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    this morning a receive a call from a sheriff deputy. my ex and his girlfriend have both filed a restraining order against me. this is what the girlfriends report reads:
    on or about june 15 2008 "giggles" the alleged stalker of the victim, had a physical altercation with her. the victim states that she was home with her boyfriend when "giggles" called him and said if he did not come pick up their child, she was going to drown the child. the victim states that she and her boyfriend went to pick up the child adn as they were gathering the child's belongings, "giggles" struck the victim two times under her chin with the heel of a shoe. also, the victim states "giggles" has called her approximately twenty times between April 20, 2008 and June 15, 2008, saying things such as she will kill the victim by any means necessary. the victim states that she has not called the police for these incidents. due to the above, the victim is in fear of her safety and would like for the court to order that "giggles" have no further contact with her.


    BULLSHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! first off, i would never say things like that about my daughter. second, if that was the truth and i called him, why was it necessary for her to come? she had no business there in the first place. third, where is the mention of the 6 inch laceration on my side? what the fuck. i can't wait to see this ho get locked up. truth is me and the bitch were supposed to fight and the bitch cut me. he brought her over to fight me. the damn police wouldn't have been called had she not cut me. i have a daughter to take care of. and if they were so concerned about the welfare of my daughter don't you think they would've called the department of human services on me? the two of them can go to hell. i can't wait

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    That sucks! Did the police deal with her stabbing you yet? You should file a restraining order as well.

    At least she won't be around when your baby's father picks up his daughter at least!

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    they really not doin much about it. i'm goin down there tommorow and she won't pick up the babt with him cuz i'm gonna take him to court for full custody with no visitation from him. my child does not need to be around anyone who doesnt like me cuz they may use her to get at me

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    You really need to go down to the police station and make them deal with it, especially due to this restraining order.

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    Ahhh, life in Memphis. Man am I glad I moved.

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    You are a full-grown woman and mom and you are supposed to 'fight' the ex's new girlfriend? Am I missing something?

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess View Post
    You are a full-grown woman and mom and you are supposed to 'fight' the ex's new girlfriend? Am I missing something?
    it all sounds pretty ghetto to me.

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    the bitch and i have been having beef since day one. having folks calling my phone to tell me this ain't his baby

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    This does sound pretty childish. What happened to everybody being adults and making the child's safety the top proirity?

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    its not childish. it's serious. i have been assaulted. my character is being fucked up. now while they may be childish, i cant control that. my daughter is alive and kicking and i have no choice but to deal with him at a distance for the rest of my life

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    ^^ Then get a restraining order to protect yourself and your baby (who is the most important thing in this case) and do things the legal way. Yes, the judicial systems are not great but they are there for a reason...utilize it and keep your daughter SAFE. Stop everything you are doing (or not doing) to her and him and straighten it out now for your child.

    Since you have to deal with him as you have a child together your next best step is to handle this with authorites. As far as your character I have no idea what you mean by that (does it even matter because, as you say, you are in danger??). Just get a R/O if you feel you are in danger. File a police report if you were assaulted. Nobody can help you if you don't take those first steps, you know?

    You have a baby - I read in your first post that she was brought over to fight?? For what reason? Because of a MAN?? Yikes. I am not judging or anything but that doesn't sound like something you should do when you have children...whether they are in the house or not. Why is all of this drama worth it????

    Start thinking about the bigger picture.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arizona_Angel View Post
    ^^ Then get a restraining order to protect yourself and your baby (who is the most important thing in this case) and do things the legal way. Yes, the judicial systems are not great but they are there for a reason...utilize it and keep your daughter SAFE. Stop everything you are doing (or not doing) to her and him and straighten it out now for your child.

    Since you have to deal with him as you have a child together your next best step is to handle this with authorites. As far as your character I have no idea what you mean by that. Just get a R/O if you feel you are in danger. File a police report if you were assaulted. Nobody can help you if you don't take those first steps, you know?
    QFT. get a lawyer while you are at it.

