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    sorry if this has been asked before...

    i've been getting Champagne room shows with the same girl the last 5 or so times i've been to this club in vegas and really hit it off with the girl, perhaps because i've been spending so much money on her. we're both of russian descent so maybe that was some connection...

    recently, we actually saw each other outside the club for dinner and kissed. the discussion was good and we talked a lot about what was going on in her life, a lot of problems with ex's and drugs, etc...

    it just became too real at that point. i'm a dog, i admit it and am not proud of it. and i guess that's why i go to clubs, for the variety.

    if she's at the club, how do i get a dance with someone else without pissing her off? (for whatever reason, but i'm sure it would be mostly a monetary disappointment for her). i know it was a mistake to see her outside the club ...so am i screwed at this club? sorry if this is a stupid post, but i'm young and dumb obviously. perhaps i'll learn from my own mistakes...but i'd appreciate a dancer's input...

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    hmmmm.... this is a large reason why most people shouldn't meet OTC-- it's killed my money several times (not kissing, but just going out to eat with clients.)

    you could send her flowers and say thanks for dinner.

    then I guess you could try to go in when she's not there and establish a rapport with another dancer (but do NOT tell that new dancer the story. that's between you and your previous favorite.) That way when you go in and you run into your previous fave, you can say, hey-- tonight I'm going to dance with X. But I don't want you to be too disappointed (and then slip her at least a fifty, but a hundred would be better.)

    that way you can seemlessly go from point a to b, but then again, I'm a dancer and this would work with me. other custies could give you a variety of options and what worked for them-- just don't be rude (which I don't think you're going to be.) Honesty in the form of "hey, it was awesome going to dinner with you, but now I'm looking at you as a friend rather than as my fantasy object. I still want to be on friendly terms with you and catch up occasionally through dances, dinner, or whatnot, but for awhile I'm going to be getting dances from Kimberly, Crystal, and Tia (or whoever)" is better than rudeness or cold, unexplained distance.

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    Just go in and try to get a dance with someone else before she sees you. Then she will get the message when she sees that u have gone for a dance.

    That was silly of her to kill her money by telling u her probs.
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    Default Re: stopping dances with a dancer

    Just as the customers don't "own" the dancers the dancers aren't married to you. If she acts disappointed she is supposed to. But unless she's a real idiot she knows where it's at.
    Play the game or just tell her the truth- welcome to fantasy island.

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    Aren't there a load of other clubs in Vegas?
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    why not just go to a different club??
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    im sure she will get over it. she was prolly looking for an extra handout anyway.

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    Default Re: stopping dances with a dancer

    There is no handy-dandy way to do this, and it doesn't matter that you saw her outside the club. If you go back there and "switch girls", it will be awkward, no matter how silly that seems in a business relationship.

    Switch clubs.

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    Default Re: stopping dances with a dancer

    True, you do have the option of going to a new club. There is an over abundance of choices in Vegas.

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    The strip club program is simple: flavor of the day, no strings attached, pay as you go. Stick to the program, guys.

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    Default Re: stopping dances with a dancer

    recently, we actually saw each other outside the club for dinner and kissed. the discussion was good and we talked a lot about what was going on in her life, a lot of problems with ex's and drugs, etc...

    it just became too real at that point. i'm a dog, i admit it and am not proud of it. and i guess that's why i go to clubs, for the variety.
    Dude, you can't swing a dead cat in Vegas without hitting another strip club. Just move on...
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