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    OK I walked around collecting tips after my stage set when I approached a VIP table of four morose-looking losers.

    Me: Hi guys! *smile*
    Them: no reaction.
    Me: Did you guys enjoy my show?
    Them: nothing.
    Me: Hello? How are you? Do you guys have any social graces?
    Loser #1: (Sarcastically) Nice shorts (I had on my super-short denim shorts I get tons of compliments on)
    Me: Oooh, I see you have a bottle of Grey Goose here. (Taking the bottle).
    Loser #2 Wanna drink?
    Me: No, I would just like a hello from you and a dollar for my show.
    Them: No reaction.
    Me: OK! BYE! (Taking bottle of Grey Goose with me and setting it behind the bar.)

    Then while "de-dollaring" myself at the bar, their cocktail waitress came over to me and asked about the bottle. I told her they were being dicks so I took their bottle and if they wanted it back then I'll take it back. She ran it back to the table instead.

    *FIVE MINUTES LATER*

    I get called into the managers office.

    Me: Am I in trouble?
    Manager: Um, did you do something that would get you into trouble?

    So I told them what happened. The manager had a talk with me about not letting rude customers get to me, how they don't have to tip or say hello if they don't want to, that basically since they were VIP customers they were spending money on the club and what I did really pissed them off and now it is costing the club money because some girl (me) decided to walk with their bottle. Then the doorman joined in and said that if I feel disrespected by a customer, then I should tell them and they will take care of it. The manager said he was on the verge of tearing up my contract. I apologized for screwing with the club's money and for crossing the line. He let me off with a warning, which is cool, as I am a good entertainer there and rarely do I cause problems or drama or let people get to me.

    At the end of the night I tipped out the cocktail waitress for the trouble and loss I may have caused her and apologized. She appreciated it.
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    I relearned that it is not worth putting my job on the line for "getting even" or screwing with losers.

    But I'm sorry, I know there are guys who come in to basically treat the women like shit to make themselves feel better, but I don't care what amount of money you spend, if you can't treat the women with respect, then seriously, don't expect to have fun.

    I wanted to teach them respect, but I crossed the line and messed with the club's money when I should have ignored the losers or enlisted the help of a bouncer instead. I know that 2 wrongs don't make a right, but I am so tired of the bullshit. And I am tired of people thinking that they can get away with this behavior.

    But I really don't like the "they are spening money on the club so they can treat you like shit if they want to" mentality. Fuck that. I don't think it's right.

    Next time I encounter losers like that I'll ignore them or tell a door guy to deal with them. I AM glad that those fuckers got pissed and will not ever come back.

    I feel bad today. I didn't mean to mess with the club or waitress's money, but these fuckers are messing with my money, and they are treating me with disrespect, and I really did nothing to deserve it.

    I think I am also burned out on dancing and I really want to move on to my next job, and it is really frustrating me. I'm taking a few days off and laying low. I just feel like shit.

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    That sucks..but if thats their attitude..what would they have done if you HAD enlisted a doorguy?? Would he have thrown them out for being rude and messed with the clubs money? Prob not.

    Next time..time to trip on your stripper heels and knock their drinks off the table onto their laps. Ooops..clumsy stripper...NOT a bitch trying to mess with the clubs money..just oops...lol

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    Do you not drink? If so I'd of just accepted that offer and when they were down making it, walked away (obviously taking your drink with you).

    Where they even watching your show? What if they just didn't like you or they were talking about something and you kindda came out of no where.

    If someone took my bottle I'd be really pissed and you better believe I'd expect the club to do something about it! I agree that some of these guys need to be put in their place but...let someone else do it.

    If they guys where being genuinely rude, it really is better to walk away. You wasted your time taking their bottle, then talking to the waitress about it, then the manager, then tipped more plus the mental/emotional stuff...and you didn't even get a dollar for it. I know sometimes thats easier said than done, though.

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    Seriously.. if they won't even tell you hello then why would you stick around at their table just to get a dollar? I like dollars just as much as the next chick, but I'm not going to beg for them. Lesson learned, right?

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    Default Re: I totally screwed up last night

    Alot of us have done similar things. Try not to feel too bad. Just find a different outlet for the asshats.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StarryEyes View Post

    But I'm sorry, I know there are guys who come in to basically treat the women like shit to make themselves feel better,

    But I really don't like the "they are spening money on the club so they can treat you like shit if they want to" mentality. Fuck that. I don't think it's right.
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    This is the beauty of being a dancer. I tried waitressing (twice actually- I was always getting orders mixed up and overpouring the coffee cups, etc.) and you have to just deal with it when people treat you like crap. One of the best things about being a dancer is you can just walk away.

    I'm sorry those jerks made you feel bad, but luckily your a good girl and a good dancer so you got to keep your job.

    Feel better sweetie.

