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    Default I just want to watch you dance on stage.

    I have no desire whatsoever to buy a LD from you -regardless of how HOT you are and how much I want you...

    I LOVE watching you dance on stage though... and I am happy to keep the dollars coming at you for that...

    Is this wrong? Do you hate me?

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    Default Re: I just want to watch you dance on stage.

    ^what she said.

    it also depends on a lot of other things, like your behavior when tipping, when dancers approach you, etc. too many factors and not enough info to really give you an idea thus far.

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    Default Re: I just want to watch you dance on stage.

    Okay... so what would you consider acceptable and pleasing?

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    Default Re: I just want to watch you dance on stage.

    lol do you hate us for trying to get a LD out of ya?

    You should get a t-shirt that says in big bold letters: Stage Tipper Only

    And yeah, keep those $$ coming!

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    Default Re: I just want to watch you dance on stage.

    No, I'm totally cool with you trying to go for the LD -I get that it's your job.

    I sometimes even "give in" because of that!

    So never stop asking ;-)

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    Default Re: I just want to watch you dance on stage.

    I'm very much like you in that when I go to a SC I prefer to spend my $$ on girls who are great entertainers.

    When I'm sitting at a tip rail it's always at least $1 per song for each dancer who takes the stage. Then from there, I'll tip more at my own discretion from $5 to several $100's.

    Of course the larger the stage tip, the more likely a dancer will think that you're sending her a signal that you wish to get a dance from her. If a dancer should come calling I always politely decline and let her know that I'm only there for the stage show but that I'll be sure to tip her when she's on stage.

    I've had more than my fair share of curious looks from dancers who could not figure out why I would tip them so much on stage and NOT want a private dance. Several times I've even had dancers offer to give me free dances because they felt some kind of obligation after I tipped them so well on stage. Kind of funny.

    In gereral I find that too many dancers are now focused on LD's as their primary source of income, and their stage performance is just an after thought. Oh well.
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    Default Re: I just want to watch you dance on stage.

    Well, I come from an area where stage is still a much bigger deal. People actually do sit at the rack and tip here, so my input maybe different than someone else's. As for how you should behave, here it is:

    1)If you're watching, tip at least a dollar per song. Never EVER try to tip less than that. It's already a more than fair price for having a beautiful woman dance seductively for you, don't insult me by acting as if I'm not worth the minimum.

    2) If you're the only one tipping, and you're only tipping the minimum, don't be pissed if I don't get fully nude. I'm happy to dance naked but if there's 10 guys watching me and only one who gives me $3 for 3 songs, I'd be shooting myself in the foot to let them think they can all get a free show. We don't sell as many air dances here and stage is an important portion of my earnings. If you want to be assured of seeing nudity, that's what the private shows are for.

    3) Don't tell me what to do on stage. This is my show, I will not take kindly to having orders barked at me.

    4) Don't tell me to "work for the dollar" or hold onto it as if evaluating if I am worth it. Just put down the dollar at the beginning of the song, sit back, and enjoy the show.

    5) don't try to touch or grab me.

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    Default Re: I just want to watch you dance on stage.

    I had a guy last night OBVIOUSLY enjoying my stage show, but only tipping minimum. When I asked for the dance, he said "oh, I NEVER buy lap dances". (and he proved it by not buying a dance from anyone all night, but continuing to tip $1 each time I came on stage) That's irritating. If he was dropping $5 or more per song, I wouldn't mind.
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    Quote Originally Posted by happytipper View Post
    Okay... so what would you consider acceptable and pleasing?
    it works better if you first tell us how much you generally tip and how you go about it.

    to give an example: if you're sitting stage side and tipping a dollar every song, chances are the girls don't exactly love you. if you're holding back the dollar till the girl "works for it" chances are, they hate you.

    but that's only one example on the more obnoxious side. if you tell us your habits, it's easy to say how we'd feel about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    I'm very much like you in that when I go to a SC I prefer to spend my $$ on girls who are great entertainers.
    thank god there are still guys who appreciate it. that is, if you mean actual dancing and not just "spread-the-legs".

    i do a more burlesque/pin-up style of dancing, (we don't have a pole) and most of the time guys are just like "why aren't you spreading your legs" lol ....... but i do also get tips from guys who compliment my dancing/style... and when i do it tends to be decent.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MiragePDX View Post
    I had a guy last night OBVIOUSLY enjoying my stage show, but only tipping minimum. When I asked for the dance, he said "oh, I NEVER buy lap dances". (and he proved it by not buying a dance from anyone all night, but continuing to tip $1 each time I came on stage) That's irritating. If he was dropping $5 or more per song, I wouldn't mind.
    yeah. it's really frustrating when you have a guy sitting there, obviously enjoying it, giving you a ton of compliments, and then he hands you a dollar bill after 3 songs of you busting your ass. then you go up to him afterwards and he's all "i don't get dances but omg you were great on stage"

    *sigh*

    it's like, thanx, but i could have waited your table at chilis for more.

