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    Default I'm being singled out by the housemom and bouncer.

    Ok, so there is one bouncer at my club who is notorious for being a stickler for the rules. That's nice and all because it keeps the place clean, but lately he's been picking on me and it's getting to me. He's done it to other girls and gotten in trouble for it, but that's not an option for me because I'm already on the manager's shit list.

    For example, last night I was in a VIP room with another girl. She was straddling her guy backwards and grinding, and I was giving my guy your standard close up but not "in your lap" dance. I guess the housemom peaked her head in and told him to come to our VIP room and regulate. The other girl had stopped what she was doing by then, and I was still dancing. The bouncer pops his head and says "It's pretty sad when the housemom sends me back here!" referring to me! I wasn't doing anything wrong, or at least I wasn't doing the MOST wrong! Of course technically we're supposed to do airdances from a foot away, but NO ONE does that. Turns out the bouncer was only tipped $10 by our guys, so he must have been pissed that he was "underpaid" Then the guy I was with was so pissed off by that, so he asked for a separate room from the other two. JUST MY LUCK, this asshole tries to open his shirt (claiming he was the Guinness Book of World Records holder for most sit ups) and then drop his pants even though I was telling him "No, don't do that you're going to get me in trouble and you kicked out" Seriously! AND JUST THEN THE BOUNCER WALKS IN. This dude was such a goober, he was one of those guys who tries to push you around during your dance where they want you to go. I was only putting up with it until the funny money girl came - at the last minute, of course.

    I can't complain to the manager, because a few weeks ago a pushy drunk guy PULLED ME UP INTO HIS LAP when I was nude (I was politely telling him not to, once again they hadn't paid yet), and just then the manager walked in the room. GODDAMNIT. I got screamed at and was told if I did it again I'd be fired. Meanwhile, the other girl in the room and I both complained that these guys were super handsy, and they didn't care much because we had "done wrong" ourselves already.

    The other girl who I was with who was reverse straddling and grinding the guy got pulled into a room by this bouncer later that night and made $500 from it! What the fuck?! This guy is so crooked. I truly, honestly don't do anything that the others girls aren't also doing.

    The housemom picks on me because I drink. Big deal. I'm not the only one. I work 8-4, and I stop drinking at midnight. Half of the nights I have cut down to not drinking at all or just sipping. Our club's breathalyzer is super inaccurate, if you smoke a cigarette or use listerine before you blow, you can register that you've drank when you haven't. You can be WASTED and if you alternately suck and blow you can get a .00! So it's kind of bullshit. She picks on me everytime before I breathalyze, and will never let me leave early because I "probably can't pass the breathalyzer anyways". I'm kind of a lightweight since I starting dieting a few weeks ago and I'm slurring after two drinks.

    What do I do? In my past experiences when this BS happens I switch clubs, but I'm making good money so I'm going to stay where I am.

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    Default Re: I'm being singled out by the housemom and bouncer.

    maybe you tip them enough, but they think they deserve more? If you are making good money, they know. It doesn't matter if they deserve it. if they expect it, it can make your life hell.

    I say fuck 'em and just avoid any and all confrontation possible. The housemom especially. Why was the housemom peeking in the VIP anyway? That's not her job.

    But I think you should be kissing some manager ass.

    This reminds me of my first club. They were really tough on me and I don't know why. But I never got fired and just kept tipping the minimum until they were nicer.

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    Default Re: I'm being singled out by the housemom and bouncer.

    i just have to comment about the breathalyzer.. it is meant to pick up alcohol so since theres alcohol in listerine and its on your breath, thats why it would register.

    other than that i dont know what to tell you.

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    ^ yeah, but you could have not drank all night, then rinse your mouth and blow a .10! That's like 3 drinks!

    I know there's alcohol and that's why, but it's just meant to illustrate how inaccurate they are.

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    Default Re: I'm being singled out by the housemom and bouncer.

    I agree with Emily: kiss up to the manager and get back on his good side, but fuck the greedy bouncer and the prissy housewench.

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    Default Re: I'm being singled out by the housemom and bouncer.

    I should note that at this club the housemom is the direct manager of the dancers, she has the power to hire and fire girls. We have very little contact with the actual manager, so I don't know how to kiss up to him or if it's where I should be focusing my effort.

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    Default Re: I'm being singled out by the housemom and bouncer.

    well, instead of quitting, you can just deal with it until you get fired (and then come back a week later.) But if you are a high earner, and mostly no drama, I don't see why they would.

    and as a side note, I hate when a housemom or VIP host is a manager. Also like my first club.

    It makes tipping a totally different animal.

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    ^^ true, didn't think of that. Girls who sell rooms nonstop and make $$$$ for the club will rarely get in any real trouble or get fired. They might bitch at you, but they don't want to give up the money that you're bringing in.

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    ^ I do very well and probably have an average level of drama. If a girl very rudely cuts my throat, I will bitch at her and complain to the housemom. I get in trouble in VIP about as often as every one else does because this bouncer is so picky and unrealistic about what we're supposed to be doing back there - he really mistakes harmless affection and flirting for dirtiness. I don't let the ghetto girls who are there only on weekends pick on me and intimidate me and there has been one screaming argument (I wasn't the one screaming, I calmly told her that she can't talk to me or treat me like that and to calm the fuck down). I have one enemy, but everyone else hates that girl too. I'm not a "no drama" girl, but I'm not a crazy drama llama either.

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    Default Re: I'm being singled out by the housemom and bouncer.

    One other thing I've learned...

    If you are doing the same things (the things you're technically not supposed to do, but everyone does type things) as other girls, it might appear to them that you are doing it more if you are just back there more.

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    ^ that could be it. The mindframe of "She gets more rooms because she's breaking the rules". We all break the rules when we're in the rooms! I just get more rooms in general.

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    Default Re: I'm being singled out by the housemom and bouncer.

    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    ^ yeah, but you could have not drank all night, then rinse your mouth and blow a .10! That's like 3 drinks!

    I know there's alcohol and that's why, but it's just meant to illustrate how inaccurate they are.
    well, as much as that may suck, i cant use mouthwash with alcohol in it bc of the one in my car. my car wouldnt start and it would register me as having blown alcohol.

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