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    Default How do you feel about bisexual MALE customers?

    I don't go to SC's often but when I do I enjoy the hell out of it

    Well I recently had one of the best times I've ever had at an SC. Visited a small Las Vegas nude club 3 times in a 8 day trip.

    Minutes into my first visit me and a dancer somehow got on the topic of Tori Amos, and she asked If I had ever seen her live. I mentioned an ex-boyfriend and I had planned it but never went. So my "secret" was out quicker than I was expecting.

    I also had a LONG conversation with another dancer on the 2nd visit starting with my feelings about my straight brother wanting to become a woman (her brother is a trans-boy) . The conversation soon turned to GLBT topics in general and I came to the realization of why I like to go to clubs sometimes.

    When I want sex (which is RARE for me) I prefer to give oral sex to boys. I have a wide circle of friends (most female) that deeply satisfy my emotional needs, the only thing that feels missing sometimes is my need to cuddle. My last boyfriend was too grabby and clingy and its made me scared to get cuddly with boys. I'd love to cuddle with my female friends but this would upset their boyfriends.

    I think the strip clubbing is a fair way to satisfy my basic human need for affectionate touch (which girls are WAY better at than boys). For a reasonable fee with no strings attached I can have a gorgeous, smart, fun to talk to girl on my lap (I do like a little bit of grind in dances but NOT grind only), depending on boundaries I can get lots of hugs, and maybe kisses on the cheek and I highly enjoy it. Do you think dancers mind dancing for me knowing my preferences? Is refreshing to dance for a guy who is not looking to get laid but instead just wants playful physical affection even if he isn't 100% straight?

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    Dancers don't have any opinion about your sexual preferances. Just your wallet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Perry View Post
    Dancers don't have any opinion about your sexual preferances. Just your wallet.

    amen!!!!

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    Thats cool Perry. I appreciate the honesty. I probably was spending the most out of any guy in the club (only about $200 each visit, but the other dudes in the club were just paying cover and not even stage tipping, it made me feel bad for the dancers).

    I just want to do everything I can to be a pleasant customer. I shower right before I go ditch the axe I wear during the day and lightly put on real cologne. I dress cute like I would for a date. I felt bad though because I had forgotten to pack my khaki's (ideal club pants) and instead had to wear lightweight khaki cargo pants (preferable to jeans or shorts I think but I hope I didn't get lumped into the "sweatpant perv" category. The club allowed pretty high contact (I'm used to no contact clubs) I had my hands at my sides and dancers would move them to their waist is it OK that I would quickly stroke their hair or rub their back?

    I've never had the delusion to get to know dancers out of the club before but for the first time ever I do. I loved the conversations I had with some and would love to continue them over breakfast or a joint with nothing else wanted or expected (I don't even have the need to know a "real" name). Could that curiosity become a reality after being a good regular for 6 months or so?

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    Touching anything a bikini wouldn't cover is usually kosher - and appreciated in a high contact club.

    As for OTC, you're probably going to have become a girl's regular, and even then - pay for that time.

    I know strip clubs are fun, and I hate to be a wet blanket, but it's just a job to us. We have our own friends and family that we spend our free time with. Time given to a customer has to equal money.

    Sorry, honey. Don't let that ruin your fun.

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    I'd dance for you any day over a grabby guy trying to get me to date him or shove his fingers down my thong!!

    But then again...I love me my queen friends!! I have more fun with them then any of my friends(except my closest of course)...so I might be biased!!

    If you arent crossing boundries and are spending...I highly doubt any girl will care two bits about your sexual preference!!

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    Why would we mind that you have sex with guys? Like... I cannot imagine a scenario in which that could possibly be distressing.

    As for the rest - you have to understand that we are paid to charm and entertain you. The majority of the time we're not particularly interested in doing it for free. And every guy thinks it is a mutually great conversation - I mean, you wouldn't be having much fun if she subtly indicated that you bored her, would you? A couple of them are right, but the majority are not.
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    It doesn't bother me who customers sleep with. The most important thing to me in a customer is that they are respectful, dont try to touch and spend!! hehe.
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    I'm sure there are biased chicks out there, but eh, they mock everyone. Most of us have seen a lot and like the rare 'strange' but polite ones.

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    Hey, if you wanted hugs without tons of heavy grinding and weren't trying to get laid, you'd be my favorite customer. Why do I care if you like men too? That just means you may appreciate it if I mention some guys ass.

    BTW - Tons of dancers are Bi. I'd say 30-40% of girls at my old clubs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Why would we mind that you have sex with guys? Like... I cannot imagine a scenario in which that could possibly be distressing.

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    Default Re: How do you feel about bisexual MALE customers?

    Most guys do not go to the strip club to express their bisexuality.

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    Default Re: How do you feel about bisexual MALE customers?

    I don't care why you come in the door so long as you are respectful , pleasant, and giving/spending then I'll gladly dance for you.

    Plus I'm openly gay so you would be amazed the conversations I have with men from the 1's who come out to me, to those that have paided me to roleplay as if I was thier husband/bf ect( like my suga daddy/lol regular who paid me nicely to pack, hold his hand, and tell him he was beautiful). To the fact I love gay-bimen and they love me so I probably rather talk to a guy that is family then 1 that is like a creepy uncle anyday of the week.

    Now most guys don't come in for that and some dancers will laugh or treat you like you are from Mars or got coodies I'm sure, but I think it's fair to say not many dancers would turn down good money for cuddling, hugs, or conversation. Most of us have had more unssual and demanding request I'm sure.
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    i wish there were more of them so i could have conversations about my life and relationships with bisexual men without offending anyone.

    also, i dance to tori.

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