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    so i recently moved to florida and the club i worked at back home i rarely had to ask for a lap dance, they just seemed to always ask me. now i feel out of my element and dont know how to really ask. please help! plus i always seem to be drug into a normal conversation about normal life things which doesn't help at all with asking for a dance, what do i do?

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    Default Re: asking if he wants a lap dance

    not what you were asking, but um...where was "back home"?

    florida sucks.

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    columbus, ohio

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    Re: asking if he wants a lap dance

    well you should stop cit-chatting about stupid shit and cut to the chase then you can make a sale. trying going up to a guy that has been checking you out for a bit now. you need to learn to make eye contact. and which part of florida do you live? how long have you been dancing for?

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    Default Re: asking if he wants a lap dance

    Always Be Closing. Keep control of the convo.

    See Colleen's thread down below:
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...d.php?t=120696

    Love it!

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    Default Re: asking if he wants a lap dance

    Here's some links that might help answer your question:
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...+lapdance+line
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...dances+secrets

    My best advice to you is to remember: the more you do something the easier it gets Next time you're at work, if you're feeling shy or unsure, ignore that feeling and go talk to a guy and ask for a dance. It gets easier every time you do it! Even if he says no, think of it as "practice" and then move on to the next guy.

    Another thing that helps me is thinking of it as a game. For example, I usually like to get 15-20 dances a night but it's too overwhelming to think of having to do that many dances when I first get to work - so I break it down. I tell myself "just get 5 dances. 5 dances isn't that big of a deal. you can do it" Then, when I get thsoe 5, I tell myself "well, you already did 5, what's another 5 more?" and so on and so on until I reach my goal.

    Also, watch the other girls (especially those that are always going to the lap dance area or CR with customers). How are they asking for dances? How long do they talk to the customers? What's their look/persona? Maybe even try to befriend the top girls. Try to find a "mentor."

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    Default Re: asking if he wants a lap dance

    i've been dancing for almost 2 years now and im dancing in tampa right now

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    Default Re: asking if he wants a lap dance

    Here's one i was just reading last night...

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=56217

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    ive been using the wanna get me naked line and it works like a charm..thanks everyone!

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    Default Re: asking if he wants a lap dance

    Quote Originally Posted by jessica0585 View Post
    i've been dancing for almost 2 years now and im dancing in tampa right now
    what club? if you don't mind me asking. you can PM me if you don't wanna say on here. i work at DH.

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