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    Default Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    Was wondering b/c I have met a few SWers lately at my club and i'm like "Shhh don't tell anyone". Now, it's not my place to tell them who they can and can't share SW with, but I like keeping it secret. I wouldn't feel like I could say everything i wanted to say and not worry someone was reading it and telling my customers or using it in someway to cause drama. The way SW has been going though anybody new probably won't stay for too long, so I shouldn't worry, lol (kidding).

    So what do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    I totally agree - they are not WORTH it if they haven't found it themselves.

    I only say that (snobbishly) b/c I heard this one dancer at the bar try to explain it to another dancer at the bar, and 2nd dancer's reply was, "What? Pfft, I have MUCH better things to do with my time!!"

    Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww??????? Ugh. Self-important-bitch-in heels.

    So, I'll save it for myself and my fellow SWs that I meet... We don't have "time" for girls like I mentioned ^^^.
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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    I've told very few that I could trust.Dont want a troll invasion

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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    I'll tell girls that I know are cool about it and that's pretty much it.

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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    I mentioned it to my housemom when she asked how I got to be a sometimes top-earner from the clueless wallflower I was when I started.

    I might have shared with some other girls but the only one at my current club that I am close enough with...already knows about it because we live together.

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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by JDanielle View Post
    I mentioned it to my housemom when she asked how I got to be a sometimes top-earner from the clueless wallflower I was when I started.

    I might have shared with some other girls but the only one at my current club that I am close enough with...already knows about it because we live together.

    Our top earners ( and i mean like 2k-4k a night not even kidding) are top earners b/c they fuck and suck (and it's sad b/c they are beautiful girls) but i couldn't say that if everyone knew about SW! I seriously don't even try to compete with them, I consider myslef a "clean" top earner. Im jacking my own thread. wine . hehe

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    Quote Originally Posted by MeanGirl View Post
    Our top earners ( and i mean like 2k-4k a night not even kidding) are top earners b/c they fuck and suck (and it's sad b/c they are beautiful girls) but i couldn't say that if everyone knew about SW! I seriously don't even try to compete with them, I consider myslef a "clean" top earner. Im jacking my own thread. wine . hehe
    I am lucky to be in a club where I don't think I have to compete with things like that. I could be being naive but I'm pretty sure my club's fairly clean. Definitely would never be up there with money if it wasn't.

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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    ^^ Trust me , more than likely it happens. I was naive too (and my club is suppposed to be the classiest in Dallas), but those are the type of girls that I don't want on SW. meh, im not complaing , but it does suck when I make $900 in 4 hours and you see them cashng out 5k and you just KNOW why. (i dont claim things until i see them personally either) I guess i am naive but i usually give people the benefit of the doubt.

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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by MeanGirl View Post
    Our top earners ( and i mean like 2k-4k a night not even kidding) are top earners b/c they fuck and suck (and it's sad b/c they are beautiful girls) but i couldn't say that if everyone knew about SW! I seriously don't even try to compete with them, I consider myslef a "clean" top earner. Im jacking my own thread. wine . hehe
    My club is the same way. I know one SW from my old, cleaner club on here.

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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    For the most part, no because I dont' talk to girls at work. I have confided in a few people (most recently a dancer on myspace, who told me about stripwatch) who I feel have a real interest about furthering their career.

    I also don't tell many because it seems like they don't own a computer.







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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    Im sorry but im lol'ing that u quoted yourself...i have never seen sthat before. Too cute.

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    ^^Hey, what can I say, I was really mad earlier. I even went and took a nap to calm my nerves lol...







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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by MeanGirl View Post
    ^^ Trust me , more than likely it happens. I was naive too (and my club is suppposed to be the classiest in Dallas), but those are the type of girls that I don't want on SW. meh, im not complaing , but it does suck when I make $900 in 4 hours and you see them cashng out 5k and you just KNOW why. (i dont claim things until i see them personally either) I guess i am naive but i usually give people the benefit of the doubt.
    but on the other hand, since they are making 5k/shift that way, that is part of why you are able to walk with ~250/hr for a very short shift. you are working where the extras girls are, well, charging extra and receiving it.

    it could be a situation where you were only getting 150 as a clean dancer and they were making 600, which would suck even more.

