Is it bad to not want to date someone with 2 kids? i love my boyfriend but its seriously wearing on me. hes a great guy, but i think i boiled down everything that i dislike about the relationship is related to him having 2 kids. they are great kids, and i want my own some day....but not someone elses.
he would be the ideal package otherwise. i know everyone settles to some extent in a relationship but this is a big settlement situation. i love him, but i dont feel that i can handle being with someone with 2 kids. weve only been together 4 months and i feel a lot for him but, like i said i feel this might be a deal breaker for me.
does this make me a shallow person for not wanting to date people with kids?



theyre cute. but one of them is just so badly behaved and i dont agree with his parenting style, which of course i cant comment on. when you think about that future, you always have to consider the kids and thats so hard on a relationship. say you got to a serious point and you were saving money together or whatever.. do you want your money to pay for his kids stuff? i felt like SUCH a bitch when i said that to my bf.. but when he mentioned moving in and saving together, i dont want my money going to his kids. sorry. never.
i dont even care if he gets mad anymore.. i am sick of our relationship revolving around his children.

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