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    ...to watch him fuck me and another girl. Three way split.

    Thing is, we KNOW this girl. I made out with her last weekend and tried to convince him that we should bring her home! We were all quite drunk, but still.

    Which is to say, I think I'd do it. The guy paying is a guy she's slept with before. He's not evil, and only the normal amount creepy. For a three way I'd be willing to have ANYWAY, is it really so wrong to get $500 out of it, with a little hobbit watching from a dark corner? It's strictly a voyeur thing.

    BUT now bf is pissed off at me for even considering this. I don't see this as prostitution, and if the idea offended him so much, why did he even tell me about it? Why did he tell me about it in a neutral way, instead of 'ohmygod, guess what? gross!'

    What's the deal? *Is* it really so bad? Am I missing something? I don't mind that he doesn't want to do it. I just don't understand what's wrong with me saying 'oh, well, maybe?'

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    Default Re: So this guy offered my bf 1500...

    Not prostitution, more like live porn. That is what it sounds like TO ME.

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    Default Re: So this guy offered my bf 1500...

    Dude, why is he pissed by this? Free money..some guy in the corner just watching...I say go for it..

    Hey, if bf doens't wanna join, maybe you and do the girl, and only charge $1,200







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    I'd do it!!But I obviously dont have issues with people watching me have sex!LOL

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    Default Re: So this guy offered my bf 1500...

    Well...I don't think it's wrong. I certainly don't think it's prostitution, either. But, if your bf is gonna be pissed about it, you probably should just leave it be. Or see if you could just hook up with her, without the bf.






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    I kind of agree with your boyfriend actually, I think it is. I mean I wouldn't be pissed off at you, but if he assumed that you had what you might call "firm boundaries" in the sex-commerce arena, he might be kind of freaked that it turns out you're a little pliable.
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    Default Re: So this guy offered my bf 1500...

    I don't mean this in a judgmental way as I pay escorts all the time but, strictly speaking, accepting money for sex is prostitution. It doesn't matter if the guy who is paying is watching or participating. For the record, the other participants are guilty as well.

    Should you care? Well, that's between you and your BF. I mean, unless the guy paying is a cop you have pretty much no chance of getting in trouble. I agree with Jenny, your BF probably thought you would either say no way or at least toss it around a bit longer before agreeing to it.

    Sounds like fun to me. As long as you and the BF can get on the same page I see it as a win/win.
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    Default Re: So this guy offered my bf 1500...

    Do you think he might have been "testing" you?

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    Well he knows what I do in lapdances, but maybe he just pushes this far from his mind. I guess I maybe wouldn't do it after all, if I thought about it, because I'm pretty shy about sex. Something I'd have to do after drinks is something I shouldn't do, probably. I mean, I think the dancing is diet-coke prostitution, isn't it? The zero calories version, as it were.

    I don't really care about it being prostitution or not. I'm in a bad mood right now, and maybe I shouldn't post. But if I weren't with someone as I am, I wouldn't be super adverse to a paid-for-sex situation if it's sex I'd have anyway. That said, I don't cheat on him and I hope he knows that. I'm just offended that he's offended that I wasn't immediately offended. But no matter!

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    Ok, i can't (find it hard) to believe this is in other work. That says alot. I thought this post was about her relationship with her boyfriend not other work or even asking advice on the proposal. Am I the only one that thinks that is uncalled for? seriously. Sorry if i am.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MeanGirl View Post
    Ok, i can't (find it hard) to believe this is in other work. That says a lot. I thought this post was about her relationship with her boyfriend not other work or even asking advice on the proposal. Am I the only one that thinks that is uncalled for? seriously. Sorry if i am.
    Well...she was offerered money for something so technically it could go in either. If she had accepted it..it would def be other work. She was considering it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mollyzmoon View Post
    I mean, I think the dancing is diet-coke prostitution, isn't it? The zero calories version, as it were.
    I feel the same way. I think the more important question is "are you comfortable with it?" Not "is this prostitution?" It's just a word and so many people interpret it in different ways.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MeanGirl View Post
    Ok, i can't (find it hard) to believe this is in other work. That says alot. I thought this post was about her relationship with her boyfriend not other work or even asking advice on the proposal. Am I the only one that thinks that is uncalled for? seriously. Sorry if i am.
    Dude, sorry for uncalled for threads and posts. It made sense to me at the time. Anyone can feel free to delete this whole thing, I don't care.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MeanGirl View Post
    Ok, i can't (find it hard) to believe this is in other work. That says alot. I thought this post was about her relationship with her boyfriend not other work or even asking advice on the proposal. Am I the only one that thinks that is uncalled for? seriously. Sorry if i am.
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    MeanGirl-

    Feel free to report my posts or PM me any issues you have with my threads or posting.

