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    The OP wants to move past her being a stripper. I hope this chick comes to her senses and finds someone better to date that u. I cant believe u went out with her and kept expecting her to charge u for sex. This is never gonna work out, cut your losses and go out with a woman whose job u can handle. This is clearly too much for u.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MrTenPercent View Post
    As far as my guitar: It's a Gibson ES-339 Semi-hollow body that was given to me as a birthday present. My favorite blues artists are Hendrix, Muddy Waters and Clapton. As for my "best riff", I don't think I could name a favorite, and message boards aren't exactly easy when it comes to writing out tabs.
    Outstanding! Your street cred with me just shot way up.

    Also, regarding the article I posted earlier in this thread, I apologize if it hit a nerve for anyone. This IS customer convo, and I think the article is damn funny even if a bit over the top, so I thought it was appropriate to the occasion. As a SCJ who has been married for decades, I guess I've often had the fantasy of dating a stripper, and that article helps me sort of convince myself that I didn't really miss out on that much, except for the part about the mind-blowing sex. That part I missed out on. Damn it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Johnny_Rexx View Post
    just remember it's a job and while your there just remember your just another customer.
    ...a customer with a guitar and a dental plan.
    "Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."

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    I'll respond to the real questions and helpful/positive people and then lump all the others together at the end.

    FBR: I didn't mean groping at her on stage, I meant just rolling around on stage and getting a little too exploring with their hands when getting private dances or what not. And sorry about the "dirty old man" comment, I'm sure there's plenty of young savages out there as well, lol.

    Everyman: I guess that would be the case for the girls on this site, but some of them have been insightful/positive and others have been downright (in my eyes) rude. All the traits you listed are in check as far as I'm concerned and what my acquaintances have told me over the years. But I'm not going to divulge in my personal experiences as I'm sure most of you simply wouldn't give two shits about them.

    Charlie: Thanks for at least trying to give me a semblance of respectability. I appreciate being given the benefit of the doubt. I don't think anything short of a feature-length movie would be "proof" enough to satisfy most of the voices here.

    Golden: I don't know what you're trying to insinuate by asking if I'm more charming in person. I guess I could lump this in with my response to Everyman, or with the response I'll put at the end of the post, but I figured I'd extend you the same courtesy of a direct reply since you asked a "real" question. I'm sure she knows what she's "getting herself into." We've spent a fair amount of time together and she pretty much knows what to expect from me. I don't bullshit people, I have no reason to. No one benefits from it in the long run and I simply don't have the time or energy to pretend to be something I'm not or impress someone. If I have to try and be someone I'm not to gratify any other person, that person is simply not worth spending time around. I'm just answering the posts/questions as they come to me and am trying to be a blunt and honest as possible. Some have helped, others have just shot me down as some fraud just trying to satisfy some strange mental fetish I don't have. Whatever.


    Johnny_Rexx: Thanks for the insight, and I realize (at least as far as my guy friends are concerned - I really don't keep female friends) what kind of reactions I might get when/if my friends find out depending on where the relationship goes. We got most of the "stripper-talk" out of the way with our last conversation and I'm feeling a lot more relaxed about everything and understand what she does at work is only to make money. No problems there, we're on a pretty even platform in that area.

    As for going to the club, I hardly ever go to strip clubs as it is, so I don't think that would be a problem. Our schedules work out so I wouldn't have to visit her there to see her on a regular basis.

    jaizaine: I've moved past her being a stripper. Will it always be somewhere at the back of my mind? Probably yes for at least the near future, it's not every day I'm in this position or get involved with a woman in "this" line of work. She obviously sees something in me and is willing to work around the fact that I'm just-a-tad-bit-slightly-maybe-on-tuesday-but-not-thursday-uncomfortable with what she does for a living. I think someone involved with a criminal defense attorney who helps get a few murderers or rapists shorter prison terms or off completely might have a few reservations or times where they have to bite their tongue as well. Am I directly comparing the two lines of work? No, but I think there are definitely some parallels there.

