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    Hi, I'm a newbie.



    I have never danced before, but I have thought about doing this for years now. I'm 21 and ready to get into the business. I want to work a morning job, part time (to earn more and so people don't wonder where my money is coming from). I know once I start, it will not be so nerve wracking. But reading differnt embarassing stories has made me even MORE nervous! lol

    It is hard for me to imagine myself actually doing it, seems so surreal. But I KNOW I have great stage presence and I know how to be sensual, like I know the back of my had.

    My question is, (I'm sure it has already been addressed) what do you do when your significant other doesn't want you to dance? Also, just curious to know if there are other lesbians or bisexuals on here stripping in men's clubs? And if so, does being lesbian make you feel like the pressure of getting caught up in doing sexual favors is lifted off of you? And I have a question for a stage name, one of my nicknames is Gorgeous and I have it tatted on me... should I use that?

    I really want to do this, I have been practicing in my room. (ha) I also need to see about having hair removal (down there) because my skin is too sensitive to keep shaving so regularly. Well, that is my little intro/rambling session. You guys seem real cool.

    Thanks,
    Soon to be

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    Just do it. Depending on your area, you may not make as much as you think strippers make, because the economy is WAY down. Read hustle hut to get tips on selling dancings and making the most of your time.

    I'm not a lesbian. I'm bisexual I guess, I've dated girls, but I don't consider myself any sexuality. I think in general, the more sensual you seem, the more money you make. Regardless of your sexual preference, if you look like you're into what you're doing you'll make money. I have never felt pressure to perform any sexual favors because I have very specific boundaries I never cross. Before you start you should think about what you are comfortable doing within the laws for your club, and stick to your personal boundaries.

    I do not think Gorgeous is a good stage name. IMO, guys seem to live more "real" sounding names. Plus, it's REALLY annoying when they ask you "so what's your REAL name, immediately after. I have a non-real name, but it works for me somehow.. idk.

    In body business there are a lot of hair removal tips and techniques. Personally...I just shave every other day or so and I'm fine. it helps to put white stick deodorant on the area you shaved to prevent razor bumps, and using a new fresh razor every time. You could always get a wax too. good luck..

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    don't be nervous. honestly.. it all comes so naturally. after your first time you will be like "Is this what I was worried about... man this is easy..." lol.

    I work a part time job too... and the money I make from stripping I put into a savings.

    I dont suggest this to anyone at all... but when I started stripping I had a boyfriend who I knew wouldn't support my new occupation choice... so I hid it from him. I worked 2-3 nights a week and I either told him I was going to sleep... or going to hang out with a friend. I felt horrible hiding it and dont recommend it. if your significant other feels so strongly against stripping then I guess you'll have to make a choice as to what is more important.

    I don't know if I really considering myself bisexual... but I am open. I dated a few girls in the past and it doesn't really affect work. As long as you are straight forward and make it crystal clear that you are not the type of girl that does sexual favors if a guy ever asks... then regardless of sexual orientation they will know you are not the type to do that. honestly the fact that a girl is lesbian doesn't really stop guys from sometimes asking for more because it's not like the guy knows you are lesbian unless you tell em.
    the fact that I am comfortable with a naked girl I think helps me a little because from time to time my friend and I will go on stage together and dance naked together seductively and that brings in more tips.
    I shave regularly... but there is always waxing? I use that feminine baby powder spray deodorant thing after shaving at home and throughout my shift and it seems to keep it soft and nice. :-)
    research the clubs you are interested in... call and ask what they ask of their dancers and what their audition process is. don't be nervous... just always remember that you are guy's fantasies when you are in there working.

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    On the subject of your significant other, try to let them know that its just a performance, like any other. Take them to the club to let them see what its like. If all else fails, tell them to let you do it for a week or two, and the money will probably convince them.

    On the subject of your sexuality, yes there are tons of lesbians and bisexuals working as strippers. Don't tell your custies that you are a lesbian though. If anything tell them that you are bisexual but prefer men. When you are dancing for them, they want you to think you like it. If they know its fake, that will be in the back of their mind and they might not spend more money on you.

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    Default Re: *Contemplating the idea ...

    I am a lesbian, and I dance.

    Nobody knows or can tell, so it's cool.

    Well, except for this one time when I forgot to use breath mints after going down on my g/f before going to work, but that's another story for another time!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sanitary_Napkin View Post
    I am a lesbian, and I dance.

    Nobody knows or can tell, so it's cool.

    Well, except for this one time when I forgot to use breath mints after going down on my g/f before going to work, but that's another story for another time!

    lol!

    o lord that is funny!

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    you guys are great.

    i stay in the dfw area, more specifially dallas.
    so i'm sure there is a lot of opportunity for making big $$$ there, right?

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    Default Re: *Contemplating the idea ...

    im bisexual so cant say about the lesbian thing, dosnt bother me either way of who i dance for, and i never feel pressured to do anythin, im a dancer an thas all i do lol

    as for the hair removal, im very sensitive an shaving hurt, so i braved the wax, now i have a complete hollywood wenever i need one, dont hurt so much anymore an im nice an smooth down below, ive had a few comments about it.

    theres really nout to be nervouse about, ive done 2 shifts so far (one a week grrrr want more) and both have been fine, plus rem we all start somewhere.

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