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    +1 for the classy stripper rant. All that shit attracts is some PL who is gonna try and whiteknight you. UGH. I will appear sane, as in, I won't go around boasting about a recent arrest or barfight I got into. But thats about where all my class ends.

    While I think the whole pretending to have an orgasm thing is a little over-the-top, I see where they're coming from. I do something similar to Yek during my dances. I'll compliment the guy on how sexy I think he is "Wow, you smell sooo good" or something. I always wink and make sexy faces, but I try to make it believable. I don't moan excessively or anything corny like that. They believe it, so it works!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by br4429 View Post
    I have had three different dancers orgasm with me over the years. How do I know? Well cold sweaty skin, shaking, moaning, heavy breathing - all can be faked although I think I can tell the difference. What cannot be faked is that they sat with me for the rest of the night and did not ask for any additional money. Great conversation and a different attitude than, just another customer. Of course I tipped well, but money is the ultimate motivation ( stripping is a job after all) so that is the best indicator.
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    Quote Originally Posted by br4429 View Post
    I have had three different dancers orgasm with me over the years. How do I know? Well cold sweaty skin, shaking, moaning, heavy breathing - all can be faked although I think I can tell the difference. What cannot be faked is that they sat with me for the rest of the night and did not ask for any additional money. Great conversation and a different attitude than, just another customer. Of course I tipped well, but money is the ultimate motivation ( stripping is a job after all) so that is the best indicator.

    HMMM FYI maybe they are anemic (like me) I get cold..and plus most dancers sweat if they've been doing a ton of dances..that, on top of the cold ass a/c of course they will have cold, sweaty skin.







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    Yeah, I am always cold from the AC but sweaty if I've been dancing hard enough. I also shake a bit if I'm either not warmed up enough at the beginning of the night, or tired because it's the end of the night. So guys always think I am either on drugs or sooo turned on...
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    What cannot be faked is that they sat with me for the rest of the night and did not ask for any additional money.

    sorry thats not gonna happen with any of us

    and most women get warm skin when they cum, at least I do. Very warm and glowing, usually my chest gets red when I orgasm.

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    Personally, I don't want to give the customers the pleasure of thinking they made me horny. First of all, they don't, and second if he believed he made me come, who says he can't decide now maybe it's his turn. No, thank you.

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    ^ you must really know how to make a dude feel special.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adelina View Post
    Personally, I don't want to give the customers the pleasure of thinking they made me horny. First of all, they don't, and second if he believed he made me come, who says he can't decide now maybe it's his turn. No, thank you.
    Sounds like you might be in the wrong business. We are supposed to provide a fantasy and honestly, if I'm getting paid, I'll say whatever he wants to hear...I won't do whatever he wants but I'll play up to his fantasy. If I was a customer, I would never get a lapdance from you. I've also never had a guy decide "it was his turn" to cum. They always have me just sit there next to them after I "cum" and relax and maybe sit back there for a few more songs. I don't think it's fair when you have never used this techinque to bash it and say what goes wrong with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by br4429 View Post
    I have had three different dancers orgasm with me over the years. How do I know? Well cold sweaty skin, shaking, moaning, heavy breathing - all can be faked although I think I can tell the difference. What cannot be faked is that they sat with me for the rest of the night and did not ask for any additional money. Great conversation and a different attitude than, just another customer. Of course I tipped well, but money is the ultimate motivation ( stripping is a job after all) so that is the best indicator.


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    When men go to a strip club they want to think that Miss Janey there is a stripper secretly and nobody knows but she has so much fun and it's such a turn on that it makes her eager to entertain someone for money because it's HOT.

    They don't want wife with three kids just paying the bills with asscat face or deep dirty whore who fucks everyone loudly... strip clubs are about fun and enjoyment and, shockingly, making a girl happy. When I go to a club, nothing is a better turn on and makes my pockets empty than a woman ENJOYING herself and being a little 'minx'. Having fun and then giggling and going, "Oh I never act this free in public, heehee!"

    A man wants to feel big and masculine - and making Miss Shy open up into a happy flirty party girl who thinks being naked is hot and sexy and it turns her on (with or without contact, it's ALL personality baby) makes him feel like a man.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    When men go to a strip club they want to think that Miss Janey there is a stripper secretly and nobody knows but she has so much fun and it's such a turn on that it makes her eager to entertain someone for money because it's HOT.

    They don't want wife with three kids just paying the bills with asscat face or deep dirty whore who fucks everyone loudly... strip clubs are about fun and enjoyment and, shockingly, making a girl happy. When I go to a club, nothing is a better turn on and makes my pockets empty than a woman ENJOYING herself and being a little 'minx'. Having fun and then giggling and going, "Oh I never act this free in public, heehee!"

