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    Default Re: for the life of you DON"T do this

    Girls in Vegas do this all the time.. If you're a dancer at one of the better, busier clubs, you kinda have to do it to survive. I really, really hate it though. I think a man should be able to relax and get comfortable in his surroundings before getting attacked.


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    Default Re: for the life of you DON"T do this

    I used to hate hate hate doing this! I felt so rude but noticed most other girls did it, some got dances some didn't. But some guys got "nabbed" when they walked in the door and spent all their money on that one girl. So I had to do it to compete.

    Definitely feel this one out though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by happygiggles View Post
    newbies do have advice to give, as you can see some vets have agreed that it's not the best way to approach customers. i've had long time custies themselves who have said this. so it wasn't just based off my dancing experience. is it not acceptable that maybe i have friends who frequent strip clubs and tell me these things? and i've spoke to many a girls and found out that this really doesn't work in memphis. each city, each club has its own particular hustle. in memphis the guys really hate it when they're getting flustered by strippers. i think they're only three of us active members currently dancing in memphis, if i'm not the only one cuz i think shady is retired. maybe in bigger/smaller cities it helps to go at the customers to get the money but if you come to memphis and ask the customers they will tell you they would like to get inside the club first. they say it's a major look of desperation and they hate it.
    shit i worked in memphis at platinum plus with sometimes a hundred girls. there was no such "etiquette" there thats for damn sure.
    now in the 90's there were many clubs that had a rule. no one was allowed to approach until the custy ordered and got his drink
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jeska View Post
    Girls in Vegas do this all the time.. If you're a dancer at one of the better, busier clubs, you kinda have to do it to survive. I really, really hate it though. I think a man should be able to relax and get comfortable in his surroundings before getting attacked.
    I hate it as well. It makes me super uncomfortble to approach a guy I see walking in or just sitting down. I automaticialyl thin to myself " he's not ready yet. he'll tell me no"

    Yet...if I walk past in a few minutes, he's getting a dance, and I lost my chance.

    How do you actually know he's going to say no unles syou ask?

    I hate the gils standing along the wall, just waiting for guys to walk in. When a large group walks in, they attach themselves to a guy and walk with them to their seats..

    But you know what? It works. and it's amust. otheris, your just wandering around all night looking for an empty lap to be in.

    being aggressive was one of the hardest thigns for me to learn, and I still struggle with it...but to survive ad thrive, it's a must.

    if it bothers you so much to do, just go introduce yourself. Hi! i know you just walked in, so I waned to stop and say hello. maybe after your settled and have yrou drink you'll be ready for a dance...

    I prefer to just walk up and say hi! ready to start the night off right? I'll pop your cherry!

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    We do this at my work but we dont serve alcohal. Whoever isnt on the stages, dancing, dressing room, vip we just line up at the end of the hall where the club starts. Usually not more then 3-5 gils the ones who have already tried to work the floor. The guys dont seem to mind and it is all fair game, they actually kind of like the immeadiate attention, reminds me of cathouse or like that

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    I get most of my guys after they see me do a stage dance. In my mind, it's kind of like an audition and they know a little bit more about how I dance. So no, I don't grab them right off the door. But if I were to try doing that, I think I'd use britt's approach.

    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    i tell them they dont need to bother sitting down because we can just go straight to dance and get their night started.
    It's different from the standard "wanna dance?" question. I think that if the approach is unimaginative, it turns the guy off, more so if he hasn't had time to get settled in.

    Ultimately, it's all a matter of what works best for YOU. If you're uncomfortable doing it, it won't work out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by golden41 View Post
    We do this at my work but we dont serve alcohal. Whoever isnt on the stages, dancing, dressing room, vip we just line up at the end of the hall where the club starts. Usually not more then 3-5 gils the ones who have already tried to work the floor. The guys dont seem to mind and it is all fair game, they actually kind of like the immeadiate attention, reminds me of cathouse or like that
    You make it sound like taxi's lining up for customers at the airport! What do you do when the guys come in? Like, if you escorted them to a seat, I can see how that might help you get more dances.

    I remember one club I was at, one of the girls offered to give newcomers a tour of the facilities. Ending up at the VIP rooms, of course. It was corny, but it got her dances sometimes. If it didn't get a dance, it got her a drink.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Danielle_4370 View Post
    Ultimately, it's all a matter of what works best for YOU. If you're uncomfortable doing it, it won't work out.
    amen, sista!

    Love it!

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    it depends a lot.

    my club has a rule about not talking to customers till they have a drink, at least on non-weekend nights. it sucks.

    i've had guys walk in, look at me hoping i'll come over, and i fucking can't do it without breaking this stupid fucking rule. so instead, another girl goes up, gets him, and i come off as that bitch who thought she was too good for his money. i've actually had guys ask me why i didn't come over, and telling them we have a rule doesn't usually mean shit. following rules is not sexy.

    and i'm one of the low pressure girls. i'd only go up to introduce myself, tell him i'd love to dance for him after he's settled in and all that. and i'm not fucking allowed.

    even though at least half the guys who are interested in dances are interested in just finding a girl they like and getting dances now. and if they happen to see a girl they like when they walk in, so much the better.

    yes, it scares guys when twenty girls who aren't their type go up and ask for dances. but they like it if those girls just stop by to say hi. clubs need to invest the time in teaching girls how to act, instead of forcing these stupid rules on us.

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    Gosh, that's a shitastic rule! That sucks, I'm sorry. Maybe try breaking the rule and seeing how it goes? You can always blame it on "omigod i totally forgot about that rule!" if you get spoken to by management.

