My bf is usually home from work around 9.30ish. He's only been in his new job 2 weeks and his end time is a bit changeable but he's never been home later than 9.45.
Yesterday he forgot to take his phone with him so I couldn't contact him all day. I like to wait for him so we can eat dinner together so I waited till 10, when he wasn't home I ate alone. I thought he'd probably went for a drink so didn't worry too much. When he wasn't home by 11 I started to get a bit worried, even my flatmate was wondering where he was. By 12 he still wasn't home. I know some people might not think this is a big deal but to me its unacceptable to be home 3 hours late without any word, I was geniuinely worried. By 12.30 I was panicking a bit and talking to G-real in chat asking what I should do when the bf just breezes in completely unconcerned. He said they went for a drink after work and lost track of time.
I was pretty pissed off at him and told him he was irresponsible and selfish. He didn't think it was that big a deal and said it was because he had forgotten his phone, I think if he knew he'd forgotten his phone he shouldn't have stayed out so late as he knew I'd worry.
He apologised this morning and said it won't happen again. What do you guy think? Did I over react? Would you think nothing of coming home 3 hours late? Would you worry if your partener was 3 hours late and not home yet?





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