    Besides, what kind of relationship is just fucking peachy from the get go? Everyone has issues and getting around them/working them out is what makes relationships last. Please don't judge someone you know nothing about in the future, it makes YOU look bad.

    azdd: Glad there's ONE less person I have to justify myself to on here, though I never should have had to in the first place.

    To all the hecklers:
    Thanks for absolutely no positive input whatsoever. No one forced you to post here, and no one forced me to read your posts - but we both did anyway. I'm not going to try and make you believe anymore than you want to, so you can just brush me off like that tacky glitter you wear every night at work. I'm done being patient and polite with you.


    To everyone else:
    Thanks for the input and help, I'm sure my girl and I will have a better relationship after getting those awkward questions out of the way. Your being positive and joking about the whole thing made me relax and lighten up a little bit.

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    Wow this is a long thread.
    And a very weird one i might add.
    if this is indeed a real post(and im thinking it probly is, cause its so long and detailed)
    than i think the OP should just spare the girl and not pursue her. the reason i say this is because hes not comfortable with her dancing.
    And i cant blame him exactly cause alot of guys would not be comfortable dating a stripper. But he seems to keep thinking that all we are about is money.
    Yes inside the club we are. its a JOB.
    if i were to date a shrink i wouldnt expect to be pyschoanalyzed on a date and iwouldnt wonder if he would want me to pay a fee for his time????
    If i were to date a waiter i wouldnt wonder if i should "tip" him if we went on a date. Like i said its a JOB. And clearly you dont really understand that.
    I mean your going as far as to ask if we shower after work? No we love to come home all sweaty and smell of smoke and alcohol with our "tacky" body glitter on and go to bed...
    Sorry but i found that question to be a little offensive.
    Would you go up to a trash collector and asked if he takes a shower after work? NO. So why ask a stripper?

    Moving on, about the music.. i dont know if a club would let you come in a play. I guess it could possibly happen but i agree with the poster who said to put the music on a cd and then maybe the dj will play it.

    So to sum it up, i personally think getting involved is not the best option for you. i do not know you i just know of what you have been writing. its only my opinion though. i could be totally wrong but from what u wrote your not gonna be comfortable with her job.
    ~jenna~

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    I'm glad to help you out, MrTenPercent. Don't mind the "haters"... it's just that we strippers get jaded from internet trolls who come on here antagonizing us with stupid misogynistic stories and fake questions designed to show-case their conquests or waste our time. So that's where people are coming from. Well, that, and also the fact that you seem uncomfortable with her stripping. And some of us here have had these situations where we've dated men who couldn't handle our jobs and then we had to break off the relationship and it hurt. So there's bitterness.

    But I do think that the haters, so to speak, are picking up on something here. You see this job as "dirty," hence the need for a bath, and you're not comfortable with her being in VIP. You've already got trust issues and you haven't even slept together. The vibe I get is you're wary and intimidated by this chick even though you want to be enthusiastic about her because she's cool and attractive and into you. Well, you gotta do what you gotta do, and only you know deep inside if your attitudes and comfort levels will change. But based on what I've read from you here, I get the impression that the stripper thing is going to become an even bigger problem the more involved you get, not a lesser one. Just cuz there are so many issues that can come up.

    **Edited to Add: By the way, I am seeing this guy and he knows what I do and he is totally cool with it. I don't shower after work, I just come right to his apartment and we hook up or cuddle together and fall asleep. He doesn't think what I do is dirty. I tell him about the dumbass guys I deal with at work and the co-workers who are trying to talk me into a 3-some, and he doesn't flinch. I tell him about men trying to seduce me with money, promising me shopping trips and dinners and shit, and he isn't trheatened. He knows he's hot and he knows I like him. That's the kind of guy who can handle dating a stripper. A guy who is very secure in himself and likes or admires what I do.
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    To all the hecklers:
    Thanks for absolutely no positive input whatsoever.
    You're welcome.
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    ...well lets look on the positive side. When she breaks your heart, it'll take your blues playing to a deeeeeper level.
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    Jenna and Brodie:

    I guess I see where you're coming from with my view on her work. It's something I'm going to work to get over entirely, but I can't promise that I will, and I've told her this. She's willing to work with me on any issues that I have. I've explained to her that I don't expect her to stop doing what she's doing.

