I started a new place last night and they asked me to do two bachelor parties. The second one was for a black guy that had already bought a dance from me, (crew 20 deep) The club has their routine they do with the bachelors, but it consists of taking his belt off and giving him three spanks on the ass as he bends over on the pole.... and then the girls sit on top while he's laying on his stomach, riding him like a dog, maybe throw the belt around his neck like a leash. I can't remember but I think all 4 of us girls were white. My question especially to black dancers or custies is if this is really offensive because instead of spanking and a leash it could look like "whipping" and a noose.
I always overanalyze a bit, but I do feel like the whole party was a little different towards me after that. I work with the same dj tonight and was going to suggest not doing this, cuz I woke up at 6am feeling very ashamed, I should know better working in community centers. I'm usually the one to be offended first.... like "why does the swinging pole on a hangman's wood frame at the putt-putt golf course have to be painted black?"
I would have rather done some Too $hort booty shakin on him or something, like my other crazy bikini bar where I do handstands in his chair and shake my ass in his face, but this is a classier gentlemen's club that only plays very mellow music, so I want to make suggestions how to change it instead of just criticizing, ya know come with solutions, I need to see how far we can take it,,,tastefully ya know?
But white women spanking black men with an audience cheering just doesn't feel right........right?






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