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    Default My friends broke up with me...

    I feel like crap A few days ago my (now ex) best friend let me know that my friends feel like they seem to have more fun without me and that basically I'm no longer welcome to hang out with them. Apparently, "they don't know exactly why they seem to have a better time when I'm not there, and maybe it's just a coincidence, but they'd rather not have me around so much" But don't worry, if they're doing something that doesn't involve doing much, like going to the movies, they might just give me a call...gee thanks!!

    I just don't get it - I didn't do anything wrong!!! If anything, I think I'm a better friend than most! So many times I'll drop whatever I'm doing if one of them needs me, and yet now I'm the one getting treated like a leper or something. This is like getting dumped by a guy but worse, and now I don't have any friends to lean on or talk to.

    The WORST part is that I share an apartment with one of them. The two of us are still civil with each other, but it absolutely breaks my heart when I hear her cell phone beep, then she runs out the door and outside all our friends are waiting for her in the car.

    It's this kind of shit that makes me want to give up on the whole friends thing permanently. It wouldn't be so bad if I could just take time to get over it but living with one just reminds me of it everyday I mean, what the hell is wrong with me? I feel like I must be devil or something.

    People fucking suck


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    Are you the hottest chick in your click?

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    Ive never had many friends and its typically because of crap like that. I prefer to have my one best friend, a couple close friends that KIT with and my sis in law.

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    what stupid bitches. that's pretty low (and stupid.) I mean, it's one thing if you were miss negative and dragging everyone down but it's something different if you all have fun but maybe not as much fun when you all hang out.

    lame.

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    Wow. A bunch of chicks did that to me in sixth grade but I would've thought grown women would have a bit more class. Good riddance, at least they did you the favor of showing you what rude trash they are.

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    wow thats pretty fuckin low of them. Obvioucly they must be jealous of you in some way...theres really no other explanation for something like that if you truly were a good friend to them and all. Im really sorry for that, but you dont need friends like that anyway

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    Are you sleeping with someone one of them wants?

    The older you get, the less friends you'll have anyway. Everyone grows in different directions.....

    I do feel the way they communicated their feelings was pretty rude. The heck with them.

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    That is ridiculous! That kind of shit used to happen to me in high school. It hurt. I'm sorry, but you don't need friends who act like that. You deserve better.
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    I know, isn't this sort of thing supposed to stop post-teens?! We're all in our early 20's and it feels like the sort of thing that used to happen during recess or something. I'm not sleeping with anyone relevant, not the hottest chick - the only thing that even kinda coincides is that I told them I dance. Who knows, maybe they've been discussing it for a few weeks and have now decided they're not cool with it *shrug*

    At least I did see their true colors though. Even if they are "nice" enough to include me in the future, I don't wanna be around those bitches now.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    I know, isn't this sort of thing supposed to stop post-teens?! We're all in our early 20's and it feels like the sort of thing that used to happen during recess or something. I'm not sleeping with anyone relevant, not the hottest chick - the only thing that even kinda coincides is that I told them I dance. Who knows, maybe they've been discussing it for a few weeks and have now decided they're not cool with it *shrug*
    Ugh. My female relatives did the same to me (varying degrees of catty bitchiness/cruelty, or distancing themselves) luckily my 2 friends were cool about it.

    Fuuuck them. Time to find some more openminded, fun friends.

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    Wow, that sucks!! I kinda went through something like that in college.

    At least now you know they weren't your true friends!! One of my good friends is going through cancer right now. She was your typical club-girl socialite and had tons of "friends" she'd party with. Of course once she got cancer and was in the hospital and her hair fell out and everything none of them were there for her or visited her. But through that she found out who her true friends are that she can rely on when things get rough.

    So how do you think you'll do with this living situation?
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    That's horrible! I am sorry you have to deal with such immaturity. i bet it is b/c you are a dancer, if you say that news just came about recently it makes sense. It's awful though . Are you going to continue to live with her?

    eta: When I started dancing my husband and I had a couple we were very close friends with just stop calling us. We tried to make plans and the husband said the wife thought I might start taking off my clothes now at their get togethers. I was astonished they would ever think that as we had known them for well over 5 years and spent alot of time together. I was closer with him though, but I was really pissed when he started calling me and asking me to pose topless on his motorcycle for shoots and stuff (he did custom paint jobs). Like just b/c i strip , i am all of a sudden free to just do it anywhere for any reason what so ever. Oh but ...shh don't tell my wife. Right.

