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    I'm 20 years old and I am extremely attracted to older men...for example they have to be AT LEAST 10 years older to peak my interest, I've gone 20 years, and yes even 30 years older than myself. I find older men distinguishly attractive and know how to appreciate women much more than men my age...but sometimes from other's reactions I wonder...am I sick?

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    Of course there is nothing wrong with your personal preference in men.
    My ex was 11 years older than me. I have always found older men very attractive although as I get older I'm starting to find younger guys more appealing too.

    But who cares what anyone else thinks of your taste in men??
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    You aren't sick!

    I've never dated anyone who isn't at least 10 years older than me.

    I try not to analyze it. If a person makes you happy, then fuck what people think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Delilah27 View Post
    I'm 20 years old and I am extremely attracted to older men...for example they have to be AT LEAST 10 years older to peak my interest, I've gone 20 years, and yes even 30 years older than myself. I find older men distinguishly attractive and know how to appreciate women much more than men my age...but sometimes from other's reactions I wonder...am I sick?

    Honesty would greatly be appreciated ladies and gentz.
    No, I dont think there is anything wrong wanting to date someone who is older than you. BUT at the same time, you have to wonder WHY would this, older distinguished man want you vs. a woman his own age?

    I have dated older, and what I've noticed is the older person is more of a mentor figure. They give you guidance..they basically mold you into what they want you to be. They could never do that with a person their own age (possibly, but for sake of argument no) so they choose to date younger.







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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post

    They give you guidance..they basically mold you into what they want you to be. They could never do that with a person their own age (possibly, but for sake of argument no) so they choose to date younger.
    Oh jesus that's so true
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    The psychiatrists answer would be no you aren't sick, but "Yes, you have some issues." If it's just a physical attraction thing, I dunno. If these are the ONLY men you are attracted to then I'd definitely analyze the "why" of it.

    ***I should admit that I am COMPLETELY 100% against huge age gaps. There are several men in my close family that only date women much younger, and none of them have good intentions. They all use these women and have no respect for them (although the women would disagree because they don't hear what is said behind their backs or know about the cheating and uncontrollable flirting with any young girl). 2 are actually past pedophiles. I guess when they decide going to prison over an 8 yr old isn't something they want to do any longer they go for extremely young-looking girls who are barely legal. Also, "molding" you to be what they want.... EWWWW!!! ISSUES! You are your own person and that is creepy as fuck!

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    I swear to God when I read AT LEAST 10 years, I thought you were say "younger..." LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Delilah27 View Post
    I'm 20 years old and I am extremely attracted to older men...for example they have to be AT LEAST 10 years older to peak my interest, I've gone 20 years, and yes even 30 years older than myself. I find older men distinguishly attractive and know how to appreciate women much more than men my age...but sometimes from other's reactions I wonder...am I sick?

    Honesty would greatly be appreciated ladies and gentz.
    I like older men as well but not usually more than 10 years older unless they look younger. I think it might be partially because of life experience and relating better to people who have experienced some things and partially to the absence of my father in my life.

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    Unless you are looking for a substitute daddy,in which case you may have some issues to work out...your preference in men is just your preference. If it makes you happy...why would it be sick?Just watch out for guys looking for young arm candy trophy's.

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