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    I don't think I would feel comfortable asking for tips on stage. If custies aren't tipping then I just ignore them. It really brings my mood down to have to ask to be tipped and I like to save my positive energy for guys who are willing to spend $$$ on me.

    If the custies aren't tipping on stage I start scanning the room for guys who look like they have money and try to make eye contact with them so I can easily approach them after my set is over. I've noticed some big spenders really don't like sitting at the stage.

    I think it is cool that you stood up for yourself though! Sometimes I wish I was more assertive like that .
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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    All right..

    I rarely have problems at my club. Generally, the customers are nice and understand the whole "If you're at the rail, you have to tip" rule.

    But last night was one of those nights where I had a couple of groups of guys who looked totally normal (30's, business-ish), who sat at the stage for my entire show and seemed to enjoy it.

    I did the typical 'dance for 5 seconds, then kneel for tip' thing. Coupled that with "Hey there! How's it goin?" The guy answered "Great!" etc. So I held out my thong to take the assumed tip.

    No reaction. So I said "all right...would you rather put it someplace less interesting?" in a cute voice, and held out my garter. He didn't react.

    His buddies looked like they didn't give a shit, either. (Usually if one guy is being a douche, some guy in the group will contribute a dollar to compensate). They all looked at me like they were behaving normally.

    Then I said "Do you guys have a dollar for me?" (Again, cute voice). NO REACTION.

    These guys all looked sober and generally nice. What should I have done? I ended up saying something sarcastic like "You guys sure are a fun group!" and walked off. But it still got to me. I didn't tell the bouncers or anything--that would be really melodramatic IMO.

    How do you guys deal when this happens???
    you are sweet, seriously! those guys are LOSERS! i hate those kinds of guys who are shamelessly cheap. I usually just attempt one time, if i get no reaction, i just dance further away from them as possible until they move up to tip me.

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    you dont tip the girls on stage in England. its just how it is.
    its not like there is a rule against it, its just that no one ever tells the guys they can and if you ask, they look at you like you crazy, like you would DARE ask them to tip you for dancing on stage.

    yeh, i know. AND the clubs take a door fee PLUS commission, usually 25%.
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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    One of the girls stayed by the group for her entire set and got two dollars out of them...so if you'd count that as success, then maybe you're right.
    thats becos guys like them like to make a girl work hard for her money. its a power trip thing. they trying to get back at girls cos they get ignored all the time.

    part of being a stripper.

    its all i can do not to cuss these guys out, but i hav to remind myself, that it doesnt do anyone good. these guys are trying to get a negative reaction, so they can feel better about all the times they got shot down by a girl.
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    I have this problem with Asians....ALL the time. Those fuckers sit at the tip rail in Vegas clubs and don't put out jack shit. Sometimes I will sit there with my thong out until I see them shuffling for money. If they don't, I never go back, never let them see my boobs, nothing.

    Sometimes if I'm feeling perticularly moody I won't even take my top off at all on the second song if there are customers who have been in the club for a long time and tipped no girls.
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    Some guys are not going to tip no matter what you do. And some will be complete jerks about it. I'm all about torture and bondage for these fellas. You don't want to mess with me on stage EVER.

    When this happens, I embarass the hell out of the guy. There are several ways to do this, but I usually sit on their head, push him with my butt, kick him with my boot, and/or shove his face in my boobs like a mad woman yelling "give me a dollar, give me a dollar."

    Other guys see this and start cracking up. It's truly a scene and if these guys are with friends their feeling like a total ass right now. I always get my money and it's generally alot more than a dollar. If they're by my stage they're paying, no exceptions.

    Alot of girls don't see how I can be so bold and fearless trying to get money out of these idnods on stage, but it's my personality. It's all in fun. No one's ever been hurt by this and the guys have always been good sports about it.

    This sounds tacky as hell, but it's always done in good taste and believe it or not it loosens these cheap wads up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    Unfortunately, you can't get water from a stone. If these guys had it in their head they weren't going to tip you, chalk it up to bad timing and move on. All you can do really...ya know? Save your energy for the paying customers...
    I have to agree completely.

    I had a guy do this. He was sitting at the bar around the stage where we do our tip walks after the stage set (we don't really get money directly on the stage, except from people who throw it or reeeeeeach to hand it to us because there's a track around the stage for the tip walk - I like it because no one can reach to touch me on stage). Fortyish, probably over, clean cut, professional in appearance. He was with a friend talking, superior attitude, but not in a way I found personally offensive but more like guys who have to always be in CEO alpha male mode in their professional lives.

    The friend tipped, but he didn't, even though it was obvious that everyone around the stage's bar was doing exactly that. I waited in an obvious way for a few seconds, and he did the stare down that was a combo of, "So? " and "You're not getting my money, bitch." I have no idea whether he tipped anyone else.

    I thought it was rude, of course, and for all I know, I was singled out as not "being worthy," so it could have been nasty too. he might have planned that, or he might have seen me and decided on this course of (non)action.

    I'll never know. I do know that moving on without reacting kept my dignity and my job, and didn't deliver the hissy fit he may have wanted ("See? See? The golddigging sluts are psycho too!"). Being unprofessional to customers, especially in an accidentally-on-purpose-knock-the-drink way, will not fly in that club from what I can see, which is why I wanted to work there in the first place because of the environment. Beyond that, I really wouldn't want to hand over power to guys who want that kind of reaction from me - more than anything, these guys want to get into your head and emotions.
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    you handled it well...

    me on the other hand im a bitch

    last week some dude did that 2 me no he did worst he asked me to come in front of him when i was on stage and dance...so i did...then he didnt tip

    i went around the stage and collected my dollars then i took them all and made it "rain on him" and said in a loud voice "here you go sweetheart since times are so hard"

    was that the right thing to do???no

    did it feel amazing? hell yes
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    Quote Originally Posted by BeBe View Post
    Some guys are not going to tip no matter what you do. And some will be complete jerks about it. I'm all about torture and bondage for these fellas. You don't want to mess with me on stage EVER.