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    Wow, that's the ballsiest and most ridiculous thing i have ever heard. Especially telling you you might be allowed to do some things with them still. WTF?

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    They werent friends. FRIENDS wouldnt have done that. I'd get out and start looking for a new roommate or new apartment ASAP. Fuck em.

    Some people are just douchebags for life. We had friends over last night for dinner. They have an adorable 15 month old baby girl. Happiest,most well behaved baby in the WORLD!! Seriously..she's always smiling and giggling...she's SO cute. They said that since they had her...we are the only friends they have left. Everyone else just stopped calling them back. WTF?? And we are all in our 30's..some of these people were in their 40's. My friends arent annoying parent types...they dont talk about the baby ad nauseam...they can get a babysitter to go out for adult times once in awhile..they are the EXACT same people(yeah..some people change and get weird after they have a baby..they DID NOT).

    But grown adults they thought were their friends just dropped them.

    So some people just never grow up. These girls you are talking about are selfish little bitches who...yes...are probably banishing you because you told them you dance. Because now you are a threat...you will now take all their boyfriends and be shooting heroin in the living room with all your illegitimate babies. Because...you know..thats what strippers do.

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    I'm gonna guess that this little split was coming for sime time but you just didn't catch the signs. You have to be a ballsy chick to strip. You've probably been ballsy ever since you met them and they were uncomfortable with it. Now they have an excuse. They're probably pretty class conscious too so they couldn't be associated with you anymore. THANK GOD you found out who they really are now while you have time to collect friends who share your values. It's really a gift even though I know it feels like a knife. I say move out to get away from the toxic bullshit. Oh, and start going out on your own to do activities independently. You won't even know they're gone.
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    Im so sorry. thats really sad.




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    Wow, I can imagine that is painful but you really don't need friends like that!

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    Default Re: My friends broke up with me...

    I made a post in this thread about a former friend of mine. I had other friends who were less evil about it, but still ended up not being there when I needed a friend the most.

    I do think your "friends" are simply jealous of you, though.

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    got cancer and was in the hospital and her hair fell out and everything none of them were there for her or visited her. But through that she found out who
    In Dante's Inferno, the ninth circle of Hell is inhabited by traitors, whose fate is to be encased in ice for all eternity. Appropriate, I think.

    On the other hand, I recall hearing a story about a little girl who was fighting cancer, and her classmates shaved their heads to show their support. That's what friendship should be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by goldengrl69 View Post
    Are you the hottest chick in your click?

    I bet you are, and they are jealous of the fact that you are the one who gets all the attention when you all go out. It sucks to say, but High School never ends.

    These girls are not true friends by any stretch. Too bad we all didn't live closer to one another, because I have definately found "true friend" worthy people here. We'd all have a bangin' time with one another!

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    Quote Originally Posted by UltraViolet View Post
    Wow, that's the ballsiest and most ridiculous thing i have ever heard. Especially telling you you might be allowed to do some things with them still. WTF?
    yeah, really. "oh but we might let you still hang out with us every once in awhile"...like they're doing you some huge favour. Thanks but no thanks. How condescending.

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    It sounds like they don't want to be associated with a dirty stripper. You're better off without them.

    None of this probably helps right now, but I can tell you there are many, many girls on here who have similar stories about being dumped shortly after "coming out" to friends and/or family with their stripping decision, including me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    At least I did see their true colors though.
    All anyone needs is a few good friends anyway. Sounds like they weren't so great actually. You'll make new friends that will value your friendship and not act like teenagers.
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    what are you going to do about the living situation?

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    This is exactly why all my friends are strippers!

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    ^ me too. i occasionally talk to my old friends (funny enough, girls who work at hooters) but they dont approve and i havent seen them in a long time.

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