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    Default Finally, a strip club visit that went PERFECT.

    I'd just like to say, that I finally "get" the strip club scene, thanks in part to the forumgoers here.

    I've made a couple posts here and a couple of bad visits to other clubs, and I finally found a club that fits my needs and my financial needs as well.

    Small club in Reading, PA area, not the "BIG ONE" that everyone goes to the small town 2nd favorite. Very pretty girls, very decent atmosphere, etc.

    Found a stripper "Nicole" that I really enjoyed spending time with. Very much my type, bought a lap dance from her ($20), bought a 2nd one and asked her how much the champagne room cost, how long it goes for, and what exactly the difference is, "well, you get a bottle of shitty champagne, you get 30 minutes alone with me in a closed room, and I allow 'mild touching'. ". I told her to get back to me at some point that night and we'd see how it goes.

    I had some problems getting her attention again (she seemed very popular there), and when I did, she came back over, talked for a bit and walked away and I was like "hey, what about that dance?" and she goes "whenever your ready", so we went back there. Had an awesome conversation about life in general, stripping, etc. It was kind of "touchy" but not in a skeezy way (at least not in my opinion) , gave her a decent tip ($25, at least I think that's decent), and went back to my table with my friends.

    She was super cool, and hung out around us most of the night after that obviously. I wanted to buy another dance from her, but I didn't know if that would come across as borderline creepy/stalker or what.

    So, thank you Nicole, and thank you stripperweb.com. I've learned a lot of club etiquette and other things from you that really helped me out. I'm actually enjoying going to the strip club more than ever before now.

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    Default Re: Finally, a strip club visit that went PERFECT.

    Tip...buying more dances is not creepy or stalker. We appreciate it when you spend more money on us..esp if you arent BEING creepy(trying to touch where you cant,trying to get her to go out with you,etc..etc..)

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    The reason I say "creepy/stalker" is that during the lapdances I didn't say much at all, and she goes to me "why are you looking at me like that" and I say "what? Like what?" she goes "no one ever looks me in the eyes, they always just look at my tits, I really like when a guy looks me right in the eyes.. it's sexy" and I was like "uh, ok... I just like the way you look when you're working it" and she laughed and said "she's just good at what she does" , during the CR dance, she let me get touchy, and I didn't want to seem like "that guy" who's in love with a stripper, ...I guess i overthought it.

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    Default Re: Finally, a strip club visit that went PERFECT.

    aww its okay to be that guy

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    Default Re: Finally, a strip club visit that went PERFECT.

    if she kept hanging out over there chances are she was hoping you would get more dances. i highly doubt it would have weirded her out.

    that's what we are there to do.

    if you were creeping her out she most likely would have left.

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    Default Re: Finally, a strip club visit that went PERFECT.

    don't get too crazy with the staring-in-eyes thing though. That CAN get creepy. If I gesture to my boobs, look at my boobs!

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    Default Re: Finally, a strip club visit that went PERFECT.

    Sometimes when I get a dance, I'll just close my eyes through most of the song. I've always wondered if that ever bothered them.
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    I look into customers eyes and they look into mine. I think guys like to see the expressions on my face as much as my body sometimes. They want to think that u r enjoying dancing for them. Eye contact is the sexiest thing u can do during a dance IMO.
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    THanks for the input again.

    Is my tipping correct, or a bit off in your honest opinions .. I give $5 for the 5 minute lapdance, and I gave her $20 for the CR... I think it was OK... figuring she got at least HALF of the money that I paid for each of them...

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    Default Re: Finally, a strip club visit that went PERFECT.

    If that was in addition to what you paid for the dances, that is an OK tip. (Well, it would be around here. Regional differences may apply.) If that is all you paid total, it is on the low side.

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    Default Re: Finally, a strip club visit that went PERFECT.

    No, dances were 20 each, CR was 125

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    Good for you! I always feel sorry for men who go to the clubs and don't get the "full experience". They're really missing out, don't you think?
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    Quote Originally Posted by MiragePDX View Post
    Good for you! I always feel sorry for men who go to the clubs and don't get the "full experience". They're really missing out, don't you think?
    I never really had a "great" lapdance til this girl. From talking to her, she's only here for the summer, so I'm planning on one more big trip at the start of August, should be able to buy an hour in the CR hopefully. It'll be worth it.

    Edit: There's something awesome about being in that situation with an extremely attractive woman, who isn't your SO, being all over you, and telling you how awesome you are, even though you aren't. I do enjoy it.
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    Default Re: Finally, a strip club visit that went PERFECT.

    In my experience, dancers turn over every few months. If you find one you really like, she will be gone in six months, a year at the most. So enjoy your dancer while she is there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UtahMike View Post
    In my experience, dancers turn over every few months. If you find one you really like, she will be gone in six months, a year at the most. So enjoy your dancer while she is there.
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    We come, we go, and sometimes the MOST PSYCHOTIC ONES COME BACK.

