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    I've had this one regular for about 3 months he was coming in mon-wed buying dances and vips. He slowly has become more and more demanding and a little scary. He seems to be running out of money now and I feel he has stalker potential. I'm trying to cut him off or get him intrested in another girl to no avail. It's to slow for management to cut the money off and he hasn't maxed out all the cards as of yet. anyone had any similar experiences or advice. xoxo

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    Default Re: Regulars who think they own you:

    I would just stop talking to him. Don't dance for him, don't encourage him, ignore him.

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    Default Re: Regulars who think they own you:

    agreed. or go work shifts at a different club for awhile so he doesn't see you all the time.

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    Default Re: Regulars who think they own you:

    This is typical. Good regulars have a short shelf life. They spend money on you until they realize they can't see you OTC. It sounds as though you did preserve his shelf life as long as possible before he figured out that he was expired. 3 monthes is pretty good. Ignore him. He will move on to the next girl once he has more money saved up.

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    Do the bouncers know something is up with this guy? Might want to mention it.
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    Work different nights or work in another club till he stops coming in.



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    Default Re: Regulars who think they own you:

    My advice is similar to the above. I'd work different shifts. It sounds like you don't like confrontation, which is why you're trying to pass him off to another girl. That's fine..I don't like it either.

    I just recently had to let a regular of mine go. He's been my reg for almost 2yrs..yup 2 whole freaking years. I've written quite a few threads about him. His money is good..but like you I felt that he had stalker potential.

    I would suggest that you talk to your manager and bouncers and let them know of your situation. Don't go into to many details..just say you have a customer here who you think is starting to harass you, and borderline stalk you. Let them know how he still comes in here and it scares you and makes you uncomfortable. I told my boss this, (and like all men do lol) he got all big, bad and macho talking about, "ok, just tell me when you see him come get me or the bouncers and we'll take care of his ass for you"

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    It may be a bad time for management to cut him off - that has nothing to do with you. Just stop dancing for him.
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    Default Re: Regulars who think they own you:

    Yup. Sounds like stalker material to me as well. Best to treat him as such. Follow all the advice given to people being victimized by a stalker.
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    Default Re: Regulars who think they own you:

    ^^2yrs that's crazy we should do a switch. I didn't think he would stick around this long it's like the less I do and say the more they come back I don't get it.

    *I talked to the bouncers and they stayed close by when he was in last He hasn't been buying as much or as often the past two weeks so I'm hoping that he is out of money and will just stop coming in all together. He is still refusing to buy for any other girl. I still don't think they are taking it as seriously as they need to he told me that it would be another 3 weeks before he comes back but he said that before and was back the next week. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that he will go away for a little while because I could use a break other than that I just plan to ignore him until I am forced to talk to him then I will make another stink about it with the bouncers.
    *When they are mean to me I get some evil pleasure out of mentally raping them of their finances until their significant other leaves and they are left with nothing it's my only revenge and makes me smile even when I don't want to. xoxo

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