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    Default Vent- This is going to sound whiney

    Ok, I know this totally is a woe-is-me thread, but its pretty much something only my stripper-sisters can commiserate with me on

    I just got my first turn-down from a club. The manager said "I'd really love to hire you, but this (motions to my waist) has to go. Come back in two weeks, promise?"

    I do have some lovehandles, but trust me, I'm not a fatass. I wear size 27 jeans! I was so heartbroken when he said this... I'm sure we've all been there so I know you all must know how I feel, the first time hurts! I'm positive there will be others but still.

    I'm not sure wether to actually tone up and go back, or take it as him just being nice.

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    Default Re: Vent- This is going to sound whiney

    when i moved to myrlte beach i got turned down by 2 clubs and that has never happened. it was because of my tattoos, but the club i ended up at was fine by me! i banked there

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    i remember my first rejection. it was for the same thing. i was also so heartbroken and very depressed. i didn't audition at another club for like 2-3 weeks i felt like no one would hire me. When i finally did audition, it was a very upscale club which is hard to get into, and just like i breath in, i also banked there.

    it was a friends club i got turned down at, and my friend tells me all the time the manager asks about me, and says to come back, so if you REALLY want to work there i would try to tone up because maybe they really do have a weight requirement. if not, another club will be happy to have you just the way you are!

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    wow.... I wear size 27 jeans too, i haven't been rejected, but I have been told (by rockstar) to lose weight and tone up.. also-- i was told this by a 400 pound neo-nazi. lol.

    I'm sure if you just go to the tanning bed, drink some detox tea (has dandelion in it which decreases bloating) and some toning exercises and go back in a week you'll be fine.

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    Sounds like they just have too many girls right now and want you to try again in 2 weeks. Not that your weight is too much at all!

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    I don't see how they expect you to lose anything considerable enough not to hire you in 2 weeks anyways.

    That really sucks. That club probably wasn't for you anyways.

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    NYC? Is this PEC? I have a friend who works there and she says that all the girls who work there are ULTRA fit. Like, they all must go to the gym together after work and stay there until it's time to go to work agian.

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    ^ like, have you ever worked at a club that's all blondes, all girls with long hair, etc? The club I work at now is almost completely skinny brunettes. We have very few blondes, and I find that odd for a strip club.

    If the manager is doing the hiring, he might be hiring only girls that he personally finds attractive, not girls who are objectively attractive, but perhaps not to him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anomar View Post
    Sounds like they just have too many girls right now. Not that your weight is too much at all!

    Probably the case ^^^^

    It's their loss, hunny. Next club!
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    It was Rick's. All the girls there looked really well put together, but I saw many that looked worse than me- the girl I auditioned with had a rather large ass with visible cellulite.

    Oh well... I think I actually may go back. I'm starting to get pissed off when I do 2 Champagne Rooms and leave after a 8 hour shift with less than the price of ONE of the rooms. Ugh.

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    don't feel bad. a size 27 is not big. so if I were you I wouldn't take it to the heart. If it's messing with your self confidence... I say do some cardio and tone up.... it'll make you feel a thousand times better even if you don't see drastic results at first. I always feel better about my body after working out.
    that's the business... we make money with our bodies and we are bound to get criticized for it.
    audition at another club... and if it really looks as if this first club is the place to make money try again in a month or two.

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    Awww... Sorry to hear that. I'm amazed Rick's wouldn't hire you. Eff that....
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    Wait-were you there tonight?

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    Yes, I was. At like 7:45-8ish. Black gown.

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    Aubrey, the SAME EXACT thing happened to my friend last week! She is very hot and I was so shocked that they made such a big deal about her "belly" which really looked more like "bloat" from a big meal or something.

    I would say, try again. And be sure to talk to the same manager that told you this. They really are bombarded with auditions constantly nowadays, so they have become so selective and irritated. Seriously, try again in 2 weeks.
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    Default Re: Vent- This is going to sound whiney

    I dont think thats whiny, im sorry That sucks. i saw your pics on myspace and i dont get it, i think you r hot .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aubreyyy View Post
    Ok, I know this totally is a woe-is-me thread, but its pretty much something only my stripper-sisters can commiserate with me on

    I just got my first turn-down from a club. The manager said "I'd really love to hire you, but this (motions to my waist) has to go. Come back in two weeks, promise?"

    I do have some lovehandles, but trust me, I'm not a fatass. I wear size 27 jeans! I was so heartbroken when he said this... I'm sure we've all been there so I know you all must know how I feel, the first time hurts! I'm positive there will be others but still.

    I'm not sure wether to actually tone up and go back, or take it as him just being nice.
    damn wtf, i WISH i could fit into size 27 jeans.

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    um...I just looked at your myspace and honestly I'm surprised. I know two girls who got suspended from one of my old clubs for being too big, and they went and got hired at Ricks (in NYC, not the Philly one). And they both are bigger than you. WTF? Maybe there was something else going on with them. There had to be.
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    Ya, what is messed up is that you'll go back and probably be hired and you'll be in the dressing room with girls who are WAY bigger than you, and some that are unattractive....it's always like that. Lame.
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    I would be upset at first, but then it would motivate me to come back looking BAD ASS.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aubreyyy View Post
    Yes, I was. At like 7:45-8ish. Black gown.
    With another chick in a purple gown? I saw you guys! I don't know what size 27 is but you're teeny! I just got hired, but maybe it's because I'm from the other Ricks. I would come back, too. There's a lot of thin chicks, but I saw a lot of bigger (AKA medium) girls Wednesday.

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    They don't hire at Ricks because of weird reasons. I auditioned and was turned down because "there is a girl who looks just like you" that already works there. I thought this was bullshit until My friend who works there confirmed that there is a girl there who looks a lot like me.. And then the same night I got hired at Hustler. Go Figure.

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    I just saw you on myspace too. You look great!

    It's the slow season in NYC and from what I'm hearing, money isn't so great at Rick's right now. Maybe they are cutting back on the hiring, which is actually a good thing!

    At least it's not like Rick's Philly where the hiring standards have dropped big time.

    But yeah, been there in Las Vegas. My friend and I almost cut our losses and changed our flights home after trying to find a club there.

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