I wasnt really sure where to post this... But it is a common newbie post...
My boyfriend and I (of 3 years) just broke up. The reason was that I choose my job over him. I've been dancing for almost 2 months now, and I thought he was fine, than it just got to him. I feel like I was being pushed around so I held my ground, for once in our relationship. We had a baby less than 10 months ago, and I was so scared to be on my own, and have a MIA "Baby Daddy"! Now I'm not so sure. Talking to the girls at my club has allmost convinced me that a man isnt what we should be striving for. Im so ready to be all about my son, and actualy get to be 19!! But at the same time I wonder if I made the right decision. H shouldnt be allowed to change his mind, and he wouldnt quit if I asked him to.
Should I feel liberated or what, I'm confused more so than happy or sad. I hope I didnt mess up. I love dancing, and him... But I need to stand up for myself...
I guess this isnt so much a question more like a OMG I need to get al my thoughts out!!



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I know it hurts. Most of us have been there at some point, having to choose between our job and a partner who we thought would love us unconditionally. 

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