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    So there was another post on here about being scared to work in the club, I'm barely out of college (21) in central florida, and I have been so scared to go work in Tampa because everyone says the market is so bad and blah blah blah,and its an hour away but if I worked for where I was gonna be working it is $11 an hour...so if i made more than this i think its a better decision, i have the clubs i want to go audition at (but im going to call first) I want to work at Mons, Odyssey or Thee Dollhouse. As long as I make enough money to cover my bills, thats all I really need, I don't live a huge fabulous lifestyle or anything.

    Im just scared I am going to drive to Tampa and go into these places and have the managers laugh in my face. I imagine all these tiny women with huge ass fake tits and I...keep imagining myself in the dressing room of a club with like $10 in my hand and being like wow this was a huge mistake...I mean I am not ugly or fat or anything, but i am thick...im 5'9" and around 150 with 36Ds...honestly if I even made $200 a shift that would be fine with me.

    Actually, I was thinking about it and wouldn't a slow time be a good time for a scared newbie to start? I feel like if I start when money is "bad" in the fall when school comes back into session and the "season" starts in Florida, ill have a developed hustle to make lots of money! So basically I dont know what this post is about but I wanted to post a picture to see if I would ever make any money in the Florida market....

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    you are thick, but i think if you find outfits that flatter you youll do fine. its not all tiny stick figure girls that dance trust me.

    ive seen some great money makers and pole dancers that were closer to your size.

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    Girls who have your look are the ones who make money in my town!!! Come to Tucson you'll bank.

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    don't feel so self-conscious and just do it. just feel sexy... be sexy... do what works for you and you will make at least a decent amount of money. I don't have big boobs... or a huge ass... and im good with what I make. some of these guys that go into strip clubs just like women and their company... it's all about your people skills.

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    I would't call you thick...curvy maybe...but definitely you have a cute little body on you! Go for it!

    I worked at Odessy and did quite well there, that was a few years ago so I can't speak for it today.. I can't imagine NOT making 200 bucks there, to be quite honest...
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    yep i never had self esteem untill after i started dancing.

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    ^ me either.

    being naked in a crowded room with everyone watching you forces you to be confident.

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    Not every dancer is stick thin, and plenty of guys like girls with a little meat. The biggest thing I'd say is find outfits that really flatter you (no matter what the other girls are wearing) and find the 'thing' the works for you. It may be a look, an attitude, pole abilities, etc, and work it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nicole84 View Post
    . The biggest thing I'd say is find outfits that really flatter you (no matter what the other girls are wearing) and find the 'thing' the works for you. It may be a look, an attitude, pole abilities, etc, and work it.
    I totally agree. I'm a more thicker (ie. curvy) girl and majority of the girls at my club wear 2 piece sets..some, not all have no business wearing them lol

    Anyway, eventhough this is the norm of the dancers in my club, I am just not comfortable enough wearing them. I prefer to wear dresses. I am more confident in my body, and I stand out in the crowd.







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    thanks yall! u are the best :-)

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    If there is any money to be made,you'll do it if you are confident. I'm your size(and almost old enough to be your mom) and,until everything went to crap ,I was always one of the top earners in any club I worked.

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    Just go into this with a positive mental attitude. Remember your motivating factors for wanting to dance. Be confident in your abilities to make things work there and don't compare yourself to the other girls in a way that would make you feel less than who you are. Keep your eyes on the prize and never forget why you're there and you'll be fine. Good Luck!

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    we have a couple of girls at the club that i work at with your build. guys really do like all types.
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    I'm the same height/weight as you (actually an inche shorter) but with a smaller bust - I get asked at least once a shift if I'm brazilian and constantly get told that my body is incredible. I'm sure the other girls get the same thing from their custies - but that's just it, everyone likes something different. The highest earners at my club are a tiny philipino girl and a tall blonde amazon of a girl, with a 'black booty' and curves to the days.

    Confidence is a funny thing, it will get better as you work.

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    Confidence and being unique is really important. I finished my first week, and I'm a 140 lb dancer of 5'3" and I'm doing really well so far! Just be confident in your skin, and play up your features -- pretty hair or eyes, curvy hips, whatever it is! I know it sounds cliche but it's tried and true. I was in this same position of doubt before I started a couple weeks ago and have been pleasantly surprised.

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    I think you would do ok. If you have the budget / interest in getting a home pole, I'd do that. Mine gave me the confidence to go audition and I probably lost 10 pounds in 3 months ( with about 4 hours of pole work a week in addition to my other lighter excercise stuff ).

    I just got more toned up from it ( I never gained my freshmen 10 in school ... I gained it later as a " career gal 10 " simply because I didn't have a lot of physical activity like I did in school. I was just working at a desk too much and getting frumpy fast , so I had to make some changes to prevent further decline of my looks.... lol.

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    i really am excited! thanks for all the support, yesterday i was walking into publix and i got super checked out by some central FL rednecks (which fall for me like flies) and i was like damn maybe i am supa hot! thanks girls!

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    Girls that you like you take all the money from girls who look like me at my club.

    I work in LA in the valley, you would do very well there!
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