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    Default Pretty vs. Sexy - What's your definition

    What's your definition of sexy?

    People tell me that I'm pretty, but I don't get told that I'm sexy, so much. It got me to thinking when I first told my friend that I wanted to be a stripper. He said I was too pretty...then I showed him a pic of who I thought to be a pretty stripper...and he said she was sexy, but not pretty, or something. What's the main difference? If people already think I'm pretty, I want to step things up to help my game and give off a vibe of sexiness, too. Is it something you can "fake well" for the job?

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    Default Re: Pretty vs. Sexy - What's your definition

    I think plenty of pretty people are sexy, but not all sexy people are pretty. It's one of those things that I find hard to put into words, but I can point it out when I see it. A good example of someone who is sexy, yet odd looking and sometimes even ugly, is Sandra Bernhardt. She's definitely not beautiful, but there's something about her that is dirty and sexy. Maybe that's just my opinion, I don't know.


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    Default Re: Pretty vs. Sexy - What's your definition

    To me, "pretty" is making the best of your "skin" and what you have to work with and "sexy" is being comfortable with it and owning it no matter what!

    Many "pretty" people and many fewer who are truly "sexy"...

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    Default Re: Pretty vs. Sexy - What's your definition

    Sexy to me is an attitude.

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    Default Re: Pretty vs. Sexy - What's your definition

    Lots of people are pretty but not all pretty people are sexy. Pretty much just like Vyanka says here.

    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    Sexy to me is an attitude.
    Sexy to me is like knowing inside that you're hot, a confidence about that girl, a carefree attitude about the way she looks and feels about herself.

    For example, I feel sexy when I'm feeling good about my body. If I still have a remaining dimple or two I don't give a shiz because I feel good about the rest of it. Though I think every woman has her own "I feel sexy" moment.
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    Default Re: Pretty vs. Sexy - What's your definition

    I think more exotic women (almond shaped eyes, tan skin, shiny lips) are sexy. Pretty is more of the girl next door. This is just my opinion.

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    IMO pretty is looking hot with makeup. Sexy is looking hot without makeup. So all women can be sexy & pretty
    Last edited by golden41; 07-16-2008 at 12:59 PM.

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    Default Re: Pretty vs. Sexy - What's your definition

    I think of pretty as something innocent and innocuous. Like how a daisy can be pretty, a little girl can be pretty...but sexy = something you want to fuck/ inspires sexual desire.

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    Default Re: Pretty vs. Sexy - What's your definition

    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    Sexy to me is an attitude.
    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    I think more exotic women (almond shaped eyes, tan skin, shiny lips) are sexy. Pretty is more of the girl next door. This is just my opinion.

    Yea, I agree with both.

    Pretty to me is a young, youthful look.







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    Default Re: Pretty vs. Sexy - What's your definition

    I am exotic...I'm korean, but I still don't really get told I'm sexy. I don't really feel sexy unless I'm dancing, though.

    Is there anyway to "learn" how to act sexier...because I'm guessing doing so would up my earnings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by exotica268 View Post

    Is there anyway to "learn" how to act sexier...because I'm guessing doing so would up my earnings.
    Wear darker eye makeup. What do you wear? Practice biting you lip in the mirror..is it hot? I also run my fingers though my hair...I get told I'm sexy alot. I also wink and half smile alot on stage.







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    Quote Originally Posted by exotica268 View Post
    I am exotic...I'm korean, but I still don't really get told I'm sexy. I don't really feel sexy unless I'm dancing, though.

    Is there anyway to "learn" how to act sexier...because I'm guessing doing so would up my earnings.
    Body language...

    Strut your stuff with confidence.

    Work on your facial expressions. Esp. the eyes. I have one sly expression that I use on men & they go crazy. I'll stare at the eyes, then lips.. back and forth & give a smirk like if you're hungry/thinking dirty things. They go nuts.

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    Default Re: Pretty vs. Sexy - What's your definition

    I see the word "pretty" to mean esthetically pleasing to the senses.
    Sexy is a term used to indicate a sense of lust and power. The words are not mutually exclusive, but can stand alone as descriptive terms without implying the other.

    Ex: The child is pretty. What a pretty sunset. etc.

    Ex: That is a very sexy sports car. He gave me a sexy look. etc.

    How to become more sexy? Exert your sexual prowess in your actions. Now there is no single way of doing this, but is very individually based. Kind of like handwriting. You just have to discover your own sexual power, and then you will be pretty and sexy at the same time.


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    I get sexy outside of the club, in the club i get pretty.

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    cinnamonkisses, i wear a LOT of dark eyemakeup...both in the club and outside...even though less outside. I use liquid liner for both upper/lower lids and for the club and sometimes bars, I put black eyeshadow over the liner, topped off w/fake lashes.

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    Default Re: Pretty vs. Sexy - What's your definition

    I think sexy is more sultry, dark, sometimes exotic. It's something that comes out when you feel really confident in yourself.

    Pretty is more plane, light colored (make up, hair). To me pretty is just a face. Someone with out depth, when you look at them they are like a shell.

    Sexy is like whoa, and you look at her like she's interesting. You'll remember her more.

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    Quote Originally Posted by exotica268 View Post
    cinnamonkisses, i wear a LOT of dark eyemakeup...both in the club and outside...even though less outside. I use liquid liner for both upper/lower lids and for the club and sometimes bars, I put black eyeshadow over the liner, topped off w/fake lashes.
    Hmm well do you smile alot? There was a girl I worked with (thai) who was always smiling. I looked at her as being "cute" but not sexy. I feel like if she smiled less and gave more "pout" she would've been HOT!







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    ^I'm always smiling or laughing. I can't help it. Maybe I just can't work the pout. When I don't look happy/smiley/energetic at work, I actually make less money. I see what you're saying, tho, as smiling is more cutesy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    Hmm well do you smile alot? There was a girl I worked with (thai) who was always smiling. I looked at her as being "cute" but not sexy. I feel like if she smiled less and gave more "pout" she would've been HOT!

    So true! I'd say I'm exotic looking but I smile ALOT. I get told I'm cute ALOT. You have to talk a certain way through your eyes to be sexy. Smile when you say something naughty and try not to smile after everything someone says. I do this and I can tell I come across cute and sweet rather than sexy and sultry.

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    to me, pretty is a word use to describe someones face.
    Like i never really hear anyone say, WOW shes got a hott/sexy face..
    and i never hear anyone say she has a "pretty" body...
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    Ok take madonna.. Shes not "pretty" and she certainly isnt "cute" but shes definitely sexy in my opinion(or used to be, havent seen her lately)
    She has an aura about her tho. She just is sexy to me, IMO.
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    Sexy is more about an act IMO. A pretty woman can be sexy by dressing sexy, styling her hair more sexy or even by the way she moves. A sexy woman isn't always pretty though.

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    I think that when someone is pretty, it just means they are good looking. When someone is sexy, lust is involved. People tend to say I'm cute or pretty cause I smile too damn much. I only get sexy for my bf I think... haha I need to change that!!

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    ^ so how can i, erm, feign, sexiness?

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    Quote Originally Posted by jennahoff View Post
    Ok take madonna.. Shes not "pretty" and she certainly isnt "cute" but shes definitely sexy in my opinion(or used to be, havent seen her lately)
    She has an aura about her tho. She just is sexy to me, IMO.
    Perfect example. I feel the same way about her too.

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