Results 1 to 16 of 16

Thread: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

  1. #1
    Member Lily366's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2008
    Location
    Dallas, TX
    Posts
    40
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    So my boyfriend and I have been living with his parents the past month since we moved out of our apartment and cannot move into the new one until the end of this month. It hasnt really been much of a problem until recently since we really keep to ourselves and I work alot but we dont get as much privacy as i would like. But...last week we found out that his parents are divorcing because his father cheated on his mom...but thats another story...ANYWAY..for some reason ever since Ive been with my boyfriend (4years) theres been this unspoken tension between his sister and I. She has a serious attitude problem and ALWAYS give me bad looks. I dont know why and always have wondered if there is something I do that she doesnt like..I dont know it totally boggles my mind. But tonight after my boyfriend and I got back from walking my dog we walk in the door and his sister and mom are sitting on the couch, and shes asks if she can talk to me. So i was like sure whats up...and SHE GOES OFF ON ME!!!!! Like SCREAMING at me...SCREAMING!!! Apparently she found two of her shirts in my room and accuses me of STEALING them from her. (FYI she wears an XL and I am a small) She is a VERY big girl. The two shirts that she found of hers were not only huge (i would totally be swimming in them) but the were also the ugliest pieces of clothing I have ever seen. And its actually very easy for clothes to be mixed up because everyones laundry gets washed together and my boyfriend probably took it up to our room thinking it was mine, i have no idea. But, yeah, she thinks i stole it and I was not about to just sit there getting attacked by a 17 year old fat cunt so I walked away while she fuckin run up the stairs after me calling me a bitch and whatever. Anyway, this is a complete rant and Im sorry but I just had to get this out. I cannot wait to move out of this house I jsut dont understand how this little girl can have the balls to yell and scream at me like that? She is a complete spoiled brat who never gets told she is wrong about anything. It just really upsets me that we cant have a civil relationship but at this point I dont care to at all. I guess shes just very immature..Idk...

  2. #2
    God/dess fancygirl's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2005
    Location
    California
    Posts
    3,776
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    she probably dislikes you because her brother and her parents like you and you've been in their lives for four years.

    plus she's fat. and spoiled so probably doesn't like not being the center of attention.

    stupid cow.

  3. #3
    Member Lily366's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2008
    Location
    Dallas, TX
    Posts
    40
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    haha, you're totally right, she HATES when the attention is not focused towards her...UGH it makes me so mad jsut thinking about it..

  4. #4
    God/dess Corgan's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Southeast Texas
    Posts
    4,735
    Thanks
    10
    Thanked 35 Times in 20 Posts
    My Mood
    Brooding

    Default Re: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    i'm a size XL and sometimes XXL depending on the clothes. i guess i'm just a fat cow too!!!!!!!!!!!

    she's 17. maybe she feels like she's got something to prove and sees you as a target somehow?

  5. #5
    Member Lily366's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2008
    Location
    Dallas, TX
    Posts
    40
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    oh girl you are not a fat cow! my best friend wears XL's because she has huge boobs and is really tall. This girl is just a really big girl haha.

  6. #6
    God/dess fancygirl's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2005
    Location
    California
    Posts
    3,776
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    ^ it's not the fat part-- it's holding someone else's skinniness against them to the point that this behavior is accepted by the parents.

    If she was some skinny bitch I'd be calling her a crack whore.

    edit: and I do occasionally call skinny bitches cows anyways because that's what they're acting like.

  7. #7
    Member Lily366's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2008
    Location
    Dallas, TX
    Posts
    40
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    I guess the real reason it upsets me is because I was not brought up to talk to ANYONE that way. If that had been me my mother would have chewed my ass out and grounded me or something. It pisses me off that no one says anything to her and that she can call her older brothers girlfriend a bitch and yell at me at the top of her lungs and its ok...
    Last edited by Lily366; 07-04-2008 at 12:17 AM. Reason: misspelled

  8. #8
    God/dess Corgan's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Southeast Texas
    Posts
    4,735
    Thanks
    10
    Thanked 35 Times in 20 Posts
    My Mood
    Brooding

    Default Re: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    i was being sarcastic sillies.