    I've recently had a lobotomy.

    Someone can delete this whole thing, or any and all of posts, I don't care.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MeanGirl View Post
    Ok, i can't (find it hard) to believe this is in other work. That says alot. I thought this post was about her relationship with her boyfriend not other work or even asking advice on the proposal. Am I the only one that thinks that is uncalled for? seriously. Sorry if i am.
    No, but this comment is uncalled for in MO. Way out of left field- I don't even know why anyone would have a problem with it. Molly wasn't sure what to call it, so what if its posted in "other work?" If anything she was erring on the side of caution...

    And MM, I'd do you. If that's what you wanted anyway. As for the complaint about what section you posted in, I don't think you did anything wrong at all so don't take it personal.

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    I'm content to leave it here. It is "Other Work" of a kind. I see your point MG, but I don't think it's a problem.

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    I'd say do it if you're really only interested in the money and treat it as you would any other kind of kinky sex-work. That's all it is. Just a show. If your BF is going to personalize it so much, leave him out of it. I do think you should respect his boundaries (if your relationship is that important to you) but I don't think his personal reservations or moral stance should have any barring on what you decide you're comfortable doing for random cash. Its nothing to fight about, though.
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    Default Re: So this guy offered my bf 1500...

    I'd be willing to bet the your boyfriend has issues not with the money so much as the fact that there will be another man in the room. For instance, if you were doing cam work for the same amount of money with the same girl would he be so quick to dismiss the offer?

    Men can be weird about homophobic feelings. You might come back with the hypothetical question about what if everything else was the same and the guy would be watching a webcam show instead? You might be surprised at what his answer is going to be.


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    My boyfriend said okay, he would do it for two grand, cash up front, put your money on the dresser

    (he really did)

    i don't see what the problem would be honestly, if it's somebody you never have to see again. We have sex anyway ..... we could use 2 grand!
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    Quote Originally Posted by mollyzmoon View Post
    Feel free to report my posts if you feel they are uncalled for, or PM me with your concerns.

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    no no no, I thought a mod MOVED it to other work (they moved a swinging thread there before and it had nothing to do with work) I didnt realize that you put it there. Sorry . Totally my bad. I had zero probelm with your post.

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    Oh guys, sorry for snapping and being all drama. ! I'm embarrassed. I was in a bad mood last week/ last night, and sharing unnecessarily all over the internets.

    I talked to him about it last night, and this mutual friend of ours is gonna go through with it and the girl instead. He's not cool with doing it himself, and that's fine by me. I wouldn't want to do anything that made him uncomfortable. Were he okay with it, that'd be another thing all together. I guess it's moot now. Thanks all, regardless! I was confused about the situation, I guess. I'm more liberal-minded than I realize, and I actually NEED people to explain to me why they are offended by things sometimes. I should pay more attention, etc etc. LOL

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    I would absolutely do it. My husband would probably go for it too (he's not homw right now otherwise I'd ask him) but he would be getting paid to have a threesome.. Where can we sign up?

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    Quote Originally Posted by shasta View Post
    Not prostitution, more like live porn. That is what it sounds like TO ME.
    While there might be some states where it is not the case, in most states it would be considered prostitution.

    In both NY and NJ it would be a violation of state statute.

    As for the BF? Sounds to me like he was testing you. Laying a trap of sorts. Not truly fair. He should have been more straight-forward with the way he handled it. Seems the answer he got didn't jive with his expectations. Sounds like you two have some things to discuss.

    I wish you well with it.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by NewMoon View Post
    I feel the same way. I think the more important question is "are you comfortable with it?" Not "is this prostitution?" It's just a word and so many people interpret it in different ways. [underline for emphasis added)


    I only mention this because it is a safety issue... getting arrested being unsafe and all, but I truly suggest to you that it is NOT open to interpretation.

    Prostitution in all states is a matter of codified law and is very specific. I'm not saying do or don't do. I am suggesting knowledge is power. KNOW the laws in the states and municipalities you work in. It can save you a LOT of problems.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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