    More for Brodie:
    I feel confident enough with myself that I'm not worried about someone else taking her from me, especially after reading some of the things I have here. But like I explained before, I'm just not comfortable (yet) with the fact that strange men might be rubbing their hands on my girl. I'm fine with the contact through clothes deal, but when it comes to champagne room or VIP stuff, I just don't like the idea of dudes rubbing their hands on her legs and stomach and back or whatever. I'm sure after a while I'll get over it (or if I don't, then we'll have to go our separate ways), but that's my main "issue" with the whole thing. I think the whole bath thing will be more or less her giving me a call after work and letting me know if she wants one or not. I dunno. It was just an idea I brought up to her and she seemed okay with it.

    It's not that I don't trust her or think she's going to be doing things behind my back, but I've just gotta let her job grow on me I guess. It's all I can really do. I just don't like it when people make assumptions about my character and mental state without knowing me simply because I have a little bit of a problem. I understand the connection between me thinking of her job as dirty and viewing her as dirty, but the parallel isn't exact. It's not her that I see as dirty, it's more of the customers. I don't really go to stripclubs that often, but I know some of the scum of the earth that shows up there. I also understand that they're sitting right beside the CEO of your local small business or whatever.

    I just don't really like everyone telling me to give it up and save yourself the heartache before anything's really happened. It's like telling a kid he's too short to play basketball before he's even hit puberty. You never know what's going to happen down the road. I might not give a damn in a month, and that kid might hit a 14 inch growth spurt. Only time will tell.

    Thanks again.

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    10, dude, you seriously need to get over it. Of course guys are going to rub their hands all over her in VIP. That is what they are paying for.

    I don't see an easy answer. I mean, I am assuming she needs the job. And obviously what she does for her money bothers you. I hate to say it but it sounds like you may have to give up your bohemian lifestyle, throw on a suit and get a 9 to 5 job so you can take her away from it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MrTenPercent View Post
    Please don't judge someone you know nothing about in the future, it makes YOU look bad.


    To all the hecklers:
    Thanks for absolutely no positive input whatsoever. No one forced you to post here, and no one forced me to read your posts - but we both did anyway. I'm not going to try and make you believe anymore than you want to, so you can just brush me off like that tacky glitter you wear every night at work. I'm done being patient and polite with you.


    yeh coz u totally were not judging this chick LOL.
    what did u come here for? to get us to kiss your ass and tell u what u want to hear. ill do that if you're paying me for my time at the club but not on this website.
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    I can definetly see a guy having reservations about dating a stripper, and viewing the customers as dirty doesn't seem that far fetched either. It seems that you're doing the right thing by doing your research and trying to understand the industry and the atmosphere. My bf admitted to being a little uncomfortable with it at first, but now he's totally over it. I don't know why so many people find it surprising that the thought of your signifcant other shaking their ass for money would be a somewhat a concern. The main question is whether you can get past it, or keep dwelling on it incessantly...
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    Hey 10, not saying it won't or can't work out. I hope it does. I'm just saying, you have a red flag here, a problem from the start, so it isn't wise to ignore it and hope it will go away. Look, yes, some customers are scumbags and they ick us out. That's true. We use baby wipes to disinfect our arms or wherever they touch us, at my club. If you're just a germophobe, it's not that big of a deal, I guess. But if you think you feel jealous now, wait til you're in love with her!
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    ...well lets look on the positive side. When she breaks your heart, it'll take your blues playing to a deeeeeper level.
    Oh yeah it will! I use strippers for inspiration all the time (before you ask azdd, '76 and 86' Les Pauls).
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    ^^^Only if you can play 'Stairway to Heaven'. Otherwise I'm turning this whole concept into a reality show to be aired on VH1 or something like that.
    Ooh! Ooh! I know it! I know it!
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    Ooh! Ooh! I know it! I know it!
    You sir are going on tour with me. You will play my finale every night. It'll be genius.

