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    When you find something about a customer or something a customer does disgusting do u say anything or do u continue actong nice and pretending everytihng is ok in order to make money?

    The other night I danced for a guy who was saying really disgusting stuff and grinding his hips and I found it really uncomfortable yet I continued dancing and acting nice even tho at my club we get paid up front. Another example is guys who ask me out. If they are getting dances I'll just go along with it and while I wont agree to go out with them I don't say I wont either.

    It got me thinking, why do I put up with shit that makes me uncomfortable esp when I get paid up front? I think I'm going to save my sanity more from now on and just tell them to shut up. If they dont like it they can fuck off coz I have their money already. Sometimes I'm just far too passive I think.

    When a customer pushes your boundaries or really grosses u out how do u react?
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    Default Re: when customers are disgusting do u call them out?

    i do but in a sort of silly way if a customer was bucking up and down while iw as trying to danc ei would just tell him if he wanted to do the dancing i would sit still and let him.

    or i would tell him that i only have one rule (and i got this one from someone on here and its been a godsend) that i only ask he behave like a gentleman- the more well behaveved the better dance he gets. it works like a charm!

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    depends on what it is, who is doing it, how easily i can get out of the situation without ruining the dance, and how much it irritates me. A guy trying to kiss me who may be 'solved' by turning my head to the side is much easier than the guy who continues to try to grab my pussy and saying "oh, so sorreeee," then doing it again. HE gets called out & another dance refused (this happened last night).

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    If they're drunk and being gross or stupid, yes. If they're sober and they know that what they're doing is wrong and they're just a clueless ass, I just move on.

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    I tell them straight out and like a human. "Yo, dude, do you realize I really don't like that? No, it's not really funny. Stop laughing, now look at me a moment. I am human and that hurts, okay? Can we continue and can you be good?"

    And they usually apologise and stop.


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    I act like they just asked me to do the most disgusting thing in the world. Then I act all snobby and say "Um, NO." They usually end up looking and feeling pretty dumb just for asking

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    At my current club, I call them out during private dances, since we get paid up front.

    I had this one guy try to grab me, and he kept telling me that I should "party" with him. I looked at him, stopped dancing, sat on my ass and told him straight up that insulting a dancer is a bad way to finish a dance.

    I left him in the middle of the dance, since he didn't even stop after I said that.
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    like 2 nights ago a guy comes up to me and asked me for a dance i had been avoiding him cause he looked gross and pervy,but it was slow so i said ok.

    before i even took my shorts or top off he had started groping me really crazy octopus style. even trying to touch my boobs and pussy. i laughed in his face and said theres no way! and i walked out. he says o come on please. i said hell no and left.

    fuck taking some guys shit i dont need the money that bad.

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    definitely! i'm not putting up with their bs. plus, we get paid up front.
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    When custies use to do this to me I use to just sit there and stop moving all together or I'd give them an airdance. They'd figure it out after a while.

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    Last night I got a guy who was blowing on me onstage. I said, "Umm... am I dancing too close and you're trying to blow me away? Should I move further away?" He said "no" and.... KEPT DOING IT. Ugh. WTF is up with the blowers?

    On the other hand, I have had VERY positive results with the "I want to dance real close to you because you're such a gentleman" sort of thing. Also, when guys say "ooh, I don't know if I could behave myself" when I ask them for a dance, I say "I think you're up to the task," or "I think you're man enough," with a big grin. It doesn't always get the dance, but it always keeps the rapport going and avoids uncomfortable silence.
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    Like super-fast, frenetic, chipmunklike stylized humping with this look on her face like "Kill! Kill!"
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    i think people like going to parties and clubs and looking like douchebags.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ColetteCalahan View Post
    depends on what it is, who is doing it, how easily i can get out of the situation without ruining the dance, and how much it irritates me. A guy trying to kiss me who may be 'solved' by turning my head to the side is much easier than the guy who continues to try to grab my pussy and saying "oh, so sorreeee," then doing it again. HE gets called out & another dance refused (this happened last night).
    Srsly, wtf is up with those ppl? I got this one guy tonight who did a polite douchebaggy kind of laugh when he did it. It was all genteel-like, then I said, um, please stop tweaking my breasts, that hurts. They're sensitive . Stop it. So then he said "oh oh okay, yes so sorrrreeee" stopped, then a minute later then did it again. Like he forgot when I slapped his hand. So then I gently, but firmly uppercutted him with my fist then said, okay, how about we end the dance now, since you insist on hurting me? He douchebag-laughed again and nodded, leaned back and said, "oh okay yes. Thank you." @#([email protected]&#$(@& fuck him. THANK YOU?! WTF, THANK YOU?!