    Sorry, I'm just marveling at the girls who have returned after I thought I'd never have to see them again...


    Anyways, OP should call the club to make sure she'll still be there, or find out what day she's working so he doesn't make a big trip for nothing...

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    Default Re: Finally, a strip club visit that went PERFECT.

    Or if she's not on a schedule, try calling a couple hours after shift change to see if she's there.

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    A perfect strip club visit isn't something you "get", it is something you make. I have found that as a customer, there are a few things I can do to make an evening in the club enjoyable:

    1. Shower, trim your nails and your nose hair, brush your teeth. You wouldn't want a dirty dancer to dance for you, so why should they dance for you if you are dirty.
    2. Dress well. That doesn't mean wear a suit. But don't wear the clothes you have been working in all day. An extension of (1).
    3. Budget the evening. Figure out what you can afford to spend taking into account cover charge, your drinks, her drinks, tips for the stage dancers, and whatever number of private dances you would like to have.
    4. Understand the rules of engagement. You are there to have a good time. The girls are there to make money. If you expect freebies you are being unreasonable and not respecting the girls. Don't go if you are not going to buy dances (and if you are not going to buy dances, then for God's sake give the stage dancers reasonable tips).
    5. Share the Wealth. In my favourite club (it is out of business now) I had a favourite dancer. When I was there, she sat with me. I bought her drinks and dances. When she was on stage, she always sent another girl over to keep me company. So I would buy her drinks and dances.
    6. Don't expect extras. Just have fun.
    When you give respect to the clubs and the dancers, it is amazing the respect that is returned to you as a customer. I have had a club change its liquor list to carry my favourite scotch. I have had dancers give me gifts. I have walked into a different club in a different province and have a dancer recognize me from previous clubs I have been in. I think things like that happen because I plan to have a perfect night at a club, I just don't expect it to happen by accident.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Miniman View Post
    Dress well. That doesn't mean wear a suit. But don't wear the clothes you have been working in all day.
    Last Wednesday, on my way from work home, I stopped by a SC (my 1st time in 10 years), to grab a dinner, a drink, and a couple of LDs. It was only after I got my first dance did I realize how close these dances are (yes, I so was naïve 72 hrs ago). She was all over me, whispering into my ear, rubbing herself against me, even putting her mouth close to my crotch. I would not get so physically close with my wife unless I showered right before. Mind you, I am not overweight, nor have a BO problem, nor have a physically intensive job (I just do white collared job in an air-conditioned environment), and I do wear deodorant and aftershave. But I have been in the same clothes for 14 hrs, and have not had a shower in that time. I didn’t reeked but since I smelled the dancers’ perfumes, I am sure that they could smell me. Not ideal.

    Question 1 for the dancers: do you tend to steer away from guys who wear suits because it is more likely that they stink? (I assume that guys do not generally put on a suit when they go out to a SC after they showered after work, but guys wear suits when they are coming from work, thus likely did not shower)

    Question 2: Yes, I would prefer to shower right before having anyone so close to me, but that would be difficult to do. There is no shower at my work; I’d have to drive from the city to my house in the suburbia, shower, change clothes and drive back to the city. Time and gas wasted. What do you recommend? Would just a change of clothes do it? Or is it not that big of a deal?

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    I'm sure you smelled fine. You sound unusually fastidious - which is okay for you, but we don't expect customer to have stepped right from a shower into the club, just to be exercising normal North American hygiene.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Miniman View Post
    When you give respect to the clubs and the dancers, it is amazing the respect that is returned to you as a customer. I have had a club change its liquor list to carry my favourite scotch. I have had dancers give me gifts. I have walked into a different club in a different province and have a dancer recognize me from previous clubs I have been in. I think things like that happen because I plan to have a perfect night at a club, I just don't expect it to happen by accident.
    Very nicely done.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bsteve View Post
    Question 1 for the dancers: do you tend to steer away from guys who wear suits because it is more likely that they stink? (I assume that guys do not generally put on a suit when they go out to a SC after they showered after work, but guys wear suits when they are coming from work, thus likely did not shower)
    I steer clear of guys in suits at my club because in general they are snobby and have a "I'm too good to pay women for nudity" attitude. I found the opposite when in another city in my country.
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    Question 2: Yes, I would prefer to shower right before having anyone so close to me, but that would be difficult to do. There is no shower at my work; I’d have to drive from the city to my house in the suburbia, shower, change clothes and drive back to the city. Time and gas wasted. What do you recommend? Would just a change of clothes do it? Or is it not that big of a deal?
    Like Jenny said, you don't have to shower right before coming to the club. Just don't wear the same clothes for a week and expect us to appreciate it. Just be normal.

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    I guess my "strategy" really does work then. I always shower after work and before going to the club. I always wear a few sprays of a non offensive cologne. I always keep my hands to myself, unless instructed otherwise. I always try to dress as nicely as possible w/o being over dressed.

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