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    FBR: I'll don the suit and tie after I finish my business minor. I just want to get a bit of traveling out of the way before I take over the family business. I didn't feel like trying to trade punches here but... yeah, fuck off, go drink a Busch and jerk off to some lesbian porn - seems like you could use a little "relief".

    Jaiz: I don't expect anything more than you can give, and based off what you've said in this thread... it's not much. That's assuming you're not as stagnant in bed as your mind is when talking to people you don't even know. Don't try to insult me, sweetheart - I'll make you wish your mama never lactated and couldn't afford the formula so you starved to death. I doubt my dollar bills could buy much more either, thank god my girl won't seep through the sewer drains and mingle with your type.

    Saphire and Brodie: I appreciate your superfluous input (mostly for Brodie) and your late chime-in (for saphire). I like to think that more girls are out there like you in this industry, but this website and the posts make a lot of my visions of the "holier-than-thou-treat-me-like-a-princess" stripper hold a lot of clout. I see that I am a lucky individual to have found such a beautiful girl who is - at all times - cool, energetic, entertaining, enthusiastic, and beautiful. I expect to be banned after this post, but we'll see how the mods treat me, so I extend to you both (and all the other girls who have extended myself the same courtesy) my utmost gratitude for aiding me in this situation. I'm sorry that others had to derail me and bring me to this, but, like I said before, I'm tired of being polite to you sons of bitches.

    I don't even have to address anyone else, so I'll leave the rest of the message for the girls who I mentioned above.

    I don't want to go back through and try to recite names, but I'm sure I've acknowledged you at least at one point. I appreciate your candidness and open-hearted words that came with no hint of bitterness or sarcasm. I'm sorry that I take my bow on such a negative note, but that's how it must be. I hope I don't sour your opinion of me, or make you wonder what Tonya has "gotten herself into". I promise that the words I wrote here are probably the most belligerent I've thought in some years, but as I said the other day, I'm tired of being polite and patient here.

    Have fun with your e-circle jerk.

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    FBR: I'll don the suit and tie after I finish my business minor. I just want to get a bit of traveling out of the way before I take over the family business. I didn't feel like trying to trade punches here but... yeah, fuck off, go drink a Busch and jerk off to some lesbian porn - seems like you could use a little "relief".

    Jaiz: I don't expect anything more than you can give, and based off what you've said in this thread... it's not much. That's assuming you're not as stagnant in bed as your mind is when talking to people you don't even know. Don't try to insult me, sweetheart - I'll make you wish your mama never lactated and couldn't afford the formula so you starved to death. I doubt my dollar bills could buy much more either, thank god my girl won't seep through the sewer drains and mingle with your type.

    Saphire and Brodie: I appreciate your superfluous input (mostly for Brodie) and your late chime-in (for saphire). I like to think that more girls are out there like you in this industry, but this website and the posts make a lot of my visions of the "holier-than-thou-treat-me-like-a-princess" stripper hold a lot of clout. I see that I am a lucky individual to have found such a beautiful girl who is - at all times - cool, energetic, entertaining, enthusiastic, and beautiful. I expect to be banned after this post, but we'll see how the mods treat me, so I extend to you both (and all the other girls who have extended myself the same courtesy) my utmost gratitude for aiding me in this situation. I'm sorry that others had to derail me and bring me to this, but, like I said before, I'm tired of being polite to you sons of bitches.

    I don't even have to address anyone else, so I'll leave the rest of the message for the girls who I mentioned above.

    I don't want to go back through and try to recite names, but I'm sure I've acknowledged you at least at one point. I appreciate your candidness and open-hearted words that came with no hint of bitterness or sarcasm. I'm sorry that I take my bow on such a negative note, but that's how it must be. I hope I don't sour your opinion of me, or make you wonder what Tonya has "gotten herself into". I promise that the words I wrote here are probably the most belligerent I've thought in some years, but as I said the other day, I'm tired of being polite and patient here.