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    I vote you move away & start a new life with positive people in it.....Things can only get better away from Memphis.

    Think of your child.

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    Quote Originally Posted by i.breathe.in View Post
    it all sounds pretty ghetto to me.
    My thoughts exactly.............you took the words out of my head and typed them for me.

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    That poor baby. This can't be healthy for her...they can sense feelings such as hostility, etc, and it's very stressful for them. From experience, my advice to you is to tell him that she is not his child and get him out of your life. I personally don't believe in welfare but in this case it would be best to let the gov support you & your baby so he can be out of the picture. He and his gf are not bringing anything but negativity to the table. I don't see how you or your daughter can benefit from him being around. Did he sign the birth cirtificate?

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    no he did not but i'm puttin him on child support. i did not make this baby by myself and i will not provide for her by myself. and growing up in a family where my mom and dad were divorced but my daddy was still there for me up til now, i was privileged. to not have him around her can only hurt her just as bad. what do i tell a three year old who asks where is my father. what do i say when all my efforts to instill in her my morals and values are rejected cuz she feels neglected by her father? what do i say when she asks me why he don't want her? my lil girl is my world. i just feel so guilty for bringing her into this fucked up ass world. but i have filed a police report. i called the police when it happened. i meet with my detective tommorrow and things will be worked out.

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    Why do you feel the need to keep your child around a man who is with a woman that is violent and hateful just because he is the father? I'm sure when your daughter is grown she will tell you that she wished you would have just gotten away from him. It's much better for children to be raised in a healthy single parent home than in a dangerous, violent, hateful home.

    And yes, it is childish. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, then it is a duck. I'm only 22, but I'll be damned if I ever acted like that. I am a parent and it is my job to be a responsible, mature adult and to care for my child and that is what I do 24/7. I think you seriously need to re-evaluate this situation and grow up. you have an innocent child that counts on you to be a responsible provider for her and this clearly isn't what is going on right now.

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    I totally agree that you should keep a man who is so rude, abusive, and childish around. Don't want to miss that chance he would instill the values of having such a shitty man be in your life.

    Donating sperm does not make someone a dad. I'm sure there are better men out there to show your daughter the love and respect that she--and you--deserve.

    You can have a full restraining order with no visitation rights against the ex and still get child support.

    But, reading this thread shows me you have no interest in taking the high road out of childish behavior--on your part--and prefer the drama.

    Hope your daughter turns out ok.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess View Post

    But, reading this thread shows me you have no interest in taking the high road out of childish behavior--on your part--and prefer the drama.

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    I dont necessarily agree with that. She went to the police,she isnt hunting the girl down to get revenge and beat the shit out of her..which is what a lot of the ghetto or poser ghetto girls I know would do. She's trying to do it right,and I have to at least give her credit for that.

    The situation IS childish....but it doesnt seem like she's the one initiating it. Yes, there were ways to handle it differently...but you cant expect people to change their whole life in one swoop..esp when people are assaulting her.

    She's trying....support that at least.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loveandluxury View Post
    Why do you feel the need to keep your child around a man who is with a woman that is violent and hateful just because he is the father? I'm sure when your daughter is grown she will tell you that she wished you would have just gotten away from him. It's much better for children to be raised in a healthy single parent home than in a dangerous, violent, hateful home.

    And yes, it is childish. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, then it is a duck. I'm only 22, but I'll be damned if I ever acted like that. I am a parent and it is my job to be a responsible, mature adult and to care for my child and that is what I do 24/7. I think you seriously need to re-evaluate this situation and grow up. you have an innocent child that counts on you to be a responsible provider for her and this clearly isn't what is going on right now.
    Damn straight!

