Serious question.
Call it morbid curiosity or something but....
Reason I'd like to know is that I spent quite a while the other night at a great club here on the Space Coast in Florida. I had some great dances with some very hot women, but the lady I really wanted to dance with avoided me like the plague. She is exactly my type and I'd have spent a good chunk of change on her if she'd come over.
No stares, leers, gawks or other bad behavior, but she just refused to come over even if I motioned. She'd been giving some extremely hot dances to some fairly skanky guys so I was hoping she'd give me some good mileage as well.
After several dances with one of the other ladies, I asked if she wouldn't mind asking my choice to come over and dance a couple. After asking, she still refused.
I went to a late dinner with one of the dancers that night since we hit it off fairly well and had a great time. She invited me back the next night so I went and I tried again to get the object of my lust to dance for me. Again blue-balled. (At least until my dinner partner decided to get very intimate off-campus but that's another story. I did say we hit it off...)
I'm a professional guy who tries to show up at the clubs clean and well dressed since a little respect seems to go a long way. It certainly did that night since I made a couple of new friends. I tip at the rail and usually buy a drink for the lady if she'd like one, and honestly enjoy talking as much as lapping with the right lady. Apparently I just had some sort of repellent on both nights...
So ladies, what makes you choose guy A over guy B on a given night? The cash is always green, so it has to be something else. In this case "she's weird" seemed to be the consensus among the other ladies I met, but is there a "criteria" you use aside from personal preference?
Being male I'm fairly dense, but again I'm truly curious since there's always the one dancer at a club that just won't dance for you.
Thanks
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I agree with Cherry re: the 6th sense. Most of the time we can just TELL when a customer is going to be trouble. Every time I've had the "6th sense alarm" go off and I ignored it and danced for the guy anyway, it wasn't pretty! It's not even a tangible thing; just a vibe we pick up.

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