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    Angry OMG, Im going to die..

    ok.. so I have done this web cam twice now and people can view free without signing up and one person asked me to do a lil dance. so I did then they said.. "your a slut. Die Bitch. " I blew it off.. but It freaked me out. i felt weird I was like was it some i knew? my EX? and then someone else said something and then another guess (everytime u sign in as a guess you get a diff. # behind it) said .. "Ya show us Jes" !! I just signed out .. Im so scared.. I wrote the people and had blocked where I live.. I am so scared.. it has to be someone that knowws me bc, I only spell my name with one "s" and they wouldnt have known to put that.. I dont know who it is but Its someone I know.. Im so embrassed.. I feel so ashamed.. and low.. I dont know what to do.. Im about to cry.. I dont have a Car, I dont see any way that Ill get one anytime soon.. so I thought this would be a good/SAFE way to make money and I feel so violated.. I just dont know what to dooo..


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    whoever it was is a stupid prick. sorry you had a bad experience

    Ive never done web cam cause I get nervous about people finding out.

    is your name on the cam?. I would use a different name.

    sorry i cant be much more help, but just wanted to reply to your post to let you know you dont have to feel ashamed or low. the human body is beautiful and if people want to pay to see yours then there is nothing wrong with it. those losers just have nothing better to do with their time then try to make you feel bad.

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    I just cant believe that someone would even be that evil to say my name on there..I mean there is a reason that I have a stage name.. So if you get nervouse about web cam, how do you do it in thee club??


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    Quote Originally Posted by babybambi08 View Post
    I just cant believe that someone would even be that evil to say my name on there..I mean there is a reason that I have a stage name.. So if you get nervouse about web cam, how do you do it in thee club??
    You have more control over who sees you in a club than on the web

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    that's why I'll never do webcam work.. and the fact that people can record your shows and put them on pornotube, etc. Maybe you could pay someone to drive you to a club, or take a cab?


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    I could use my moms car, no AC!! but Im worried about it.. I dont know what to do, where to start. what club to go to.. houston is a 100 mile drive from here. and thats the only ways Id do it..

    does everyone know your a stripper, your friends and family?


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    Don't feel low about it. I'm sure that person has done things they felt were low too. Most ppl have, were all human. Right now just ignore that a-hole , put that a-hole out of ur mind an focus on making money.

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    maybe you could take a bus to the city and stay for the weekend while you work?

    You don't have to tell everyone what you do.. some I tell and some I don't.


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    ok.. Im thinkn about this club not a lot of info on it but I found this

    http://www.myspace.com/rivieraclub


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    or there is this one.. I like this one.. WWW.GLAMOURGIRLSHOUSTON.COM


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    Is your cam name the same as your real name except for the double ss?? because if so it was probably a stupid typo... And no need to freak out. (and you should totally have a different name!) But if they are totally different then it is a bit freaky.

    I did cam and used to wear a wig and a truck load of makeup... probably still recognisable but different enough that I could blow it off if someone thought they recognised me... WHich is what i would do in this case- "Lol who is Jes you dork cant you even get my name right when your begging to see more of me?? I'm LUCY!!!" Or something like that,.

    But unfortunately there are a million assholes critising you and bullying you when you are on cam, especially in those free chat rooms where they have no intention of paying and just want to see what they can push you into... You need to develop a strategy to deal with that shit.

    If you want to there are camming options where you dont have to do the free rooms, then at least you know some cheap skate random ex boyfriend want be watching, and if he is then he is paying for the privilege!

    Good luck with dancing if you decide to do that, but there will still be critical nasty wankers so grow a thick skin for that too.
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    If you want to do web cam work, don't let one or two idiots put you off: there are definitely going to be more because, well, some of us men are simply not all that intelligent!

    However, go for a paid site where people need to register, it is much safer. Make sure your surroundings aren't recognisable and disguise yourself a little bit. Always use a name which is completely different to your real one and never give out any information to viewers on yourself or your whereabouts.

    If someone comes on who knows you, don't sweat it. You can always claim that it is someone else and that they must have had a bad connection to think it was you, and then turn it back on them by asking what they would be doing on such a site any way ...

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    I used to visit a webcam site and actually got sorta friendly enough with a couple of my ATFs that we exchanged a few emails.