    A man wants to feel big and masculine - and making Miss Shy open up into a happy flirty party girl who thinks being naked is hot and sexy and it turns her on (with or without contact, it's ALL personality baby) makes him feel like a man.
    yup, makes them feel special...
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Hell, I very nearly DID have an orgasm once because this ugly old fat dude had a really soft shirt on....
    whoa, that account just made me a throw up in my mouth a little...tmi? lol

    I have gotten to the point where I no longer even approach, or dance, for men I couldn't actually see myself hooking up with on some level.(thank god I dance at an upscale club, with a lot of surprisingly(sp?) attractive custies)Obviously, I try to remain as openminded as I can for financial reasons, but this does generally cut out all the ugly old fat dudes! I just leave them for someone else.(Also men with beards, or wearing shorts, personal preference)

    Here is a trick to find out if the custy is even open to the idea of getting his dancer off , since not all are. Towards the end of their 1st dance, ask if them if they like it when their dancer moans in their ear a little "like this *soft moan*" check their body language, if they tense, or act even slighty uncomfortable or shy, abort mission, giggle and try a different tactic. They are keen to idea if they react positively(sp?), so moan a little, than just keep turning it up a notch with each additional song. Men are dense, so at some point I bluntly tell them "wow, you're really starting to make me hot back here" or something along those lines. Then drop hints they could possibly "get you off" but you have "to be professional". The custy will usually then make it his mission to have his naughty little dancer get herself off, even though she's supposed to be professional. This also makes it seem like you don't do this with every guy. If you dance for buddies or guys in a group, don't fake an orgasm for more than one of them, save it for the one who has the money. good luck!
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    We might be speaking about different things with some of you. Of course, a man wants to feel special and the dancer who can make him feel that way will be popular. However, I thought the subject of this conversation was how to increase earnings by faking an orgasm at the club. There is a difference between enjoying a dance and the man's company and having a fake orgasm, isn't there.

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    girls, i did not get it. how can u have orgasm during lab dancing? i know you can touch yourself. but not down there, r u?
    i assume you can touch yourself everywhere on the body, but i ll charge at least double the money for a masturbate show.

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    I don't think anyone doing this is masturbating. I know I'm not. Some of us are pretty wired; I can have an orgasm without touching my genitals at all if I'm aroused enough.

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    Orgasms are in the mind, not body. That sure as hell took me awhile to figure out.


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    We might be speaking about different things with some of you. Of course, a man wants to feel special and the dancer who can make him feel that way will be popular. However, I thought the subject of this conversation was how to increase earnings by faking an orgasm at the club. There is a difference between enjoying a dance and the man's company and having a fake orgasm, isn't there.
    ^^ There is, and faking it is just taking "enjoying the dance" to a higher level.

    This is a bold statement that i'm about to make but here goes anyways.

    Any girl who:
    1. Doesn't know how to act
    2. Doesn't know how to act WELL -> as in making it seem REAL
    3. Doesn't want to act cause she thinks it's "fake"
    4. Won't act cause she's to afraid to
    5. Doesn't act cause she's tried to before and was so bad at it that she had a customer see through it so she won't try it again...

    .... That girl is NOT reaching her full earning potential

    Acting takes practice just like anything. Some people have been doing it in social situations for YEARS before they set foot in a strip club... my guess is that you've done it too.... you know like when you lied to your parents and said you were going to a friends house to spend the night ... you had to make it seem like you really were going to go to your friends house otherwise you probably wouldn't have gotten away with it. You just have to figure out how to use the same technique with customers in the club!

    Guys go to a strip club for either 1. Feminine acceptance, 2. Erotic entertainment or 3. Both.... usually for #3 though. But this is the thing... they want to "know" that what they are seeing is real. They don't want to think it's a trick. Can you imagine a magician doing a trick and and just spoiling the illusion the whole time by not properly concealing his trick cards or letting props haphazardly fall out of his hidden pockets.... He wouldn't be much of a magician because the illusion would obviously be fake!

    That is the #1 most important thing to a guy: is that it's REAL. But thats the thing... it doesn't HAVE to be real. Girls can still make money by providing guys with what IS real... but girls can make A LOT MORE by making what isn't real - REAL through VERY GOOD acting.

    As for how far you take it well... like I said guys come to the club for 3 reasons. The more you provide those things: feminine acceptance and erotic entertainment - In proportion to what the individual customer wants - the BETTER... as long as to the customer it seems REAL.

