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    i said i was going to quit this club but unfortunately, out here to make it anywhere with decent money here for a black girl, the standard barbie look is required. a wig can fix that but hey, i'm lazy. so i'm at a club that will let me wear my hair how it is (kinky twists). anyway, i'm rambling cuz i'm angry. back to the story it's this bitch named babydoll that goes out of her damn way to be mean to me. at first i thought it was the new girl thing. still sorta the new girl, but everyone else has opened up to me. she would always cut her eyes at me. tonight, it was DEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i didn't even make payout. well had i stayed to midnight i probably would've but as i'd been there since 530 i was worn out from sitting around on my ass. but babydoll is making a lil money. tonight she tried me twice. i was in the dr and these curlers were on. it was like 8 and they'd been on since i got there so i just turned them off. fire hazard. i leave. come back and she's there talking to this other girl "i wish a bitch would touch my curlers." i'm like whatever. later at the bar she comes and bumps all into me while i was with a custie. i cursed her ass the hell out. i hate to act like this but when girls act stupid, it's hard not to get stupid back with them. especially when they're making physical contact.

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    Let it go. Just ignore her completely. I know it's hard not to push back, but getting into it with girls over stupid shit will only bring you down.
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    Quote Originally Posted by happygiggles View Post
    i said i was going to quit this club but unfortunately, out here to make it anywhere with decent money here for a black girl, the standard barbie look is required. a wig can fix that but hey, i'm lazy. so i'm at a club that will let me wear my hair how it is (kinky twists). anyway, i'm rambling cuz i'm angry. back to the story it's this bitch named babydoll that goes out of her damn way to be mean to me. at first i thought it was the new girl thing. still sorta the new girl, but everyone else has opened up to me. she would always cut her eyes at me. tonight, it was DEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i didn't even make payout. well had i stayed to midnight i probably would've but as i'd been there since 530 i was worn out from sitting around on my ass. but babydoll is making a lil money. tonight she tried me twice. i was in the dr and these curlers were on. it was like 8 and they'd been on since i got there so i just turned them off. fire hazard. i leave. come back and she's there talking to this other girl "i wish a bitch would touch my curlers." i'm like whatever. later at the bar she comes and bumps all into me while i was with a custie. i cursed her ass the hell out. i hate to act like this but when girls act stupid, it's hard not to get stupid back with them. especially when they're making physical contact.
    It only takes 10 seconds to put on a wig. You're not that lazy are you? Especially not when it comes to the possibility of increasing your income. Just something to think about.

    About the girl..to me a few things could be going on. 1) is your club mixed? If so, how many black girls are working? Usually when it's a mixed club and there are so many working, it makes the pool of "white guys who like black girls" smaller. So, maybe you are cutting into her income. 2) I've read in a few of your threads that you like to sit back, talk to the customers for a while before asking for a dance. Maybe you are taking more time than you realize and again, that's cutting into her money. I personally, think it's the first one.

    As far as cursing her out, I hope you did that far, far away from the customer. That doesn't make either of you look good. Arguing doesn't always get you everywhere. For all you know, you've escalated the problem. What did she say in return? Hopefully you scared her enough to not nitpick with you again.







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    yeah. he went to the bathroom while i told her my piece. she tried to play it off like "damn, it was just a mistake" and i told her whatever but to watch her distance. looking at my crzy and talking mess are on a totally different level of her putting her hands on me.

    and the club used to be a mixed club but the black girls are taking over. i actually heard talk last night of them shutting it down. first, we had to reduce our hours. now, plenty girls are going home saying they can't pay the payout.

    so- yes i am that lazy. and funds have been low lately but my friend's gonna get me a wig so i can audition at these two other clubs tonight.

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    Just let it go, in the time it takes you to be pissed off and cuss her out you could have been doing a dance or at least looking for a new customer. It really is best to just let things go even that is easier said than done.

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    a girl at my club used to do that to me a lot. she's a bitch in general, but it was like why be mean to someone who makes like a fifth at best of what you make? really?

    some girls are just petty bitches.

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    So someone has to make less than you be justified in being a bitch? She's just a bitch. Let it go. It actually pisses them off more when you show you can't be bothered with something that they consider important because you are too busy working.

    I wish I had the energy to care about every girl that didn't like me at work. I'm at work...fuck if I'm going to get all bent out of shape over some girl's curlers, but you really shouldn't have touched them in the first place. If you really thought it was a fire hazard, tell management.

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    Yha don't give her the satisfaction of getting to you.

    You know you did the right thing about the curling irons, I do that all the time so if you here something like that in your head shrug it off because you ARE in the right. If they were hers and she left them on you'd have turnned them off too, they're a fire hazard either way.

    Her bumbing into you, I here you about it being a different story than just looks or words. If your talking to the guy and she does it say (not sarcastically) "hey lets move over to the dance area, it's getting crowed over here", or if you not "Man, I think it's time to go find a guy to sit with, too crowded in the DR/DJ booth/bar/where ever". I bet that'd piss her off, ahah. Sometimes if you play dumb, and it motivates you to do something she obviously doesn't like (you making money) then she should stop unless she's and idiot and a bitch.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    So someone has to make less than you be justified in being a bitch? She's just a bitch. Let it go. It actually pisses them off more when you show you can't be bothered with something that they consider important because you are too busy working.