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    i am the most responsible person that my dauhgter could be around. to insult me as a person is one thing but to insult me as a mother is a total complete mistake. for the past four months i've been the best damn mama i can be so none of you know my struggle. whoever thinks they're such a good fucking parent, your kids are probably FUCKED UP. let's just say one of you all who had a bitch cut you. what the fuck would you do? i'm betting ninety percent would try to get revenge on the bitch. but it's cool though. i know that i'm providing my daughter with the best life that i can give her throughout all this bullshit. she knows it and thats why she loves me so

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess View Post
    I totally agree that you should keep a man who is so rude, abusive, and childish around. Don't want to miss that chance he would instill the values of having such a shitty man be in your life.

    Donating sperm does not make someone a dad. I'm sure there are better men out there to show your daughter the love and respect that she--and you--deserve.

    You can have a full restraining order with no visitation rights against the ex and still get child support.

    But, reading this thread shows me you have no interest in taking the high road out of childish behavior--on your part--and prefer the drama.

    Hope your daughter turns out ok.
    Well put.

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    Quote Originally Posted by happygiggles View Post
    i am the most responsible person that my dauhgter could be around. to insult me as a person is one thing but to insult me as a mother is a total complete mistake. for the past four months i've been the best damn mama i can be so none of you know my struggle. whoever thinks they're such a good fucking parent, your kids are probably FUCKED UP. let's just say one of you all who had a bitch cut you. what the fuck would you do? i'm betting ninety percent would try to get revenge on the bitch. but it's cool though. i know that i'm providing my daughter with the best life that i can give her throughout all this bullshit. she knows it and thats why she loves me so
    I'm sorry, but if you were responsible, you wouldn't have planned a fight. if you didn't plan it and he just brought her to you to fight, the responsible thign to do would have been never open the door and call the police.
    to have taken the high road, never lowered yourlsef to their low standards and refused to deal with such immaturity and drama.

    I would suggest you competly stop dealign with these people all together. Get a laywer or public defender. go through him to work out custody/child support. Communicate thrugh letters only with the ex. You dont need to have contact with them if all they do is cause drama and issues. Be a good role model for your daughter.
    It takes 2 to tango...so I have a hard time believing your a completly inncoent party in all of this...

    I do hope that you startto handle this issue through the proper channels..your child doesn't need to grow up with such drama and craziness. She needs stability.

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    You can't see it now, but I've dealt with a violent, immature, psychopath ex. When I was pregnant my dad *begged* me to let him legally adopt my son while I would still have full parental priveledges. My son would have still lived with me and I would have made all the decisions. Just legally he would be my dad's adopted child. I didn't see it then, but I should have done just that and maybe my life would not have been hell for 9 years, and maybe my son would not have had to deal with his father getting shot and killed because he was a psycho that couldn't let things go. We had been apart for 8 years when that happened. Sometimes it doesn't get better with time.

    It wasn't a healthy relationship from the start, and I can see *now* that he would have been much better off not knowing his dad. I made a promise to myself that whenever I see someone in a similar situation I will let them know what CAN happen. Good luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by happygiggles View Post
    i am the most responsible person that my dauhgter could be around. to insult me as a person is one thing but to insult me as a mother is a total complete mistake. for the past four months i've been the best damn mama i can be so none of you know my struggle. whoever thinks they're such a good fucking parent, your kids are probably FUCKED UP. let's just say one of you all who had a bitch cut you. what the fuck would you do? i'm betting ninety percent would try to get revenge on the bitch. but it's cool though. i know that i'm providing my daughter with the best life that i can give her throughout all this bullshit. she knows it and thats why she loves me so

    I am a good parent, and my child is not "fucked up". He is a mentally and physically healthy 2 year old who speaks to me in sentences. He is incredibly smart and loving. He gives me and my husband hugs and kisses all the time for no reason.

    I wouldn't put myself in a position to be cut by a "bitch". I damn sure wouldn't have my child around somebody who would cut me. Look, I'm sorry for your injury and it's great that you are taking the higher road and not seeking revenge, but all I'm asking is for you to think a little more about the position you are in the the potential harm that you and your daughter could face, not just physically but mentally as well. Those people are abusive and you need to stay away from them. End of story.

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