  9. #9
    Featured Member veronicachick's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2008
    Location
    :-)
    Posts
    864
    Thanks
    2
    Thanked 41 Times in 27 Posts

    Default Re: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    Quote Originally Posted by Lily366 View Post
    I guess the real reason it upsets me is because I was not brought up to talk to ANYONE that way. If that had been me my mother would have chewed my ass out and grounded me or something. It pisses me off that no one says anything to her and that she can call her older brothers girlfriend a bitch and yell at me at the top of her lungs and its ok...
    that's exactly what I was wondering? how can her mother let her speak to anyone that way? and anyone with a brain would be able to tell that you didn't want to steal her clothes(based on the description you gave of these shirts... why would anyone want them?lol.) The problem lies with the parenting... seems like the mom just lets her do w.e and doesnt draw the line when it clearly needs to be drawn! sorry that you have to be in a house like that... must be kind of awkward but don't worry. at least it's not a long term thing and you will be out of there soon enough.

  10. #10
    Member Lily366's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2008
    Location
    Dallas, TX
    Posts
    40
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    thanks girl, thats what i keep telling myself

  11. #11
    God/dess CKXXX's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2008
    Location
    in my head
    Posts
    3,467
    Thanks
    20
    Thanked 300 Times in 181 Posts

    Default Re: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    What did your bf say? Did he say ANYTHING to her? Defend you?Obviously the mom isnt going to yell at Precious Bessie...but your bf should have had your back.

    Quote Originally Posted by lexilou View Post
    "I'll picklepunch you in your twatwaffle!"

  12. #12
    Featured Member snoopy's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2005
    Location
    Livingston, NJ
    Posts
    1,576
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    Quote Originally Posted by CKXXX View Post
    What did your bf say? Did he say ANYTHING to her? Defend you?Obviously the mom isnt going to yell at Precious Bessie...but your bf should have had your back.
    ditto.

  13. #13
    Member Lily366's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2008
    Location
    Dallas, TX
    Posts
    40
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    oh yeah, of course he did. she did the same thing to him that she did to me. And she does the same to her parents when she hears something she doesnt like. She has zero respect for anyone.

  14. #14
    Featured Member snoopy's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2005
    Location
    Livingston, NJ
    Posts
    1,576
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    ^^^that's the important thing then (him stickin up for you). good for you and your bf. that's a keeper imo! just tough it out until you both can move back out.

    (try to) ignore the sister and her rantings. don't confront her since you're the guest and the hosts obviously have no control over her or more likely have to deal with much bigger issues (their divorce!) at the moment.

    i'm sure they don't welcome any sibling squabbles (because that's what it is in comparison to their marriage imploding right in front of their eyes) during this very difficult time.

    look at it this way, at least you get to move out eventually. all the rest have that maniac as a blood-relation for the rest of their lives.

    i sorta pity them. good luck!

  15. #15
    God/dess Andygirl's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2006
    Location
    The VIP room
    Posts
    3,621
    Thanks
    47
    Thanked 187 Times in 58 Posts

    Default Re: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    It's no excuse, but she is probably really upset about her parents getting a divorce and she's letting it out in immature ways. She is still a kid, after all, and this is disrupting her life in ways that are completely out of her control. If she's overweight, she's probably insecure and lonely, and angry at the world. Obviously that's not a reason for her to attack you, but it would explain the behavior.

    Have you tried befriending her and maybe being a role model in her life? It might not be the easiest thing to do, but it could really help her.

  16. #16
    Member Lily366's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2008
    Location
    Dallas, TX
    Posts
    40
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Problems with the Inlaws...ughhh

    I tried that about a year ago (befriending her). My boyfriend and I took her to a concert and it was one of the bands she really wanted to see so we thought she'd atleast have a good time and we'd maybe start having a better relationship. But she ended up getting sick during the concert and made us take her home early and it turned into a disaster...every time i try to do something for her it always ends up this way and its unfortunate but maybe someday she'll grow out of it.

Similar Threads

  1. INLAWS. Im ganna shoot a bitch =[
    By BuffyFlame in forum Life Support
    Replies: 8
    Last Post: 11-30-2010, 04:12 PM
  2. Ughhh
    By MsLayne in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 4
    Last Post: 05-12-2009, 07:54 PM
  3. girls with pimps, wife-inlaws ect...
    By domino0716 in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 9
    Last Post: 09-26-2004, 02:55 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •