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    Well maybe it isn't but it feels like one. The male went shopping for food today, Usually we go together and stock up yanno? He never lets me pay. Well today he went alone while I was sleeping. He only got stuff for himself. When I asked him about it, he responded by telling me to buy my own stuff whenever. I told him that I'm broke. He just looked at me and walked away. So I have a bag of carrots until I can save up some grocery cash. WTF?
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    I haven't been keeping up with your story with him but what an asshole! Hope you don't have to stay with him much longer.
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    hmm sounds like some underying issues there.....

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    Didn't you guys break up? I'm confused.

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    We sure did but he still wont let me pay bills or rent or such
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    what a controling fuckwit.

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    ^^I think that's a pretty big hint that he's pushing you to move on. Still, not very kind of him at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post
    We sure did but he still wont let me pay bills or rent or such
    Well then keep all your money and gtfo. You're better off sans asshole.
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    Sounds like you'd be better off getting your own place. I can't imagine trying to live with someone I'd just broken up with. That's just a recipe for disaster. Until you can do that, maybe you need to separate your finances so that he can't hold it over you.

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    Ew, he's being a manipulative "Dom" (Denying you food, very evil....He's messing with your head.)


    Get someone to loan you some grocery money and then move out pronto. He doesn't deserve to share your airspace.

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    I haven't read anything since the breakup thread but... He sounds like he's in the same boat with being disgusted that you can't take care of yourself and stuff. I'm sure he's feeling used by you on some level if he's paying for absolutely everything. I really don't know what to tell you. I guess if I were you, I would move out ASAP. I wouldn't want to be around that negativity.
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    Fuck him. Seriously, he's acting like a bratty child.

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    Denying someone food is the lowest of the low. Strangers will still give a homeless person food money. What's he's doing is disgusting.

    IMO I'd "acquire" something of his, pawn it and buy some groceries until I could move out. You can also stay in a women's shelter until you can find somewhere to move to......
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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine View Post
    Denying someone food is the lowest of the low. Strangers will still give a homeless person food money. What's he's doing is disgusting.......
    Yup.

    That is majorly fucked up.

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    Thats fucked up. (I want to preface this by saying I am NOT judging...just asking)..if you arent paying any bills,where is all your money going?

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    Oh hun, I hope there's some way to get out of the situation. This guy is an ass for putting this food issue out there.

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    Yha I think he's trying to push you out. I'm not fully updated on your situation, but why can't you work? If it's because of him...work anyways. I'd also just eat him food.

    Fuck all that. Really. He's just playing games with you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine View Post
    Denying someone food is the lowest of the low. Strangers will still give a homeless person food money. What's he's doing is disgusting.
    [...]You can also stay in a women's shelter until you can find somewhere to move to......
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    That is majorly fucked up.
    get out of that situation as soon as you can. i don't know the whole story either but whatever used to be there between you two is obviously gone.

    get yourself 'righted' and independent. i've always agreed with the common theme here among the women that one should always try to be financially independent.

    i don't begrudge women that squirrel a bit of their own hard-earned monies for a rainy day. heck, i didn't begrudge my ex doing that with some of our monies (it was just what she was 'taught' to do). i realize it's a unequal world. that's the reality of it. you need to take care of yourself.

    it doesn't mean screw over others and especially not your SO (so i disagree with maxine's 'acquire' comment) but i do agree with the rest of her post.

    be proactve here in getting yourself out of the situation. it isn't going to be easy so be prepared for that initial inertia. but once it starts moving, you'll get there. good luck!

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    What an ass-hat. Paige you deserve better than that. I can't put it better than what's already been said. Maxine hit the nail on the head.

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    Ditto what most people here have said.....sounds like he's a control freak and you're not in a good situation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CKXXX View Post
    Thats fucked up. (I want to preface this by saying I am NOT judging...just asking)..if you arent paying any bills,where is all your money going?
    I pay car payments, car insurance, and the cell phone bill to my ex that I left for this guy. Otherwise its gas, eating when I am at works, and medication/doctors. The latter being what takes up most of mah $.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post
    and medication/doctors. The latter being what takes up most of mah $.
    Oh BOY do I hear you on that one.

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    Today I gave the other ex all mah cash. It was a lot that I managed to save up despite the bar being such a black hole lately. I'm officially paid up (I was behind 2 months) on what I owe him, and I'm ahead until 8/1 by like $40. That's a good thing. Now I can use whatever I might make at werks to eat and refill my meds.
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    I'll take you food You can come over and eat here also.


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    Okay, so you guys have broken up, but he is letting you stay rent/bill free until you get on your feet? Just to frame it. Or are you still sleeping together? As in having the sex? Because that means you're still together.

    Like he clearly didn't have a good idea of the state of your finances when he agreed to provide for you. He might have considered it a bit more thoroughly before you left the situation you had before; like, I'm don't want to pry, but what did he think you were going to cost?
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