In my adventures in dating and just life I'm finding that there is one thing that seems to be a deal breaker for a lot of men in my life.
This one "tiny" thing is not tiny to them. It can sometimes be one of the biggest reasons why they can't see me as date-able. Seriously.
They know me. They know what I do. They honestly 'love' me (as a friend and a lover) yet due to this one "tiny" thing... No go for me.
Why is it that my decision to not want to have any children of my own seems to be a deal breaker for a lot of men? These men also range in age from my age to mid-late 30s.
Plus these same men are not exactly being successful with relationships. They have had long term relationships or at least "proper" ones as such however in the end none have lasted. They are currently childless. Yet they still want children.
Do they really realise that even if they do have children (or a child) with someone they have to deal with that person for the rest of that child(ren)'s natural life (or at least til they are mid-late teens)?
It's starting to make me question what is really wrong with me if this is one of the main big reasons why someone won't have a meaningful relationship with me?
Do men get clucky not just women?



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