Hi All, I was on this site when I first started dancing but I've got a new name and have come back to dancing after a long hiatus! In London UK and just started at a new club. Good news is the club is awesome, girls are fantastic, management is excellent, and it's 20 minutes travel from my house... First night I did ok, quite a few dances and felt very confident, then last night... Well I went in with high hopes, chatted to other new girls had my hair and makeup done, and was having fun, club started getting busier and busier...then nothing happened!
The VIP was totally full, the club was quite busy with a lot of businessmen from Dubai, Oman, Scandinavia... And I didn't get ONE dance, in over 6 hours. I spoke to a LOT of people and was rejected each time! I don't know if I'm the only one it happened to... But it seems like most everyone else did quite alright. A guy at the end of the night did tip me my house fee so I wouldn't be out of pocket. It was so very weird! I can't be SO crap at sellinng that I get rejected by a whole club?
By about 3am with one hour to go I was feeling so stressed my friend was saying I should just go home..
WTF! So now today I'm saying 'alright cool just getting back to it, sh*t happens right?' But honestly I feel pretty down in the dumps about it and am thinking of how I can boost my spirits. Any kind words or suggestions would make me feel better because my self esteem has taken a bit of a knock and just being back into the dancing I'm feeling pretty worried about the situation.. Any suggestions on how to stop worrying? That'd be worth a million bucks!
Thanks for listening chicks xxx![]()



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