I thought I got a new job (hence the ticker), I actually made it to the second interview, which most people have not yet.
Here is the deal.
I want to quit dancing and go back to cooking. I LOVE TO COOK! I did the kitchen manager thing and that's the job I applied for. The main reason I want to quit is because of the issues I am having at work. Psycho bitch and her minions.
She has all the girls believing that I am the anti-christ. She says I talk shit, steal, lie, etc. She says behind my back that I am fat and ugly and bitches about me to the customers. I show up late, she screams at the top of her lungs. She tells the other girls that I say hateful things, making them in turn, threaten my life. I have had 2 girls threaten to kill me. One is no longer working there and the other is buddy buddy with psycho.
Psycho had a guy in the dressing room and went off on me when I had to get the manager to make him leave. Then she and one of her minions left the door to the dressing room wide open while I was naked. It's a topless club and the DR is right next to the restrooms. At least it was closing time.
She thinks she runs the club, thinks she is top bitch there. WRONG! With her screaming and acts of stupidity, bar regulars are not coming back in when she works. I get calls from friends and regulars wondering where I am and when I am coming back. They won't come in if I am not there and she is.
My bosses are sick of her shit. They want to fire her but if I leave, they have to keep her. She calls them and tells them there are too many girls, we HAVE to do shorter sets. My boss refused to answer her calls one day, so the bitch sends her a text message that if she does not answer her phone, her and her friends are walking out. Same friends that want to kill me, steal my clothes, and write nasty messages on my mirror in the DR.
Psycho says she hates it here, that she is going to leave. She has been saying that for a year and has made no attempt to leave. Her excuse is her 6 year old daughter. Doesn't want to take her out of the school she likes. Um, she's SIX!! She won't remember it in a few years, leave already.
When psycho is not there and her minions are, they tend to leave me alone for the most part. BUT psycho can go out on boat rides and out to dinner with customers and god knows what else. We are not supposed to give out our numbers!!!!! I got my ass chewed out for leaving with a good friend of mine on my birthday last year. I kinda had to leave with him, I was really drunk and he took my keys. After, I got my ass chewed I told my boss who he was and she let it slide.
When my bosses decide it's time for a dancer meeting, they lay down the law and and tear into the girls, including me. After the other girls leave, they tell me it was ment for them, not me. Thing is, they don't put their foot down when shit happens, no follow through.
She accuses me of of trying new clubs only because she was there first. Says I got my boob job at HER doctor because she got them there. Um, she and I used to be kinda friends and she TOLD me to go to her doctor.
I love dancing here! I make great money! I have a blast! I really don't want to quit but I do not want to deal with psycho anymore. I can't! I tried other clubs, I am too settled where I am at to start over. I cannot put up with the bitches shit anymore but if I quit, they have to keep her because no one wants to work there BECAUSE OF HER! She tells other girls at other clubs that our club is really bad.
I have already spoke to the police about the threats. They told me that if it happens again to call them immediately. I don't want to have to do that. I will tell my boss, one more incident and I will walk out the door. Customers will leave if I do.
OH MY GOD!! It's too much pressure! I want to stay but yet I don't. I want the new job but I love dancing.
I am not going to confront psycho. I am not going down to her level. My bosses, the bartenders, and the bouncers do not want me to leave.
I don't know what to do. I am going to work on Monday. When I see my bosses, I will tell them, one more incident and I leave or I call the police. They better give me a damn good work reference if I am forced to leave.
Can anyone make fucking sense of this because I can't?
New job 40 hours a week $500 pay check
Dancing 65 hours a week $400 pay check and keep all my tips.
Having to check into the mental hospital because of a psycho conceited bitch.... priceless.



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