    The two worst things about those sites are the beggars trying to get a peek for free and the rude and disgusting guests who use their anonymity to say really disgusting and insulting things. And, in rooms where the model did not speak much English, they seemed to take delight in saying really insulting things because the girl would not know what they said. Then there were the super-moral/religious types who were there to "saave" the girls by showing them the error of their ways.

    I noticed that some models would get into flaming exchanges with these creeps, but that only seemed to encourage them more. The more successful girls just ignored them. Those who got their feelings hurt usually disappeared and were never seen again.

    As to a disguise, I'd suggest glasses or sunglasses rather than a wig. A good looking wig is very expensive. Use your makeup and put a beauty mark on your face. That's enough to make you look enough different that nobody will recognize you.

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    Yeah some guys can be a-holes on cam just like they can in the club. You need to get with a different cam company if you think someone knows you on that one. Use a wig or something to make you less recognizable..maybe your main pic only a shot of your ass or something so they cant see you just by scanning through.

    And def. go on a cam company that lets you control who is in your room. I have the option of kicking guys out by clicking on their name if they annoy me.

    Also...NEVER EVER let them demand shit for free. If someone so much as wants a glimpse of my ass in free chat I tell him to say please...give a 1 second shot of it and thats IT. If they want more..they need to go private and PAY.

    Or you can go ina "showroom" with my company where there is NO free chat and you have to pay just to get in the room at all.

    If someone is determined to find you..they might find you in a club too and it will be a lot more traumatic to deal with that in person...though you can hopefully have them banned if they start trouble. But they can still send friends in an generally make your life miserable.

    Oh...and you dont need an expensive wig on cam...the guys wont know the difference.The cam is just slightly blurry..enough that nobody will be able to tell.
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    I thought about doing cam... but that's what scares me. websites can so easily be accessed. and I'd hate for a friend... or even worse... a family member to see me.
    don't sweat this. if anyone ever brings up the fact that they saw you on cam just laugh at them and tell them how ridiculous they sound for even thinking you'd be on a naked cam site. if you deny it they are bound to start questioning whether or not it was really you.
    next time just disguise yourself(like everyone else has suggested) and do what you feel comfortable with. don't let one creep stand in the way of you making the money you need to buy a car.

    I know how you feel tho. even tho I've never done cam... one night a woman walked into my club and and we walked right by each other. she looked so familiar but I couldn't remember where I knew her from. and I was so scared that she recognized me too. I couldn't stop worrying... and I hid in the DR for an hour too scared that she'd see me again. so that was one hour I lost out on potential money. so don't let other people stand in the way... do what you feel you need to and who cares what others think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Flick6 View Post
    Is your cam name the same as your real name except for the double ss?? because if so it was probably a stupid typo... And no need to freak out. (and you should totally have a different name!) But if they are totally different then it is a bit freaky.

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    Yeah, that's exactly what I was thinking.....is your name on their "Jess?" or something similar?

    Otherwise, who did you tell you were doing Camwork to? They might have spilled the beans to somebody you didn't want to know.
    Sexy Jasmine after getting fucked over at work:

    God loves strippers and when guys do things like that its an automatic ticket to HELL!


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    Perhaps you stopped spending money on her. Strippers need money to operate. They are like coin operated juke-boxes of love.

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    I think now that it might have been a mistake.. because Jos, is kinda likd Jes, when you type it ya know..


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    Yeah, if you look at your keyboard, o is the mirror of e. It is not well known, but dyslexic people will sometimes reverse their keystrokes.

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    If you're this worried, then take your picture down from your signature!!!

    Good luck finding a club... I would never do webcam, don't trust people like that. SC's= no photographic evidence.

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    Hi gals, I've been camming for 2 years now. Please if you're worried about someone recording your shows WATERMARK your cam with a cam software like "Manycam". . That way if they DO record your vids it'll have your name or sites name for free promotion. THis usually turns them off from recording your vids. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE refrain from using yahoo for indie camshows...I had a guy hijack my cam once and i couldn't cam for days...what happens is when you turn your cam on ..THEY can see your cam but you can't! I literally had to uninstall and reinstall yahoo messenger and do a lotta other unneccessary crap. Ugh! Other than that camming is very lucrative and fun and if you do decide to cam use a logitech quickcam pro or logitech orbit...they have the best quality...the better quality the cam and show..the more you can charge customers. I really hope this help. I wish you all lots of $$$$$$$

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