[quote=Adelina;1605416]A dancer who is NOT comfortable with acting overly sexual will not be making more money trying to be who she is not.[quote]
Yeah but she could make more money if she was comfortable with it -> Wider customer base = more demand = more sales. Just cause she does it for one guy doesn't mean she has to do it with every guy. You have to be able to read your client to see what he wants
Who said that?What's the point of telling those of us who attract different type of customer that we are in the wrong business.
your not getting it. It's not a matter of CHOOSING one customer or the other, it's about the power to cater to BOTH... Thats how top earners do it... if you were curious. No shit not every customer comes for a sexual experience... if you had read my previous post you would have read that customers come to the club for 3 reasons and i'll repeat them for you here: 1. "erotic entertainment" 2. Feminine acceptance(company) 3. a mix of the first two. I think that guys that come in for one reason are just as likely to have just as much money as a guy that comes in for another reason... it's just how you hustle that's key. You can make just as much money off a lonely guy if you know how to get money off a lonely guy and you can get just as much money off a horny guy if you know how to get money off a horny guy (although i think a horny guy gives up his money a little easier once you get his hormones pumping...)If you can make more by moaning and "coming", more power to you. I'd rather deal with the guys who are into other things. Not every customer comes to the club for a sexual experience.
BTW, the lonely guy usually is a bigger spender that the guy who is impressed if you "come", imho.![]()
But just in case you guys were curious... what i've been calling erotic entertainment is like crack to men. When they get turned on and those hormones pumping - testosterone and adrenilline - their higher functioning brain gets shut down and their lower level brain turns on.... THATS how the top earners do it. You get a guy into that state and he is so easily manipulated it's beautiful.
Here's the real key: find the guy with the money and then get him in whatever state he needs to be in to fork over the cash. Getting them revvved up with crazy hormones works WELL... but not on all guys... but on most.... it's a sad truth the male species is mostly after one thing (proliferating their genes)... it's a socio-biological trait is so apart of who they are that you CAN NOT deny it, as much as we women are predisposed to do so. any ways... you should read "The Red Queen" It's about how sex has shaped human evoloution... i really should just write a thread on it already.
The key to the key: Being able to read your customer AND being able to give them what they want. Sure there are guys with money that come into the club looking for someone to talk to. I can make money off of them super easily. But let's say there is a night where the club is full of horny bastards... well if i can cater to them and you can't well... guess who is going to make the $$. And as you can see in the overall scheme of things the girl that can cater to both types of clients will in the long run end up making more money than the girl who can cater to just one. It is totally your choice whether or not you'd like to limit yourself to one type of client... you can definitely still make money but you can be a top earner if you don't limit yourself. No top earner limits herself to one type of client. I doubt you will find many exceptions to that rule (although i aknowledge that there may be some)
I'm really just trying to help you understand the logic behind why top earners are top earners through well known economic, psychological, biological and business facts. Do what you want but this is about what makes top earners top earners. And the truth is that realisticly faking an orgasm is one of a top-earners best tricks in her book... but trust me... there are a few more where that came from.



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....But he bought more dances because I was "turned on," and if I wouldn've chickened out on the whole bit, I would have gotten more.
Would you try it on a few other customers too and tell us how it goes? Do you think you got more dances than if you hadn't acted turned on?
on one hand i feel bad for taking advantage of it... but on the other hand i feel ok about it cause i'm providing them something that they don't know how to get on their own... as long as they're not too disgusting or rude

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