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    Default Re: when customers are disgusting do u call them out?

    If their behavior is part of their "thing", then I'll put up with it.( like talking dirty) But there are some guys I just won't put up with.( guys that are too rough) Once I dance for them or see someone else dance for them and don't like the deal I'll avoid it.
    I have been painfully honest with a few guys.

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    When a guy is too grabby or makes me uncomfortable i just step back and give them an airdance. I used to work at a club that was ONLY airdances so I give a pretty good airdance. I don't feel like they're not getting their money's worth.
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    Quote Originally Posted by greenidlady1 View Post
    When custies use to do this to me I use to just sit there and stop moving all together or I'd give them an airdance. They'd figure it out after a while.

    I do this too! A few weeks ago I had a guy that just couldn't act like a normal person for the life of him. I told him repeatedly to chill out. At one point I had my boobs close to his face, I looked down and his tongue was hanging out of his mouth and he was trying to lick me. I stepped back and slapped his mouth (not hard) and said "Put that thing away!"

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    Yep! basically what lysondra said. You just have to remain calm, look at them dead on...and say in a stern yet factual point "I'm a human being " Or just simply say "Not appropriate" and give a cackle.

    I've yet to figure out (and it's usually the sober ones) how they can do the many thing they do in public without feeling like a turd.

    Air humping? Flicking of the tongue? Smelling our asses when we turn around ? Usually this happens on one of those full house nights which makes it even more WTF.

    I tell people to shut up, fuck off and flip LOTS of people off all the time. I gives no fuck. Which is why it's really important to get paid up front. Do it really quietly and when/if they go to mgmnt just lie "I would NEVER say that" and then look at the guy all crazy eyed.
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    It depends on my mood. Mostly yes, I do call them on it. If they break the rules, sometimes I'll kick them out first time, sometimes I'll just slap their hand, and say "No!" like I'm talking to a dog. If they're doing something irritating but not against the rules, sometimes I start flicking them in the ear.

    If I'm in a particularly nice mood I may explain to them that their general behaviour towards women/inability to feel a boob without ripping it off could be the cause of their single peril.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Ashley View Post

    Air humping? Flicking of the tongue? Smelling our asses when we turn around ? Usually this happens on one of those full house nights which makes it even more WTF.

    I tell people to shut up, fuck off and flip LOTS of people off all the time. I gives no fuck. Which is why it's really important to get paid up front. Do it really quietly and when/if they go to mgmnt just lie "I would NEVER say that" and then look at the guy all crazy eyed.
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    I've always reacted. That is why I did well playing the dominate

    I can have an explosive temper. At work, it is unacceptable when someone tries to rip my bottoms off (I worked in a topless club), then bitches that fucking him is expected.

    One customer did that and I snapped and had him walking out of the club with his head down in embarrassment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Ashley View Post
    I tell people to shut up, fuck off and flip LOTS of people off all the time. I gives no fuck.
    Hahaha, I love this.

    I'm usually nice at first if a guy is misbehaving, but in a condescending way. Like, "Now now, you're a big boy, right? I want you to try your hardest to be a gentleman, k?" It usually works, they sometimes even put on their "guilt face," haha. But if the behavior continues, I pretty much do what Lysondra does. "Dude, ok I DON'T like that. Do it again and I'm done." Once I told one of those hump-y guys to show me some respect and stop trying to rape me through his pants. Man, he sure got the hint, and apologized.

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    Quote Originally Posted by i.breathe.in View Post
    i do but in a sort of silly way if a customer was bucking up and down while iw as trying to danc ei would just tell him if he wanted to do the dancing i would sit still and let him.
    I just tell em, if they behave it will be more fun for them, but if they insist on acting like a wild child teenager, then I will act like their wife and be a dead fish.

    Usually stops them in their tracks, and they are perfect ANGELS after that!
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