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    I normally just walk away. I think I was just having one of those nights.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StarryEyes View Post

    I feel bad today. I didn't mean to mess with the club or waitress's money, but these fuckers are messing with my money, and they are treating me with disrespect, and I really did nothing to deserve it.

    I think I am also burned out on dancing and I really want to move on to my next job, and it is really frustrating me. I'm taking a few days off and laying low. I just feel like shit.

    Taking a few days off may do you some good. Don't beat yourself up about. I honestly smiled at the fact that you took their bottle. They were being dicks. VIP doesn't give ANYONE the right to be total assholes.







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    Quote Originally Posted by StarryEyes View Post
    I normally just walk away. I think I was just having one of those nights.

    Forgive yourself. It'll happen. You're not perfect.

    You did yourself a huge favor in how you handled the repairative work in the club, and you did some soul-searching to check in on your health. Kudos for turning it around.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    Taking a few days off may do you some good. Don't beat yourself up about. I honestly smiled at the fact that you took their bottle. They were being dicks. VIP doesn't give ANYONE the right to be total assholes.
    Well said, Cinammonkisses. You shouldn't even have to walk around asking for tips anyway. If guys don't tip me, I don't even give them the time of day. I'll talk to every customer except the ones that failed to tip. On the other hand, depending on the club and the clientele, sometimes guys who don't tip will still buy lapdances from you.

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    Don't feel too bad. It might not have been the most professional thing to do, but at least it's not something you're known for doing, and the club mngmt likes you enough to excuse your behavior. There are many worse things that you could've done.

    I don't agree w/your managers when they say you should've gotten a bouncer. Since they were spending "so much money on the club," it's doubtful the bouncers would've done anything anyway, considering probably you were the only one who would've complained about them and all they did was ignore you.

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    Thanks girls. I'm gonna take a few days off and chill. Time to forgive myself too.

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    That does sound like a burnout symptom. Time off is good. I think it's good you tipped that waitress. We all make mistakes and we all learn from them, but it sounds like you already made up for it at the club. Forgive yourself soon!
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    Take a vacation hun! Pamper yourself! <3<3

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    I too am so fucking sick of these morose losers coming into the club! Stay home if you have no personality. If guys acted they way they were supposed to I don't think any of us would get burned out.


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    Quote Originally Posted by StarryEyes View Post
    Me: Hi guys! *smile*
    Them: no reaction.
    Me: Did you guys enjoy my show?
    Them: nothing.
    Me: Hello? How are you? Do you guys have any social graces?
    That's exactly why I hated doing tip-walks. F-ing douchebags. Sometimes its not worth your energy to give a damn about guys like that.
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    ^^ So true. I don't even know why I fed into it when really they just weren't worth it.

    I dunno. Usually I'm good but sometimes I just need a reminder, yanno?

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    One of the best things about being a stripper is if somebody is an asshole, you can just walk away.

    Make your nights YOUR nights. By that I mean it ain't your problem to worry about how customers, other girls, etc, are acting.

    Walk away. Trust me I've made mistakes at work, too. I know you know this but that was a pretty fucked up move on your part.....If I spent 300 bucks on a bottle of booze and somebody yanked it, I'd be pretty P.O.ed too....
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    ^ I know...I know....it was really unlike me to do something like this. All I can do is learn from it and not do it again.

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    I think we've all been there at some point.
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    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
    that's your flaw
    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
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    Quote Originally Posted by StarryEyes View Post
    ^ I know...I know....it was really unlike me to do something like this. All I can do is learn from it and not do it again.
    Exactly! Like I said from my post, I've done stupid things at work too. I once got fired (thankfully later rehired) from a club because I was walking around with two girlfriends and we were asking guys for dances. One said no and I stupidly said, "wassa matter, you gay?" and laughed walking away. He was so pissed he hunted down the club manager (who happened to be his friend) and had me fired.

    Ugh. It's best just to keep your mouth shut, in my opinion, and like I said I say this from experience....I have a temper myself.
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    Perhaps you stopped spending money on her. Strippers need money to operate. They are like coin operated juke-boxes of love.

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    ^^ You know what? You obviously hit a nerve there. He probably was (secretly) gay.

    I have to say our mistakes are a little funny...

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    ^^^

    They are!! I have one even funnier one, it's not PC but I hope you will appreciate it.

    My friend and I were double dancing for this really nice guy in the VIP room. He happened to be a parapalegic. Anywho, I was a bit intoxicated, and noticed that I had been standing on one of his feet with my heels for like two whole songs....I thought it was a table leg...he obviously couldn't feel it, and I apologized when I noticed...but I bet he had one hell of a bruise the next day lol...
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    I've let things like this happen to me too. I think your biggest mistake was not walking away as soon as you got no reaction from your smile and hello. I know at this point in my dancing career that if I say hello with a huge smile and get no response, I'm not getting money off there. Or the little that I might is not worth the trouble. Learn when to walk away and you will save yourself a lot of trouble.

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