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    Default Dancing at a gay club?

    Has anyone here danced at a gay club or bar?

    I'd like thoughts/tips/ideas!

    Or, if you're gay, pm me or respond here...

    I just feel like there are certain elements I'm not considering since I'm used to dancing for hetero males or partnered bi/straight females.

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    Default Re: Dancing at a gay club?

    I don't get how you'd make money.

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    Default Re: Dancing at a gay club?

    I think she's referring to a lesbian bar.

    It's kinda similar. Just not so catered to masculinity. You're dancing for people who like women, so showcase your womanliness and sexiness just as you would for any other audience.

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    Default Re: Dancing at a gay club?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sarah Andi View Post
    I think she's referring to a lesbian bar.
    oh, well, then how do you make money?

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    Default Re: Dancing at a gay club?

    Dang, I just wrote a long response and it deleted.

    Ok, quick recap: Go to a gay/lesbian club and ask if they have any dancers come to entertain.

    When I go out to gay clubs sometimes like once a month they have dancers (male and female at diff. times) come out and perform. The women ALWAYS leave after 2-3 song set with like a garbage bag of money! They don't even get nude/topless.

    Talk to the manager of the club and ask him/her if they would consider it. Trust me, if the other night clubs in the area aren't, they may be more inclined to start.

    P.S. More than likely you'll just be doing the stage set..no lapdancing/vips. But again, I guess it would depend on the laws in your state. Where I'm at, they just do the 2-3 stage set and collect a shitload of tips.







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    Default Re: Dancing at a gay club?

    I go to a gay club that has dancers on the weekends. There are like 8-10 small stages throughout the place u just rotate around. Honestly I see the men making more then the women but this may just be that one club. Also they work the floor for LDs here but there is no set charge for an LD. They usually just get a handleful of ones and stop dancing when the ones run out. I think there is plenty of money to be made. There is ALOT of prostitution goin on here though.

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    Default Re: Dancing at a gay club?

    We don't have specifically gay strip clubs here. There are gay bars, one that's mostly lesbians, and a few that are mostly gay. But I have seen girl couples come to my clubs. Also gay guys, with their straight friends. The guys aren't usually good money, but one in particular was really into me, and he swore up and down he'd never lay a finger on a vagina. lol

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    Default Re: Dancing at a gay club?

    I've worked as a go go dancer at a lesbian bar in Portland, OR. I've also been a customer at a large queer bar (gay men & lesbians) in Jacksonville, FL that had a group of female dancers that put on a show with the drag queens.

    I made decent tips as a go go dancer when I introduced myself and hung out with the ladies between 15 minute sets. But the money was MUCH LESS than what I make as a stripper. Probably because I was seen as eye candy, but not an "entertainer".

    The group of dancers that performed in Jacksonville called themselves "Lesbo-a-go-go". Each dancer would perform a one or two song set for an audience. The audience went wild and tipped VERY WELL. But realize that was a mixed crowd that was already "trained" to tip because they normally tip the drag queens.

    So in conclusion... I'd say it depends on the venue and the audience.

    As long as you market yourself and create a fanbase, you'll probably do alright!
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    The key to giving a truly great dance is being able to make the customer really believe that you WANT him and that you are genuinely enjoying being so close to him. Do this by looking deep into his eyes...and establish a nonverbal sexual and emotional connection with him. The energy between you and him determines everything. Trust me - if you do this, he will never want to leave, and he will always come back for more.

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    Default Re: Dancing at a gay club?

    I know there have been lesbian "circuit" parties where one attraction was go-go dancer. More fun than a money-maker, I would think.
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    Default Re: Dancing at a gay club?

    Lesbian go-go is like doing go-go for fetish clubs or any other bar.

    generally they pay you x amount for event or hour or number of set plus tips, bar tab and other perks. You get some tips. Breaks down pretty good per hour rate(lots of fun--you are fully dress getting paid just to dance yr heart out), but limited in shifts and number of hours you can work. It's not a living unless you do other gogo gigs or jobs.

    on side note Mirage if you went to lesbian go-go in Jville did you ever see a group called the cabret kittens and a dancer who was part of the trio with tiger print ink down her back named Taya Ball (the 1 in the middel of the attached tumbnail)becuz she was my g/f and I always like hearing what others thought of her show becuz I know she always put alot into it. I perfromed there a few times in drag w/the Jville kings and also had a hot fling w/ this girl(who's name I 4got) that used to work here in miami at our lesbian bar Splash where I met her and later ran lesbian go-go in Orlando.
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    Default Re: Dancing at a gay club?

    I'm not aware of any lesbian strip clubs. Just lesbian night clubs. Some local strip clubs do "ladies night" which is about the best you can get.

    It's true. Working at a gay club is more for fun than for money.

    And no, UV69, I've never seen the Cabaret Kittens perform.
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    The key to giving a truly great dance is being able to make the customer really believe that you WANT him and that you are genuinely enjoying being so close to him. Do this by looking deep into his eyes...and establish a nonverbal sexual and emotional connection with him. The energy between you and him determines everything. Trust me - if you do this, he will never want to leave, and he will always come back for more.

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    Default Re: Dancing at a gay club?

    I don't know of any, not in Austin anyways. I dance for lesbians at the club quite often. I don't see how a only lesbo club could have as much earning potential as a straight male+lesbian one aka any strip club that allows girl custys.

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    Default Re: Dancing at a gay club?

    Queer burlesque: http://www.myspace.com/thepinupgirlshow

    Sort of the circuit party/performance routine at some lgbtq spaces/clubs.
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