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    Default Hi it's me and I have a question

    Some know for a while I have contemplating doing at least a amature night, some think I am ready and I was talking to hubby we are on vacation, I'm not a dancer, I can dance and I'm not ugly but I have issues with boobs but ok check this out, hubby said "I wouldn't mind it, hell I would not mind the nude at all actually" :jaw falls on floor, ran to computer: so ok how do I do this? I am scared but , hell it's something I've wanted to do and there is a prize, I can use a new camera.. what do I do? help!


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    Default Re: Hi it's me and I have a question

    You are as hot as most dancers I have seen. You should do it. Especially considering your hubby is fine with it. Plus the side benefit is that you could proudly post here as a dancer

    Good luck with your decision.

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    Default Re: Hi it's me and I have a question

    I'd say do it. Your body is hot and there are ways of "hiding" things we feel aren't perfect. I hide my boobies with a triangle top that offers support underneath the breast, even when open!

    But I gotta tell you - guys don't notice. They think we're gorgeous. They don't pick us apart as we do ourselves (and sometimes others).

    I think you should do it! Going nude is actually a better idea in our area because more touching is allowed when girls wear bikinis.

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    Default Re: Hi it's me and I have a question

    Oh thanks. I did not know that.

    Ok so I have never seen an amature night, is it 2 songs? DO you go in wearing something and then take it off? I am so clueless.


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    Default Re: Hi it's me and I have a question

    OMG!! you should do it!! Amateur night at the cheetah is wednesday the 2nd, i think.. it's usually the first wednesday of the money. The grand prize is 300 dollars. You could do it! They judge by audience applause and you go up with three girls on a long runway like stage. The lighting is very flattering, so it will hide all flaws you have- trust me! everyone looks good on that stage, imo. The girls who I saw do amateur night were not that hot, and they were wearing regular pumps and really nervous....if you've already got stripper heels and you know a ton about dancing because you're on here-- you'll do fine!

    oh.. and the last amateur contest i saw was 2 rounds. There were like 6 girls, so the called them all up and said a random fact about them (where they're from, favorite thing to do, etc) and introduced them to the crowd, then had them all dance for a set (three songs) getting the audience all riled up the whole time. At the end, they narrowed it down to three from 6, and then had the final, where they chose 1st, 2nd and third. They started off wearing outfits, then took off their top the second song, bottoms third just like we do.

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    Default Re: Hi it's me and I have a question

    Ok ok ok, my heart is pounding cause I think I can do this! I have regular heels and stripper heels here. I saw the prize was $1,000 does the house take some? anyway do I have to get off the stage?


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    Default Re: Hi it's me and I have a question

    Most girls have some kind of flaw that they are self conscious about. I thought my boobs sagged too much, my teeth aren't straight enough, and I wasn't thin and toned enough and if I let these thoughts hold me back, I would have never danced and I'm so glad I do. And actually, I get compliments on what I thought was my flaws all the time.

    I would wear a cute schoolgirl outfit with pumps for amatuer night. Don't go in looking like a stripper. Good luck to you. I wish I was higher up in FL and I would come and support your amatuer night.

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    Any good video's I should watch to get a, ugh I always go as a customer to a SC! never to actually study the dances! any youtube things I can watch and get an idea? do they boo people off cause dune that would suck if I got booed lol


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    There is a place called Giggles where I can get some stuff, I saw it when I drove past it the other day. Oh I would love people to support me, I am going ot be a puddle of nerves, hubby will be there but he will say I'm great if I suck! yay for loving someone lol


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    Quote Originally Posted by High-Heel-Lover View Post
    Ok ok ok, my heart is pounding cause I think I can do this! I have regular heels and stripper heels here. I saw the prize was $1,000 does the house take some? anyway do I have to get off the stage?
    oh wait. i got the numbers wrong. It's 500 to the first place winner, 300 to the second, 200 to the third.

    oh and giggles has the CUTEST stuff!! i love that place. they have really pretty belly chains and lots of gowns, two piece outfits.. they have everything!! there's sex toys in there too haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by High-Heel-Lover View Post
    any youtube things I can watch and get an idea?
    well, i didnt put any youtube vids, but in my siggy there is a link to stuff in a sticky that i wrote for the newbie section. I wrote some stuff about what to do on stage. hopefully it might give you some ideas.

    welcome back to pink side. now stay here!




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    I just want to say that you will do GREAT. BUT...dont be discouraged if you dont win...a lot of clubs I've worked at had ringers for the amature contest. So if you dont..it doesnt mean that you werent the best..just that the club is too cheap to actually pay out the prize money,so they get ringers that work there to do it for free house(I've worked in two clubs that promised me this if I did the amature contest)

    Other then that...remember to SMILE and work the crowd. If it isnt rigged..it will likely go by audience applause. So MAKE them love you(you know you can!!).Try not to look nervous...look like you are having the time of your life and get the guys in the audience worked up..eye contact, wink at them,blow kisses...that kind of thing.

