UGH! How do you deal with the guy who wants to keep talking during dances? I can't dance and talk at the same time! And it makes things so awkward.... you know they'd enjoy it more if they just SHUT UP AND LET ME RUB MY SHINS ALL OVER THEIR DICK![]()




UGH! How do you deal with the guy who wants to keep talking during dances? I can't dance and talk at the same time! And it makes things so awkward.... you know they'd enjoy it more if they just SHUT UP AND LET ME RUB MY SHINS ALL OVER THEIR DICK![]()





Honestly, I think talking is a great way to keep them in there longer. Do you have to keep dancing? Could you just sit on his lap or whatever?




We do $20 table dances, which is where this happens. I'll let them talk ALLLL day if they want to do it back the CR, but when I'm already nekkid on the main floor, I either have to dance or get dressed and sit beside them (club rules).



That annoys me too. I try to keep dancing & pull out some extra sexy moves to distract him so he'll shut up. Usually works, but there are still the guys that turn into chatterboxes because they're so nervous/excited.





Bring on the talking! I just straddle him and rub my boobs or sway to the music. Easy 20. If they've already committed to the dance I'm getting that 20 regardless. Usually these guys have some money to spend too and you can use their nervousness to your advantage.
If they are SC familiar than I think it seems less lame to accept a dance and then talk through it and pay then upfront say that you'll pay for convo. Honestly, If I was a customer I wouldn't say i'll pay for convo because I'm sure some strippers get the cash and then sit there like a lame duck.
If you want your top on and you're wearing a bikini just pull it back over and if he says "what are you doing?!", tell them "oh with all that talk I didn't even think you'd notice!" and smile, undo it and continue dance. If he doesn't say anything then your covered but can still sway. What I usually get is "yha...I'm not really into dances, don't worry I'll still pay you" and then get dressed. Really a no lose situation.



I don't do dances on the floor, I refuse. So once they're in the back, I'll let them chatter away. I have quite a few custies that pay me to sit and talk in the CR, and several times a custy has bought long strings of dances or 15 or 30 minute skyboxes because of some bit of conversation we had in the CR or in a skybox dance.
My favorite, though, is when they just trail off or stop in mid-sentence during a dance and just kinda go into horny-man-lala-land. haha. Like: "Yeah, after school I... *b0000000000bs* ... uh... moved to... *hummanuhhummanuh* ... blergh!"
I love the talkative types.... they usually aren't as grabby with me and they are distracted and dont realize how much money they are really spending. :-)
usually after 4 songs I let em know we are getting into song #5 and ask if he wants to continue "having fun."


I don't mind a little chit-chat during the dance, but not a static conversation throughout the whole thing. For guys that are new customers for me or have never gotten a PD before, I will talk more to them just to get them comfortable.








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Look like a woman
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- My Great Grandmother Bessie's Recipe for Success
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