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    Default Re: I just want to watch you dance on stage.

    Quote Originally Posted by happytipper View Post

    Is this wrong? Do you hate me?
    I never hate anyone tipping me on stage.

    It's not like you only tip special girls that talk to you, right? That's kind of obnoxious, but it takes more than that to piss me off.

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    Default Re: I just want to watch you dance on stage.

    It doesn't really bother me if a guy tells me that he doesn't buy LD, because now I know what I can and can't expect from him. It saves me time so I can go on to the next guy who will. But, if you don't buy LD, you can't be upset that I won't give you much of my time besides the stage & a, "Hi, good to see you again!" That's only because my time is money & I need to spend time finding those that do want LD. Other than that, I actually think is respectful of the customer to let me know up front that he just doesn't do LD. Big time saver.

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    Quote Originally Posted by happytipper View Post
    Okay... so what would you consider acceptable and pleasing?
    Stay at the stage and dont approach me on the floor and I'll be fine with u. We cant hustle guys at the stage at my club.
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    Default Re: I just want to watch you dance on stage.

    What the other girls said. Also, if someone asks for a dance, just say "no thanks". Not "maybe later" or anything like that. I won't cut my wrists later that night because you rejected me, I promise. Just say "no thanks" so I can focus on other customers.

    $1 per song is acceptable but if you enjoy a girl's show please for the love of god tip more.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    1)If you're watching, tip at least a dollar per song. Never EVER try to tip less than that.
    Uh, how could someone tip less than that? You mean that guys try to stuff quarters a dimes down a G-string?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BohemianSiren View Post
    ....I would encourage you to tip at least $5 per girl, per set, so long as you are sitting at the tip rail.
    A really, really silly questions:

    Is there any difference how a dancer sees a custy who gives a single five-dollar bill, vs five single-dollar bills? Does a dancer act any differently?

    I do have a preference.

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    Default Re: I just want to watch you dance on stage.

    ^Some guys will tip during the first song, say, a dollar, and then not during the next, even though they're at the rail.

    Though yes, some douches do try to tip in change. Mostly 20somethings.

    ETA: A five is better. Think of how many ones we have to cram into our rubberband&garter/purse/locker and you'll understand why. Also there's having to take time to go cash out when I get too many to carry. Anything that saves me time is more time I could be naked on someones lap! I always appreciate the $$ though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    3) Don't tell me what to do on stage. This is my show, I will not take kindly to having orders barked at me.

    4) Don't tell me to "work for the dollar" or hold onto it as if evaluating if I am worth it. ...

    5) don't try to touch or grab me.
    Uhm, do you really have to post rules (3), (4), and (5)? I mean, what kind of guys would do this? Neaderthals? Drunks?

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    Default Re: I just want to watch you dance on stage.

    Take the number of customers in the room, divide by two. With the appropriate amount of alchohol/peer pressure that half will engage in at least one of those activities.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bsteve View Post
    Uhm, do you really have to post rules (3), (4), and (5)? I mean, what kind of guys would do this? Neaderthals? Drunks?
    Um. Yes. Many of them. We see guys like those mentioned in 3,4 & 5 multiple times a night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bsteve View Post
    Uh, how could someone tip less than that? You mean that guys try to stuff quarters a dimes down a G-string?
    there are quite a few guys that sit stage side or at the tip rail and tip -nothing- the entire set. i've seen guys do that to 10+ girls in a row. just sit there drinking right at the rail.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheTempest View Post
    Um. Yes. Many of them. We see guys like those mentioned in 3,4 & 5 multiple times a night.
    ^definitely. i get at LEAST one "work for this dollar" guy a shift. what amazes me, is that when i completely ignore them, a lot of the times they start screaming at me. "HEY. HEY. COME HERE" as if the problem was that i didn't fucking SEE them.

    but no. if you stand/sit there and hold a 1 dollar bill to your chest like it's the holy grail, while making some face you THINK is sly/playfull at me... i will not go over to you. i just won't.

    and if i go up to you because you're holding money out, and then you pull it back toward you when i get there, i am instantly turning back around and going to the furthest side of the stage from you.

    it's my job, not a game, and i find it offensive when someone treats it that way.

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    ^These men are also known as the "That's it?" guys.

    Do a show. Wait for dollar.

    Idiot says "That's it?"

    Yeah. It's a dollar. You're not gonna get a full song on stage for that.

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    ^ my response to "that's it?" is (pointing at dollar) "that's it?"

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