    I wish I had the energy to care about every girl that didn't like me at work. I'm at work...fuck if I'm going to get all bent out of shape over some girl's curlers, but you really shouldn't have touched them in the first place. If you really thought it was a fire hazard, tell management.
    i understand what you're saying but i'm no concerned about her not liking me. all the petty shit she did was not bothering me til she started bumping all up against me. and it wasnt just a lil shove, coulda fell off the stool

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    Did you apologize for unplugging her curlers? It could have been as simple as that.

    She obviously felt that you disrespected her by touching her stuff. You really shouldn't have, but you did. If you truly felt they needed to unplugged and weren't trying to start drama (we don't know, we only have your side of the story,) you went about it the wrong way. We all mistakes. That's why you apologize and move on.

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    Oh I read it like the girl was saying "i wish someone would do something like that to me". If they really were hers then yha I'd just have said sorry I thought they were acedently left on".

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    how did i go about it the wrong way? i didn't say anything about the curlers. why would i apologize to someone who's indirectly speaking to me? the bumping had nothing to do with the curlers. girl never liked me from jump

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    Quote Originally Posted by happygiggles View Post
    how did i go about it the wrong way? i didn't say anything about the curlers. why would i apologize to someone who's indirectly speaking to me? the bumping had nothing to do with the curlers. girl never liked me from jump

    Like I said previously, you shouldn't have touched her stuff. In doing so, you disrespected her, which I'm assuming you didn't mean to do (but who knows?)

    So if she was inadvertently offended by your actions, you apologize. "Yeah, I unplugged them. I'm sorry. I just thought it was unsafe."

    Otherwise she thinks you meant to do it on purpose and she'll get mad. I mean, that's common sense.

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    I'm I on your ignore happy?

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    Quote Originally Posted by happygiggles View Post
    i was in the dr and these curlers were on. it was like 8 and they'd been on since i got there so i just turned them off. fire hazard. i leave. come back and she's there talking to this other girl "i wish a bitch would touch my curlers." i'm like whatever
    Quote Originally Posted by happygiggles View Post
    how did i go about it the wrong way? i didn't say anything about the curlers. why would i apologize to someone who's indirectly speaking to me? the bumping had nothing to do with the curlers. girl never liked me from jump
    I'm not trying to put words in anyone's mouth here..but when you heard her complaining about the curlers, why didn't you just say, "oh my bad. They've been on since 8, I cut them off cause that could be a fire hazard"







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    no joplin. dont have one. amd i'll be damned if i apologize to someone indirectyly speaking to me. i just didn't say anything. amd once again the curlers had nothin to do with her bumping into me. she did it just cuz she doesn't liike me. in this situation apologizing would've done nothing but make her feel that she can continue to try to bully me. but again i guess i was supposed to be super nice to her so she can continue..........

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    Quote Originally Posted by happygiggles View Post
    no joplin. dont have one. amd i'll be damned if i apologize to someone indirectyly speaking to me. i just didn't say anything. amd once again the curlers had nothin to do with her bumping into me. she did it just cuz she doesn't liike me. in this situation apologizing would've done nothing but make her feel that she can continue to try to bully me. but again i guess i was supposed to be super nice to her so she can continue..........
    By you saying it this way, it seems like you equally dislike her just as much as she dislikes you. So...maybe you are cutting your eyes at her, just as often she is cutting them at you.

    It seems like you are put off by the fact that everyone else in the club has befriended you and she didn't. Realize that alot of girls come to work to make money, not friends (like me)

    If you're not going to like her, then fine, don't like her. But, I don't think it's cool for you to make an attempt to portray yourself as the innocent victim in this whole mess of drama.







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    Quote Originally Posted by happygiggles View Post
    why would i apologize to someone who's indirectly speaking to me? the bumping had nothing to do with the curlers. girl never liked me from jump
    Because that is the adult, lady-like thing to do.

    You should have said something like "I'm sorry hun, I unplugged them cause xxxxx was getting too hot beside them, and I didn't want either xxxxx or your curlers to be ruined; if I knew you would have needed them, I would have moved them, but it's just a force of habit to unplug mine at home. seriously, I am sorry."

    It's what a professional does when they don't want drama, OR to rock the boat.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kitana View Post
    Because that is the adult, lady-like thing to do.

    You should have said something like "I'm sorry hun, I unplugged them cause xxxxx was getting too hot beside them, and I didn't want either xxxxx or your curlers to be ruined; if I knew you would have needed them, I would have moved them, but it's just a force of habit to unplug mine at home. seriously, I am sorry."

    It's what a professional does when they don't want drama, OR to rock the boat.
    Speaking of which, giggles, did you decide not to beat up your babydaddy's new girlfriend after all?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    Speaking of which, giggles, did you decide not to beat up your babydaddy's new girlfriend after all?
    ha... took the words right out of my mouth....
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    You have to learn to ignore bitches honestly...I've had my fights and I regret it because I lost money for a stupid bitch its not worth it

    The best revenge is success! get your money girl don't worry about females let them worry about you!
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    this is so ghettolicious

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    this is so ghettolicious
    Hey, you said it, not me







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    I dont get it, So she is hating on you because she makes more money?

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    no, she's hating, but, according to giggles, what right does she have because she makes more?

    You don't get it because it doesn't make sense....because normal, mature people don't act this way.

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