Are there any clubs in vegas left where the dances are strictly one way contact (guy cannot touch you)? Or are there any vegas girls who get by fine at whatever club they're at with those same boundaries?
Are there any clubs in vegas left where the dances are strictly one way contact (guy cannot touch you)? Or are there any vegas girls who get by fine at whatever club they're at with those same boundaries?
honey, I've never hd a problem with that boundary. I never allow guys to touch me. You know where I have worked...
yeah but how do you deal with them when they all get pissy, whiny and won't spend anymore because they can't touch?





^^^ well that's all part of 'competition', unfortunately. As long as there are other dancers who will allow higher contact and/or 'extras', certain customers are going to spend their money on those dancers instead of on you.
right, you're not going to make as much as other girls who do, but as long as you are happy with what you are making, who cares?
true.
When you get the whiney pissy customers, you have 2 choices:
1. Cut yoru losses and leave
2. Try to work around it and keep them interested for as long as possible.
I usually go for 2, unless they are totally out of control grabby disrespectful.
What I'll do is be all cute and sexy and say things like, " Well, I really like you and would love to allow you to touch me, but I'll get in big trouble with the club. I don't want to get fired."
Sometimes I'll tell them " you know it's actually illegal to touch my breasts. If an undercover cop is here and sees us, we both can get arrested! Did you know that? They'll even put your name in the paper right under a charge for soliciting a prostitute! yeah, even though you just touched my breasts, it's still concidered soliciting. You don't want yoru wife or boss to see that in the paper, do you?" ( sure, it's all bs, but it usually works)
Or I'll tell them " You know, your not allowed to touch me. The more i have to stop the dance and remind you or fight yoru wandering hands, the harder it is for me to give you a good dance. I can give a dmamn good dance, so why don't you sit back and enjoy the ride?"
" I know other girls might have let you, but I bet their dances suck in comparison to mine, so why don't you give me the chance to please you?"
If they are grabby, but good money ( an hour VIP), I'll compromise and allow them to put their hands on my hips or butt cheeks so long as they don't touch my breasts. But not like, kneeding my asscheeks the whole time, just resting their hands there.
Basicially, if they are good money I'll tolerate more and try to divert and avoid as much as possible, but if it's just a lapdance, I won't put up with as much fighting.
Some will get pissy and won't continue..but there's always another guy in the club...
I noticed before I stopped dancing a fe wmonths ago that it had gotten much worse than it was before with girls putting out more...that kkinda ruined me and pisses me off, btu I didn't otice guys demanded more in general....For example, in a bachelor party another girl was allowning a guy to finger her...but the guy I was dancing for couldn't even touch my boobs...yet, he kept buying dances from me and told all his friends how awsome my dances were. he wans't bothered at all by the fact he couldn't touch.....because I prooved that my dances can turn him on more than if he could just get a shitty dance with a finger up the cunt. And that's what you gotta do..show that yoru dances are even more of a turn on than a bad dancer who needs to provide an extra.
And making a connection and good conversation is really a key...I have always said and believed that you can sell much logner strings in VIP with good conversation than you can by allowing extras...simply because fingering the same cunt for an hour gets boring...ut good conversation never gets boring...
^^^well, that's a different topic.
The problem is, in Vegas...it's a ti pbased industry. With the state of the economy, everyoen in a tip based job is sufffering. Cocktail waitresses, bartenders, table games dealers...they are all suffering a huge cut in wages.
And if you don't work in a tip based job, your looking at making slightly above min. wage, espicially being a dancer with no previous experience or skill set.
It sucks.
If you do the math and figure out workign a part time day job and supplimenting with dancing...you could easily work an extra shift each week and make in that night whatyou'd make all week at a day job, so it isn't worth it at all.
And in a regular day job...you've got a whole new set of PL's to deal with. The stress is still there...just in a different form.
Now, if your looking for some irregular income to help out, I can refer you to some of the fetish modeling I do...but it isn't steady income.
My ( non fetish) modeling work has taken a complete nosedive this year...I've only had 3 well paying modelign jobs so far this year, and have gotten exactly 3 offers. I suppose that nobody can afford to shoot anymore either. I knwo one photog. I worked with regularly had to sel all his equipment to pay his mortgage.
It's really just terrible now....
Honestly, any club you are NOT supposed to allow guys to touch your boobs...Do I personally? Honestly, yes I do in the VIP room, and most girls do. However, a guy won't KNOW that until he gets back to VIP with you, so no harm done there. It is not common to see boob touching on the floor, at all....
^ how long have you been gone from vegas?
Much has changed in just the past few months...it is common to see boob touchign on the floor now....





There has always been a huge discrepancy between "the rules" of a club and what actually happens.
PB makes a good point, for even for a $40K/year job with benefits and 401K, you'd be better off working 5 nights a week for $300 nite, paying for your own high deductible health insurance policy, and funding a self directed SEP-IRA
Rebecca Avalon
^yes that would be the wiser choice, but I don't even make anywhere near that amount dancing.
hrm, maybe this line of work isn't for you. It's tough, but I've always thought that if a dancer is not making at least $200/shift average, she's better off in another business. While some argue that it's "better than minimum wage!" I argue that i's too hard on your mind, body and soul to do it for any less.
The club I work at highly frowns upom boob touching,both on the floor and in v.i.p. T he $ sucks though. P.M and i'll tell you all about it.





I think anyone CAN be successful at this job regardless of their appearance, race, religion, etc. Its whether or not they have the drive to be successful at it.
Working at McDonalds for minimum wage is pretty tough on your mind, body, and soul too. I think it ranks even lower than stripper on the societal acceptance scale.
Rebecca Avalon
I worked at scores and they seemes to actually protect you and not let the guys touch you. Out of the 6 places I have been in vegas though that is the only one.
^I hate scores.. aren't they closing anyway?








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