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    I've always wondered how the girls that jump on guys as soon as they come in the door convince them to start spending asap.. here's a review of one of the Vegas clubs I found on yelp So you may better understand the need to use that technique in certain clubs.

    The bar was covered in neon blue/red lights overlooking a huge dance structure w/multiple stages on different stairways. Lots of circular lounge chairs w/tiny drink tables adorned the place. Looks quiet and sophisticated right?

    I figured we'll just steer away from the dancers and just grab a drink and chop it up w/some conversation.

    BOY WAS I WRONG.
    I had NO IDEA what was in store for us.

    We were situated right in the center. 10 guys.
    Some married..some not...one about to be. It mattered not..because as we sat..we realized that we were all "PREY"...

    Within 2 -3 minutes..I felt the circling of sharks Literally 12-15 girls converged on our group like hungry carnivores looking for prey.

    WE literally walked into a dancer SHARK TANK!

    1 by 1..my friends were knocked off. 1, 2 and sometimes 3 girls would jump right on their round lounge chair (this is why they got these chairs of course. Should I have brought some PURELL for my seat?) and very effectively persuade them into a lap dance right on the spot.

    Other posters commented about having a lapdance in front of everyone. For us, there was no time nor any interest to worry about what other people were doing..!

    What was 10guys..dwindled down to 7, then 6, then 5!.
    They got smothered in their chairs. One of my closer friends dissappeared back into the VIP lounge and wasn't heard from until the next day!

    The dancers soon started turning their attention to me! What was I gonna do?? I didn't want to spend time fighting them off! What to do? Act fast! Act fast!

    As this portly dancer came up to me...I quickly reacted and said
    "HEY! That guy over there!?? (pointed at my one lonely buddy w/who never had a gf)...He has 500 bucks in his pocket RIGHT NOW!.(which he did..he's gonna kill me when he finds out I did this)...

    She stopped her "hey honey..do you wanna dance" speech, got out of character, gave me the "ok" sign w/her fingers and turned her attention to him! They went to VIP and re-emerged 1 hr later...w/out 500 dollars in his pocket.. Sorry buddy..either me or you! DODGED ONE BULLET!

    Then the remaining three of us literally held elbows together as if we were in the movie Gladiator..and I was Russell Crowe...yelling out "HOLD THE LINE!"..trying to protect us from the lingerie invadors.

    This did NOT work well at ALL. These slinky size 2 girls slid down our armlocks and released them like butter. They've done this before..I can gather! The remaining 3 of us were then assimilated into fleshgate and were fodder for these cash hungry succubi...looking to juice us dry of every piece of green paper and credit plastic we had..


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    ...steer away from the dancers? he sounds like a prize customer.

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    Very amusing story..I've NEVER seen a group of 12-15 approach a table at once like that.







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    I usually don't swarm right away, but I will if a guy comes in and I smell big money I'll be on him like white on rice, just so the other hussies can't get to him. On that note, I have a 2 song maximum, 3 in very extreme cases to develop rapport and drag him back to the CR. In fact I did it last night, and it worked lke a charm.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dangerousdiva View Post

    I admit, I circle the ATM too and the cage (where they run funny money)
    Lots of good advice in this thread, but this is a hidden gem: If you have nothing to do, just sit and watch the ATM machine. I am NOT KIDDING. I had forgotten that tip. Thanks DD!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    To me it's like walking into Disneyland and being annoyed when Mickey Mouse immediately approaches you. Doesn't make sense.
    Lolol, I'm going to say that, should anyone get miffed if I have to pull out the real aggressive moves. I've really never had anyone get downright snotty---imo this thread is kind of like insulting ours and the custies' intelligence--they know they are going to get approached, they will not get shocked, really. Time will give you the answer to this--

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    from that story, i'd say that the only one in the group who didn't want dances was the last guy, and maybe his two friends who stayed with him to the bitter end.

    you'll always find a killjoy or two in the group who feel like stripclubs are some kind of us vs them war.

    the rest usually just want to have some fun. that guy's a douchebag.

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    Doesn't work here. The guys want to have a couple beers first. The few guys that do want dances right away are usually good spenders (the in and out fast) kind but 99.9% of the guys don;t want to be bothered.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    maybe its different because my club doesnt serve alcohol but i grab guys when they walk in the door sometimes. i tell them they dont need to bother sitting down because we can just go straight to dance and get their night started. one night i did this and ended up getting a few dances there, then i sat with him and he got another few in about 30 mins (it was the end of the night and i was tired and didnt care anymore. i dont usually sit that long) and tipped me $50. i think he got 7 dances total plus the extra 50.

    so yeah, i dont agree with you.
    well this is lucky and rare because from my experience guys never want to dance as soon as they walk in. i do go up to them as soon as they walk in though, but we talk for a few minutes first. i would never go "o u dont need to sit cuz we can go dance right away" theyd probably get annoyed. i know when im walking around asking for dances during a special and a new guy walks in and i ask him, he always says "i just got here" even if its like a 5 for 2.

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    Quote Originally Posted by msonyxorb View Post
    well this is lucky and rare because from my experience guys never want to dance as soon as they walk in. i do go up to them as soon as they walk in though, but we talk for a few minutes first. i would never go "o u dont need to sit cuz we can go dance right away" theyd probably get annoyed. i know when im walking around asking for dances during a special and a new guy walks in and i ask him, he always says "i just got here" even if its like a 5 for 2.
    lucky and rare for you maybe. not for me. clearly it works for me if i do it and am advocating it.

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