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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    i do not tell. i post too much stuff here that i wouldnt want people reading.

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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    no, not really. But meangirl, I don't see how it sucks that you get 900 for four hours, regardless of what everyone else is making!

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    Quote Originally Posted by miabella View Post
    but on the other hand, since they are making 5k/shift that way, that is part of why you are able to walk with ~250/hr for a very short shift. you are working where the extras girls are, well, charging extra and receiving it.

    it could be a situation where you were only getting 150 as a clean dancer and they were making 600, which would suck even more.
    That is a major benefactor behind the downfall of the Houston clubs.

    Example:
    Custy: What do i get for $100?
    Me: 5 unforgettable lapdances.
    Custy: Oh, nevermind *points to extras girl*, she offered a blowjob at that rate. Wish it was you. Too bad. *walks straight over to her*

    Sometimes, I don't know who is worse, the Houston customers or some of the Houston "dancers." No offense intended to escorts, I'm for prostitution, as long as it is kept out of my club! Wish that management would see it that way.

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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    I might have told my best work friend if she had had the internet, but she didn't.

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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    You'd be surprised at how many managers and what-not read these forums but don't register. Lurking!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maddie View Post
    You'd be surprised at how many managers and what-not read these forums but don't register. Lurking!
    Cant do that anymore...you have to register to read. Thats how I got sucked back in~LOL

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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    Eh. Like Cinammon said, most of the girls I've worked with I doubt had computers. I've never heard any of my coworkers ever mention SW. There's nothing I'd say on here that I wouldn't or haven't said to their faces so I'm not worried about being 'discovered' lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    i do not tell. i post too much stuff here that i wouldnt want people reading.
    You shouldn't say stuff without expecting people to find out (online and in real life).

    I learned that the hard way.


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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    I've mentioned it to other girls before, but I honestly can't even remember how it came up. I don't make a point of telling girls about it or of keeping it a secret.

    I certainly don't tell customers though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    You shouldn't say stuff without expecting people to find out (online and in real life).

    I learned that the hard way.
    yeah, but i just feel like it's kinda too personal. like if i wanna vent about my club, or my ex who works at my club, or my best friend, or whatever.. i dont want another girl reading that and using it against me. and even if i started following that rule tomorrow that i wouldnt post anything identifying (and then i wouldnt have much left to post ) there's still past posts/threads that could come up.

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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    There is a way to vent and be anonymous, but you'd have to be hypervigilant about club details, and of course events can be recognized -- if there's some big dressing room meltdown you describe, girls can recognize it. I suppose I've been lucky since I know girls I work with read here and don't post, but I haven't had too much shit to talk.

    I tell girls about it if they are fellow traveling dancers who I like and think are cool, or if they are totally green newbies with potential. I like working in clubs where the girls are all hot and professional and I think SW contributes to that.

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    Default Re: Do yall tell people about SW or do you keep it secret? and why?

    I used to mention SW left and right to dancers but very few were interested.
    Then one girl joined at my recommendation after she'd been attacked in a club
    and needed people to talk to. Then a few month later on she started using my
    music (I was the only one that danced to it and it wasn't top 40. Plus she was
    fucking around with the icky DJ so it's not like I was going to address it.)

    Now, I just let it slide and eventually started working somewhere else and stopped talking to her, but I was left with this kind of ew feeling--
    obviously you can take the girl out of the trailer park but you can't take the trailer trash out of the girl.
    She burned what had been a very useful bridge for her for what? two songs? because she couldn't come up with her own music to make her not feel like ugly potbellied hustling-challenge girl out with the crowd?

    So after that I very rarely recommend SW to dancers because really, I come here to relax and bitch, not to occasionally run across posts from some stupid trash who's got a fucked up life because she makes the same lame choices over and over again.

    However that's the problem with becoming friends who girls in this business---give them long enough and most of them will show their true colors.

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