. Absolutely CC is right, you completely can control who you atttract. It's about figuring how to appeal to the best target market, and equally to the most diverse market at the same time. To put this in Stripper terms:
Almost 2 years ago I sat down with a guy who was in my typical demographic, but he wasn't biting with my usual lines. I could smell the money oozing off of him, and I wanted it. I had to regroup in my head and figure out how to best appeal to him. So I did something I rarely do. I began to whisper dirty things in his ear. Nothing that would implicate me, but things like, "Mmmm I can't wait to get naked and rub myself all over you, I'm going to be so wet from dancing for you. Oooh, I can feel myself getting turned on already!" *threw in a squirm and mini-moan* Let me tell you all, he took me RIGHT to VIP where we did a 1 hour CR. But this goes even further: this guy turned into one of my most profitable regulars, and after that night, I never talked dirty to him again. I won't tell you how much, but let's just say that he gave me thousands for sitting and talking in VIP, over a period of 1 year. Most girls would have given up when he didn't bite, but persistence is the key, and knowing what he needed to spend money.
This same thing applied, in reverse, to someone I thought wanted sports talk. He was uninterested by that, and I caught on fast enough, and came back with geek talk. This worked. Point is, read your customer and try to pinpoint what he wants. This will make you a top earner.
2. Defeatist attitude: CC is 100% right. Don't tell yourself he's going to say no. Granted, if mostly white 40 year old ish men spend $$$ on you and there are several guys in a club, obviously you go for your target market. But IF the whole club is Asian that night, you have to find a way to connect with one of them. Don't sell yourself short, or else you'll be that chick in the DR bitching about how no one is spending money.
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^^ hehe i plan to use my persuasiveness in law.
I really like what you said about both appealing to "your demographic" while at the same time being the most appealing to all as you can be.
I also think it's less about identifying "attraction" as identifying "needs." If a guy is in a party mood, I'll use those keywords when asking for a dance. "You and I should go have some fun together!"/"You look like you're having a blast- that's so good to see! I say we go make the night even MORe memorable," etc... if he's a horny-lookin' dude "i say you let me corrupt you in the back (they love that one, lol)" or "let's go have some playtime/get nasty blah blah blah" and if he's a lonely guy, "let's go have some alone time where we can get to know each other."
This way, YOU are handling how you APPEAL to them, not how you APPEAR, and are greatly increasing your potential customer base.![]()
My crowd tends to be the middle ages nerdy guys... (or I suppose the nerdy guys in general he he... oh no I AM a nerd aren't I?)
I also attract the punk guys.. maybe because that's my attraction? lol I show interest in those shaggy haired tattooed weirdos lol
Military is great to me.. normally the shy polite ones (growing up in Ohio, I have the manners)
Middle aged couples seem to enjoy me as well.. I think because I am extremely sensual... they love it
Middle eastern guys... sometimes Asian (Japanese mostly)
People that aren't generally biting are the pretty boys, the overly confident business men who want a hand job (man my loss lol), gangsters don't get down wit me, yo... wayyy old guys normally think I'm too clean cut(?)
That's all I got right now :o)
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I seem to attract Indian and Middle Eastern guys, lol. Unfortunately, there's not exactly a shit tonne of Indian and Middle Eastern guys around here. Otherwise I get a lot of guys who like my ass or my eyes. I dunno what's that spectacular about my ass, but I do know I have unusual grey eyes that apparently are somewhat striking in strip club light.
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Last night I sat with Japanese guys, then a semi-regular (semi because I'm newish to the club) "average joe" kind of guy, then some indie guys with punky hair. All liked me!![]()
i think i get alot of white men like in their late 30's-50's.
Mexicans, for sure since at my club they are majority of clientelle.
I tend to get Japanese business men guys too. Maybe they can tell that I like them in real life because I have a hello kitty purse i carry around...
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