oh i think i remember her now....
oh i think i remember her now....
And it's not just strippers but women in general. A friend of mine was raped, I've been taken advantage when drunk. At the time I thought it was just drunken one night stands but later in life, after I found some self esteem realized that they abused me, I too was just so naive and young and had no self respect. Luckily I didn't get std's or anything. Before I became "sexually active" at 18 I had been through major depression+OCD and literally had to build myself up all over again, the bottom is a scary place.
How do you/would you react in these situations if they happened again to you or to someone you know? I feel like I'm always unconsciously alert and ready to fight back. Stories of rapes -old or new- and sex traffic make me feel sick and violent, if only all women could get strong and even like this awesome woman who also was a stripper:
"Walking home from school at the age of nine she was gang raped by five men. Her attackers were never prosecuted and it was rumored that the judge had been paid off. This prompted her to learn the martial arts of aikido and karate and, over the next 15 years, track down each rapist and enact revenge. "I made a vow to myself that I would someday, somehow get even with all of them," she said years later. "They never knew who I was until I told them."
-Tura Satana
as I said this can be about whatever people like to post about lurkers follow my posts and just write things that have nothing to do w the topic at hand its so funny please stop addressing me an talking to me negative ppl thanks i'd appreciate it![]()
before you point the finger make sure your hands are clean
I want to be apart of the solution not the problem so I will ignore the ignorance
anyone else want to speak on the topic?
before you point the finger make sure your hands are clean




Please do tell, what is YOUR solution to the problem?
Are you going to run for senate or get child rape laws passed?
Are you going to speak about the penalties for those that hurt children? Or suggest stricter ones?
Are you going to suggest websites that help those that have been through traumatic events to read up on and seek guidance from experienced people in the know?
Didn't think so.
Because you would have done so by now.
Or are you simply going to keep bringing it up as to exploit the events people have survived through because you have a morbid fixation with taboo sexual encounters?
Here I'll post some links that will help those that are SURVIVORS of Incest, Child abuse and rape. It is never too late to seek help or possibly prosecute depending on the laws in your area.
as damp as a cellar. . . all mildewy I'm as damp as a cellar. . . all mildewy
before you point the finger make sure your hands are clean




You can't unlock a thread lol
And yeah I can see how the literacy major of the year would be helping those in need.
Do tell..how did you help them?
as damp as a cellar. . . all mildewy I'm as damp as a cellar. . . all mildewy
I helped some by having someone to talk to get their feelings out
Helped them build their self esteem back things of that nature thanks for the question
please stop following me everywhere i post it makes me feel like i should give you an autograph
better yet from now on u and ur buddys r on my ignore list
before you point the finger make sure your hands are clean
Jasmine, sorry this thread probably hasnt helped u deal with any issues. But cant u understand why most girls dont want to be reminded of rape? I dont know anybody hear but in my personal life not many people know the truth of my childhood. I like it that way. I cant change it or even hide from the truth BUT I do feel better when I dont talk about it in my conversations. Thats why I keep a diary for the days when I have a lot of past emotions on my mind I can just let it all out and not open it again or be asked about it again until Im ready.
Yes I went to group & single counseling until I was 18. That is probably why I am not as ashamed anymore. But it will forever be painful to discuss how it makes me feel. because what I went through personally I would feel like a traitor talking about another womans nightmare.
I really want to read cupcake brown sometime soon! So this thread wasnt all bad!




Lovely bones is worth a read too.
Bastard out of Carolina is worth watching but really hard. Although I think for many people who've not lived through it...understand it more.
I feel the same way about Monster.
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this thread is like the twilight zone. it belongs there, at least.
So many ppl on my ignore list i have no idea what they are saying greatnow we all can focus on the topic at hand
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Not sure why people are getting angry in this thread but I skimmed over it. Why is it in member boards?? Scratches head.
There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.
Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.
I worked with this girl who had some kind of mental illness, was homeless, and the manager felt sorry for her so he let her stay with him and work at the club even though she would go all crazy and throw her money on the ground not caring if anyone took it, give free blowjobs in the men's bathroom, and argue with herself in the mirror. It was pretty sad actually.
There are a lot of stripper horror stories I've heard; girls being raped by their fathers/step-fathers/mothers; girls being stalked or threatened by custies/ex-boyfriends, beaten, you name it. We exist in a realm unknown to most other women, and we need each other for support and encouragement. Don't be put off by others with negative views on the subject, and if you don't like the thread, don't read it.
Some of your stories almost brought me to tears, and to you, I offer my love and prayers. Stay strong!
Last edited by azamber; 07-13-2008 at 08:31 AM.
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Don't like this thread? Then go find another one. Back to the topic. The" Piece of Cake" book was amazing. Cupcake Brown(yes, that is her actual name) went through abuse and drug addiction. Yet she overcame it all to become a lawyer. Just goes to show that anyone can overcome their past.
"Can we read it on the Smoking Gun? "
Sophia_Ashley: "Dude what is with a ton of newbs that are border line fucking retards here?! Seriously. We get rid of the dick infestation and get it replaced by a ton of highschool children that want to sail on a ship of titties and one dollar bills flying around with blow while swapping stories of incest and rape."
can you believe this was said^
I will have to check out that book in the near futureDon't like this thread? Then go find another one. Back to the topic. The" Piece of Cake" book was amazing. Cupcake Brown(yes, that is her actual name) went through abuse and drug addiction. Yet she overcame it all to become a lawyer. Just goes to show that anyone can overcome their past.
Last edited by sexyjasmine; 07-16-2008 at 03:29 PM.
before you point the finger make sure your hands are clean
never mind, and sorry about the double post
...nevermind
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