Hi everyone,
I just wanted to get some input regarding a situation that happened to me. Here is the scenario. I arrived at the SC around 11pm. While at the table, I noticed one dancer that caught my eye. While she was doing her set, I went up to here and tipped her a 10, hoping to get her attention and she said she would stop by after she was done. After she finished, she came by my area and we talked for a little bit. She then asked if I would like a dance. I told her yes and we went to the VIP room. After an hour and paying her for her time, she asked me if I was gonna stay. She had to go onstage again, but she said she would like to just sit and talk to me for a bit longer if I would stay. I said yes, I would defintely stay if she wanted to me because I really enjoyed talking to her.
Anyway, after she was done, she came back by amd we just talked and seemed to get along well. However, I noticed that there were still quite a few customers, so I asked her if she needed to, she could go onto the floor....I just didn't want to take up her time, especially if she needed to make some money. She said no, that was ok. Well, after talking for a little bit longer, all of a sudden she just started to dance for me. She danced off and on for me and we were having a great time, but at the end of the night, she said I owed her for ten dances. I was stunned. Yes, she danced, but she didn't ask me if I wanted any dances to begin with after the VIP room. Plus, I only had 100 extra left. When I told her I didn't have the money, she wasn't angry but started crying. I told her I was very sorry, but I didn't know she was charging me. So we both decided that I would give her the 100 for the dances, which was half of what she asked for.
Did I do the right thing or the wrong thing? I was not trying to get free dances, and if she would have asked me in the beginning after the VIP room, I would have told her I couldn't afford it. Was this a matter of miscommunication on both of our parts? After the fact though, I probably could have avoided this situation as well if I would have asked her if she was charging me for the dances too.
Anyway, I just wanted to get some input from the ladies regarding the proper protocol of how this should have been handled.
Thanks for your time and input![]()



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I'd be a little freaked out if the person I'd been sitting with just suddenly stood up and started dancing. An alarm has to go off SOMEWHERE that says.... she dances for a living. She's dancing now. I'll bet she expects compensation.



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