    Have fun with your e-circle jerk.
    Thanx for the morning laugh!! Let us know when "Tonya" takes over the family business. What a great day....I actually think I smell "Love" in the air...ahhhh .

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    You sir are going on tour with me. You will play my finale every night. It'll be genius.
    Definitely the best offer I've had in quite some time...
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    Dude - remember what I said initially about people being skeptical of your story and staying strong? You are not staying strong. The members here do not take every "I just nailed me a stripper, what do I do now" (or variation thereof) first posting very seriously, and the mods (FBR, Jay and me) don't really expect them to; as a result, you are the one who has to do the adapting. You came to find us - we did not go to find you.

    And personal advice - don't run around taking pride in your ability to hurl names at people; it is not a hard to come by talent. I know people who think that is an accomplishment don't necessarily get that, but it makes you sound like a ninny. You will either be super witty and funny and it will speak for itself, or you will be common and nobody will be impressed by your self-endorsement.
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    My, my. Getting a little sensitive, are we?

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    I didn't feel like trying to trade punches here but... yeah, fuck off, go drink a Busch and jerk off to some lesbian porn - seems like you could use a little "relief".

    Don't try to insult me, sweetheart - I'll make you wish your mama never lactated and couldn't afford the formula so you starved to death. I doubt my dollar bills could buy much more either, thank god my girl won't seep through the sewer drains and mingle with your type.

    I'm sorry that others had to derail me and bring me to this, but, like I said before, I'm tired of being polite to you sons of bitches.


    I'm tired of being polite and patient here.

    Have fun with your e-circle jerk.
    and another deep thinker crashes and burns...

    It's clear that I made the right choice dumping the OP's angst and sucking-up to Ginger Lee instead...

    "The Blues is My Business, and business is good...."
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    Double team! 2 latinas with big tits!!

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    i think this whole post is a hoax.
    its seriously pathetic!!!
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    pathetic refers to poster not to anyone who replied. sorry...
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    I don't know if MrTenPercent is legit or not, and it isn't really important. And after he started hurling insults at everybody, I got a lot less interested in trying to help. But I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt, and assume he was just really frustrated, and had a few too many beers, and maybe his boss yelled at him that day.

    That said, I wanted to comment on the whole being uneasy with her job problem.

    I am in a poly relationship. I was not poly at all before I met my partner. She has always been. Most guys, I believe, are taught while they are growing up that if your girl is being intimate with other guys, you have a real problem--she is making a fool of you and using you, you aren't man enough to satisfy her, you are not in control of things...all bad stuff. Even if she is just spending a lot of time with other guys it can be considered a problem. And we've all heard people say "My partner wouldn't even look at another women/man." This is how we are trained.

    So arrangements that are not that norm take some getting used to, and some guys never can. When I first got involved with my partner eight years ago, she made it clear that she was poly, and I used to fight with her a lot about that. (I still remember a business trip where I racked up a $1500 phone bill arguing with her over the phone--I didn't realize that my calling card charged me 65 cents a minute.) But I got used to it. Part of my problem was worrying that she would run off with one of them and leave me. But that's not what poly people do.

    Now this situation is a little different from dating a stripper, but there are some definite parallels. In my case, she's fucking two other guys, but I know them, trust them, and like them. In his maybe-gf's case, she is being somewhat intimate with lots of guys he doesn't know, but she's not fucking them.

    Either way, it is not what we were taught when we were coming up, which as basically "If she's being intimate with other guys [which would include being naked/nearly naked & in the same room], she doesn't love you. And getting past what we were taught takes some work, and probably a few ugly arguments. But it can be done, if you don't let your baggage hold you back.

    I don't think it means he should drop her because he will always hate her job. It means there is some work ahead, and it may not be successful, but it may. (I should mention how often I kick myself about all the potentially fun relationships I avoided when I was younger, because I wasn't sure they would work out.)

    Good luck!

    Lynn

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