    Wear something easy to get off quickly...skirt,hot little dress,heels,thong..maybe matching bra.

    And boo on you busting on your boobs...I've seen em and girl..they are fabulous. NO worries!

    If I was closer I'd come cheer you on. Call me if you need a pep talk!!

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    aha! alright then I did not even think of that about the rigging it, great I wonder if I will be the only actual amature.

    Well I feel safer dancing with regular shoes for the first time... I got these the other day btw the most comfortable freaking heels in the world!!! seriously cause it's cloth, got it for a freaking steal at Burlington Coat Factory too...

    http://www.shoesunlimited.com/index....OD&ProdID=3164

    They look better on. Anyway Ok trip to giggles is a must and Pookie I'm gonna check it out. Also should I call and find out the info? how long does this go for all night thing? thanks!


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    OMG those shoes are fucking HOT!!!! I want!!!

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    Burlington Coat Factory on super sale!!! I mean it! They are so freaking comfortable it is not funny! plus I got "love your shoes, omg where did you get those shoes, those shoes!" all night


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    Oh and if the tie is missing! do what I did, go to Walmart and buy a black scarf, cut it in half and ta freaking da


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    ^ i know for a fact that cheetah's amateur contest is NOT rigged. real amateurs are usually the ones who win- i know because I have had one of my friends win who was a complete novice, and the other girl I saw win was a complete newbie too. There ARE girls from other clubs who will go and try to win, but the audience likes the new ones. They actually do pay out the prize money, and every girl who is employed at cheetah has to work that night because they make a huge deal of amateur night b/c it's a big money night for the club... and the extra house fees make up the money.

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    You can do it HHL! Seriously, get your booty on that stage and do your thing. Oh, and to echo the other girls....those shoes are cute as hell.

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    Yeah, I've seen many of your pictures and I must say you are quite hot. Go for it...at least for one nite..preferably in MKE so I can watch
    Sexy Jasmine after getting fucked over at work:

    God loves strippers and when guys do things like that its an automatic ticket to HELL!


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    aw yay! ok as I sat in bed this morning I said "I'm blind! wth do I do?" I wear glasses, with out them yeah I am I can't see so do I not wear them or do I? also Keira are you around? want to go to Giggles with me and pick something out?


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    Default Re: Hi it's me and I have a question

    You are doing this for yourself right ? Not just to be able to post on the pink side ( which I think you are ok posting regardless .... ) ?

    I think you would be fabulous.

    I don't know if I would do an amateur night though. I might just work a few nights if I were you. You can make amateur night money just by reading hustle hut and having the balls to approach a lot of people . It might be a lot less hectic. I guess doing the am. night has it's appeal though too.

    I know you are talking clubs , but I can't place where they are. What states are you considering ?

    My big thing was " dancing will change me as a person / change my soul " and other strange ( untrue ) thoughts. All it did when I finally did it was put a real experience in my mind instead of a " what would it be like " experience. If you really want to do it , just do it !

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    oh and about the glasses- if you're doing the schoolgirl thing, they would go really well... do you have contacts too? I wouldn't go on stage without vision correction as it's only about 3 1/2 feet wide (with runner lights) and if you got off balance it might be bad.

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    Default Re: Hi it's me and I have a question

    Yes for me, I'm almost 30, oh GOD 30! and I have been getting the you look great! I never had that, I am back to pre kids weight hell, high school weight! and I don't want to be 40 and say "shit why the hell didn't I do this when I had the body" not saying 40 yr olds are not hot but as a personal goal.

    I don't really care about the pink side, it's more of an exp. I still want to own a club and as part of the research I want to know what it's like to be on stage, plus seems kind of the right time, I don't feel bad about who I am as a woman.

    Now it's iffy cause the people we are staying with leave on Thursday and unless the kids fall asleep and they agree to just keep an ear open then I can't do it, believe me I am mad but oh well. Hubby said that if it doesn't work out we can do it back home, that scares me more cause it has taken a lot for him to say "sure!" and then back home well we know people and oh I dunno, here it seems I guess perfect, hard to explain.

    Anyway keep fingers crossed that this can happen because I really want to do this.


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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    I don't know if I would do an amateur night though. I might just work a few nights if I were you. You can make amateur night money just by reading hustle hut and having the balls to approach a lot of people . It might be a lot less hectic. I guess doing the am. night has it's appeal though too.
    I wanted to reiterated this. I have no problem getting up on stage, even my first night as a dancer... But amateur night for me was a different story even after I had been dancing a while. Too much pressure lol. But I wish you the best of luck if you do it. If anyone could win it would be you!

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    I called! they said 3 songs and no lap dances so I was relieved. hubby siad "if you want to win pretend it's for me" I guess I dance well for him.

    Now if ti's all nude what are the rules? still have to have a thong bathing suit material? do I go with the outfit and then take it off on stage? why is this so freaking nerve wrecking? :bites nails:


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