    When this happens, I embarass the hell out of the guy. There are several ways to do this, but I usually sit on their head, push him with my butt, kick him with my boot, and/or shove his face in my boobs like a mad woman yelling "give me a dollar, give me a dollar."

    Other guys see this and start cracking up. It's truly a scene and if these guys are with friends their feeling like a total ass right now. I always get my money and it's generally alot more than a dollar. If they're by my stage they're paying, no exceptions.

    Alot of girls don't see how I can be so bold and fearless trying to get money out of these idnods on stage, but it's my personality. It's all in fun. No one's ever been hurt by this and the guys have always been good sports about it.

    This sounds tacky as hell, but it's always done in good taste and believe it or not it loosens these cheap wads up.
    and this is the first time i'm sad that i work in a no-contact club...b/c i wouldn't be able to embarrass him like that. on the other hand, i like the general idea behind this, b/c it wouldn't make me look like an angry stripper...just like one with a good sense of humor.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexyjasmine View Post
    you handled it well...

    me on the other hand im a bitch

    last week some dude did that 2 me no he did worst he asked me to come in front of him when i was on stage and dance...so i did...then he didnt tip

    i went around the stage and collected my dollars then i took them all and made it "rain on him" and said in a loud voice "here you go sweetheart since times are so hard"

    was that the right thing to do???no

    did it feel amazing? hell yes
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    the end lol
    He made you work for free and then you gave him all of your stage money? Hmmm . . .

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    When I used to work at my old club, I'd say "where's my money?" If they refused to tip, I'd say, "Oh, then get off my tip rail" and kick their rolling chairs back from the stage. It made my message pretty damned clear, and other customers would laugh at them.

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    When I worked at tip only clubs and if someone wasn't tipping, I would either ask them if something was wrong with my dance or pretend like I was confused that they weren't tipping me. Some people just aren't going to tip no matter what. I've got lame excuses before like "Oh, I wasn't watching you" (when they were staring hardcore the whole time), "I already spent my allowance that my mom gave me this week," "I don't have any money," etc. It's better just to move on and ignore them. I had one guy straight up ignore me when I was doing my tipwalk one day (even as I was talking, he pretended I wasn't there) and then had the nerve to try to strike up a conversation with me later on as I was walking the room - I pretended like he didn't even exist and I didn't hear anything and he actually got really pissed off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CuriousSeeker View Post
    Being unprofessional to customers, especially in an accidentally-on-purpose-knock-the-drink way, will not fly in that club from what I can see...
    oh yes it does! I can't tell you how many non-tipping guys "took a spill" when I worked there. Always on accident, of course!

    How I deal with non-tippers depends on my mood. Either I'll knock their drink over in their lap, or I'll just move on without giving them so much as a second glance, much less a reaction or words.

    Occasionally, just because it's amusing, I'll park myself in front of them and just STARE at them. Stare right into their eyes with a totally blank expression and not move. It's so funny to watch them grow uncomfortable, turn red, fidget, and start babbling awkwardly (to which I just don't answer them, and keep staring silently.) Finally after a solid minute of the unnerving stare, they get so flustered that they just throw the money at me. And then I smile and move on. Silence is powerful. I usually only do that when it's slow and I'm bored though, because most of the time it's just not worth it to spend 2 minutes staring someone down for $1. It's just SO funny to see their reactions when I do, though.

    Occasionally I'll give him a dollar and say "ok, well at least use this to tip the next girl. It must suck to be so poor." And give him a pitying look and walk away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sveta View Post

    Occasionally I'll give him a dollar and say "ok, well at least use this to tip the next girl. It must suck to be so poor." And give him a pitying look and walk away.
    Haha! This is cute!! Sometimes, it's more important to save your dignity than to save a dollar. Way to make a statement!

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    ^^^

    And this is why I love stripping. Because we can say shit like this and retain our dignity without fear of repercussions (for the most part). Well done, B.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elusive21 View Post
    He made you work for free and then you gave him all of your stage money? Hmmm . . .
    it wasnt a lot of stage money at the club i was at stage wasnt that good so "all of my stage money" was 10 dollars if im that hard up for 10 bucks i should really give up stripping dont u think? be serious

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    Last night this ghetto guy who was sitting on my stage refused to tip. His two friends next to him did, and when I looked at Mr. Douche he looked at me and shook his head 'no'. (Even though he was staring at me the entire time on stage.

    So I took his drink from him!!!!

    Totally childish, but I figured if he wasn't going to tip the girls, we really don't care if he is in there or not.

    My manager just laughed about it
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sveta View Post

    Occasionally, just because it's amusing, I'll park myself in front of them and just STARE at them. Stare right into their eyes with a totally blank expression and not move. It's so funny to watch them grow uncomfortable, turn red, fidget, and start babbling awkwardly (to which I just don't answer them, and keep staring silently.) Finally after a solid minute of the unnerving stare, they get so flustered that they just throw the money at me. And then I smile and move on. Silence is powerful. I usually only do that when it's slow and I'm bored though, because most of the time it's just not worth it to spend 2 minutes staring someone down for $1. It's just SO funny to see their reactions when I do, though.
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