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    I'm a firm believer there are women who work as dancers and there are women who are dancers. Those are the girls where it's not just a job it's their identity it's who are, it's what they are, it defines them. I don't like to make assumptions but I'd bet most of you have worked with dancers like this before. She plays a character at work like most dancers but she also fucks guys she meets at work. She's has a low self esteem, she's a fairly easy pick up but she never does it directly for money. In some cases it's just a guy who she happens to find attractive but most of the time it's a guy who has money that she basically hopes will ultimately take care of her. In other words she's looking for a "sugar daddy". My questions are how common is that these days and what do you think of a dancer like that?
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    I'm actually offended by your characterization of what makes a "dancer".
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nuclear Martini View Post
    read this quote and then read AtomicPunk's sig. LOL!

    But, yeah, the question is a little offensive. WHo cares if a girl at work is desperate for a sugar daddy? If that is what she really wants, I hope she finds one and lives a happy life. NEXT!
    I have signatures turned off. And yes - but it is not just that. I see no basis for giving "women who are dancers" all these negative characteristics.
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    hmm dancing doesnt "define" me and im not looking for a sugar daddy..
    Got a third sterotype??
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    Quote Originally Posted by jennahoff View Post
    hmm dancing doesnt "define" me and im not looking for a sugar daddy..
    Got a third sterotype??
    A woman?

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    what is the question? do we know a slutty girl or a sugar baby? this seems more like a hate thread or a rant... everyone knows a girl like the one you described, dancer or not. Why does it bother you so much, did she take your boyfriend or something?

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    Your description of a dancer doesn't describe me or any of my dancer friends. Wondering, are you a dancer?

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    I knew this was a mistake to even ask. I was talking about one is particular. You can delete my account. I will never EVER come back to this pathetic place again.
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    You're a touchy one.


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    Quote Originally Posted by lola85 View Post
    what is the question? do we know a slutty girl or a sugar baby? this seems more like a hate thread or a rant... everyone knows a girl like the one you described, dancer or not. Why does it bother you so much, did she take your boyfriend or something?
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    Your description of a dancer doesn't describe me or any of my dancer friends. Wondering, are you a dancer?
    hes a guy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AtomicPunk View Post
    I knew this was a mistake to even ask. I was talking about one is particular. You can delete my account. I will never EVER come back to this pathetic place again.
    Please

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jayde81 View Post
    hes a guy.
    She probably still took his boyfriend.


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    ^^^ hahaha but i hope hes not a dancer

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    Quote Originally Posted by AtomicPunk View Post
    I knew this was a mistake to even ask. I was talking about one is particular. You can delete my account. I will never EVER come back to this pathetic place again.
    i really really dislike when people do this.

    i'm not saying what my viewpoint is on this particular thread, because it doesn't matter. but what good does "leaving" and especially "announcing" that you're leaving do? all kinds of people make this board work and it's really sad that a lot of people leave just because some people said some things to them that were at least taken as being rude/offensive/etc. i've been outright insulted/attacked before and although i considered "leaving", i rethought it.. and..

    i say:

    don't let anyone "run you off" and don't announce you're leaving because
    #1 what's the point?
    and
    #2 what if you take a few days/weeks/months and decide to come back? then you look silly for being so determined to leave.

    that goes for everyone.. not just this particular member/post.

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    ^^^Big knickers in a knot tantrum is pretty funny though! :-D
    I had to come back to check it was real!

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    I knew this was a mistake to even ask. I was talking about one is particular. You can delete my account. I will never EVER come back to this pathetic place again.
    Promise?
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    Gee this one will be sadly missed around here.

    Haha let me guess this girl fucked everyone EXCEPT YOU and now your butthurt. Oh diddums.
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    I knew this was a mistake to even ask. I was talking about one is particular. You can delete my account. I will never EVER come back to this pathetic place again.
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    You know ladies, I must be too simple. I mean, I wouldn't even think up a topic like this, much less post it here for your dissemination.

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    I knew this was a mistake to even ask.
    Well if its any consolation, you've had plenty of company in that department as of late. I mean, the top page of CC alone is a wasteland of unintentional comedy.
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    What's wrong with looking for a sugar daddy?

    I sure as hell am looking for a sugar mommy.

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    Whew! This has been a contentious thread. I'd like to give it a more positive spin:

    When I think of women who "are dancers," as opposed to "women who work as dancers," I have an entirely different take. I have seen some dancers who seem to have a dancing lifestyle. They don't act sexy. They feel sexy. There is a positive energy about them that comes from their dancing, but also transcends it. This may be just the fantasy they are portraying. But the one's who do it well always have my attention. :-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by AtomicPunk View Post
    I'm a firm believer there are women who work as dancers and there are women who are dancers. Those are the girls where it's not just a job it's their identity it's who are, it's what they are, it defines them. I don't like to make assumptions but I'd bet most of you have worked with dancers like this before. She plays a character at work like most dancers but she also fucks guys she meets at work. She's has a low self esteem, she's a fairly easy pick up but she never does it directly for money. In some cases it's just a guy who she happens to find attractive but most of the time it's a guy who has money that she basically hopes will ultimately take care of her. In other words she's looking for a "sugar daddy". My questions are how common is that these days and what do you think of a dancer like that?
    When I think of women "who ARE dancers" per your opener, they don't match up with the second half of the description. They have high self esteem because they have been conditioned to know that men find them attractive and will pay merely for their attention to to sit on their lap. If they think a man has money they want, they extract that money, they don't screw him to see if maybe he'll give it to them. They don't typicall take home men from work, or when they do its on their terms. And if they have a sugar daddy, it wasn't a mistake brought about by being a slut, it is a calculated and mutually beneficial arrangement between two consenting adults.

    You wonder why you have offended people, so please let me explain:
    You came onto a website called stripperweb. You met a lot of people who clearly identify as dancers. And then you said that women who identify as dancers have low self esteem and sleep with customers in hopes of being paid for it. I'm not trashing you... I am explainingwhy people didn't like your post. What reaction did you expect women who spend their time on a dancers website to have?

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    It's time for I'm going to sterotype all the women in an industry and then get butt hurt when they get offended! post number... shit! I lost count.

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    Yes I was a bit touchy. I was involved with this girl for several years. So it was a sensitive subject for me and that's why I shouldn't have asked. I guess it's one of those don't ask if you're not sure you want to hear the answer deals and also think before you post. I wasn't trying stereotype. I've indirectly brought her up before and said it was the dancers on this board that made me realize how fucked in the head she was. I would explain that but I'm sure you don't care and I don't want it taken the wrong way. I worded it wrong but whatever. I apologize for what I said.

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    Duh, we could of figured that out.

    Look, different strokes for different folks. People are amazed that I dance, because I don't fit the dancer stereotype. You could meet a ho just about anywhere, not just the stripclub.

    Hey man, you scored a bad apple we all do it's called life and hopefully you can heal from this experience, but it doesn't sound like you have.

    Women work in this industry for all sorts of reasons. Whatever! It's not my concern unless they're threatening my survival. I don't condone women who are looking for their golden ticket. I say good luck and that's what I'm saying to you.

    Holla!
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