    And thats my take on it..... sorry it's so long

    My advice: pick up a few books on acting or creating illusions. One of my favorites: Magic and Showmanship by Nelms. It's for magicians, but it'll teach you how to create an illusion (aka something that isn't real but seems like it is) and it'll teach you how to create an entertaining routine (i've used it to stage my private shows and stage sets) Another one is Win the Crowd by Cohen.
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    I've never acted that way, and to be perfectly honest I DON'T WANT to attract the type of customer that wants me to act that way. I prefer the lonely types that need a hug and someone to tell their sad story to. There's one every night.
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    just want to add that i dont see anything wrong with a sexy subtle moan as part of a lapdance....even if the customer knows its fake . It is still a sexy addition to the show and better than watching a webcam girl fake by his computer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britneyireland View Post
    I've never acted that way, and to be perfectly honest I DON'T WANT to attract the type of customer that wants me to act that way. I prefer the lonely types that need a hug and someone to tell their sad story to. There's one every night.
    ... Are you a top earner in your club?

    ... And is there anything wrong with a girl if she doesn't MIND attracting customers that want "erotic entertainment" to make more money than she could make if she just went for the lonely types? I mean i think MOST of us would prefer to go for the lonely types... but if we all DID then there would be all these horny guys with a shit load of money and no one to spend it on!!!

    More power to you if your happy living off of what you can get out of the "talkers" but I'd prefer to max out my earning potential which often means expanding my customer base. Yeah sure, we all have a certain "niche" client that we attract most... but there's a reason that starbucks and walmart are corporate giants... it's because they can cater to a HUGE variety of customers! If you drink coffee you will probably find yourself at a starbucks at some point and if you don't mind taking advantage of sweat shop laborers then you will probably find yourself at a walmart

    Point being... when you limit what clients you'll cater to you limit your earning potential. Supply and demand... When there are more clients to demand your services you can potentially ask for higher prices (or make customers wait, or whatever...) ... after all your time is a very limited resource!!! So while your sitting there getting $10 for every drink some poor sap buys you while you listen to his sob stories I'll be in the champagne room getting $100 tips making a guy think that "all this dancing is getting me wet" and that "I loovvveeee dancing for him so much that I oOoOOOooooooooOOO!!!" And I'll have a couple regulars sitting outside waiting to get private shows from me after i'm done.

    Another thing about demand... it's a psychological thing too... when guys see how much other guys want your time... they want your time even more! This is a huge trick the video game companies play on us every year at christmas. They purposefully under-stock Wii's and PS3's because they know that the fight to get one is part of the hype... it increases demand. I could go into a long peice on how you can use this in stripping but for now i''l leave it as just something to think about. Point being: wider customer base (i.e. being able to entertain the lonely guys AND the horny ones) = more $$$ (or earning POTENTIAL)

    If you don't want to then fine, good for you, but i'd bet that you could make more money if you did. And just so you know, the way you worded your statement sounded very derrogetory to girls that will work with customers that are looking for "erotic entertainment" (even though they're not even giving extras!!!!!). I can understand that you want to offer your support to girls who don't want to do that, but you should really consider how it came off to the girls who don't mind working with those types of clients.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Silky View Post
    just want to add that i dont see anything wrong with a sexy subtle moan as part of a lapdance....even if the customer knows its fake . It is still a sexy addition to the show and better than watching a webcam girl fake by his computer.
    It's true... it's just like fake compliments! Swear to god! ->>> http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...d.php?t=113205

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    A dancer who is NOT comfortable with acting overly sexual will not be making more money trying to be who she is not. What's the point of telling those of us who attract different type of customer that we are in the wrong business. If you can make more by moaning and "coming", more power to you. I'd rather deal with the guys who are into other things. Not every customer comes to the club for a sexual experience.
    BTW, the lonely guy usually is a bigger spender that the guy who is impressed if you "come", imho.

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    Yek is dead on. I also did a long string once with a guy doing exactly what yek wrote. I called him (after that) Dan the 24 couch dance man, behind his back to Emily.

    Grinding hard is never the way to get long strings of repeat dances. Mimicking your actual passionate orgasms, however, is the way.

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    this thread had some posts in here that made me lol.

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    I had a weird experience once where I was dancing for this guy on his bucks night and was not grinding and I became extremely turned on and so did he and he was moaning and that was getting me even hotter!! Very unusual tho.

    Then I have this regular who I used to get super wet when I danced for him. That was psychological tho.

    I couldnt fake it tho. I would be too self conscious that it looked really fake. I breathe in their ears and sometimes do a little groan but i couldnt fake a whole orgasm.
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